relationship with a provider

It's verry hard for most people to wrap their minds around a non-monotonous..er monogamous relationship.

My buddy and his wife have a swinging lifestyle. It's great from what i've seen. Communication between them is amazing. It's like they have their own language.

Shit. late for a session. will edit after. sorry.

Gloom, despair and agony on me. Deep Heart depression excessive misery. If it werent for bad luck I'd have no luck at all....... (tears) LOL Been there done that.... Go 4 it ! Enter at your own risk.

Go for it. Keep an open mind, a kind and patient heart, open lines of communication, set aside time for eachother, and enjoy the rollercoaster ride of life. If it doesn't work at least you'll have a good story to tell someday.

I still want to know who she is.

Jez - you and your guy are to be commended....
you truly make a great couple and are fun to talk with

Dennis I don't know about "commended" we are just two slurry sex addicts that managed to find each other LOL. He is just lucky cause I bring home random pussy. Lmao!!

This weekend is his birthday. And I reminded him most husband don't get their wife's pussycat on their birthday .... he will get as much random Kitty as he can handle.

EEEEEEeeeeeeee! Lucky guy.

I've seen way too many hobby relationships spiral out of control...so, I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. At the end of the day...it's your choice, but choose carefully my friend!

Jez...your situation is the exception and kudos to you and your hubby!

People often ask me if I have any words of advice for young people.
Well here are a few simple admonitions for young and old.
Never intefere in a boy-and-girl fight.
Beware of whores who say they don't want money.
The hell they don't.
What they mean is they want more money. Much more.
If you're doing business with a religious son-of-a-bitch,
Get it in writing.
His word isn't worth shit.
Not with the good lord telling him how to fuck you on the deal.

Avoid fuck-ups.
We all know the type.
Anything they have anything to do with,
No matter how good it sounds,
Turns into a disaster.
Do not offer sympathy to the mentally ill.
Tell them firmly:
I am not paid to listen to this drivel.
You are a terminal boob.

Now some of you may encounter the Devil's Bargain,
If you get that far.
Any old soul is worth saving,
At least to a priest,
But not every soul is worth buying.
So you can take the offer as a compliment.
He tries the easy ones first.
You know like money,
All the money there is.
But who wants to be the richest guy in some cemetary?
Money won't buy.
Not much left to spend it on, eh gramps?
Getting too old to cut the mustard.

Well time hits the hardest blows.
Especially below the belt.
How's a young body grab you?
Like three card monte, like pea under the shell,
Now you see it, now you don't.
Haven't you forgotten something, gramps?
In order to feel something,
You've got to be there.
You have to be eighteen.
You're not eighteen.
You are seventy-eight.
Old fool sold his soul for a strap-on.

Well they always try the easiest ones first.
How about an honorable bargain?
You always wanted to be a doctor,
Well now's your chance.
Why don't you become a great healer
And benefit humanity?
What's wrong with that?
Just about everything.
Just about everything.
There are no honorable bargains
Involving exchange
Of qualitative merchandise
Like souls
For quantitative merchandise
Like time and money.
So piss off Satan
And don't take me for dumber than I look.

An old junk pusher told me -
Watch whose money you pick up.

-William S. Burroughs

Pixel. ..... I believe that is the most pessimistic thing I have ever read. Lol

Damm Pixel. I'm speechless. Thanks for the insight sir.

Likki- I've never met you ma'am but thank you too.

Personally I would be able to do it since I am very open minded and have never really had any jealousy issues. The problem would be finding someone without a huge amount of baggage.

I'm almost certain I could do it, but she would have to be really, really hot lol....

yall that say you could do it longterm are full of shit! lol