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Its not cheating if she does not know about it. Originally Posted by pyramider

whatever makes you feel good at night.....

I asked that very question recently and I was surprised that alot of the men felt that if the act was more of an intimate exchange, then that was cheating. Not just sex but intimacy, talking, holding hands, sharing private jokes and etc.

So a blowjob with no emotional investment wasn't really cheating but holding hands and having coffee was cheating. I really thought more women than would have agreed with the Intimacy point.

I like the "If you can tell your spouse then it's not cheating" answer.

+1. Unless it's (a) your hand; (b) your wife's hand; or (c) she's aware and consents to it being neither (a) or (b) doing the L1 then you're cheating dude! Originally Posted by txcwby6

Yes it is cheating...And I totally agree with your answer txcwby6