😒 let's not

Research, roy! Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Plz do. And get check back with me after you find nothing. Lol

Fyi I'm independent. Not one member that has met with me can say anything negative about me. No pimp. No manager no none of that. Has anyone one this site had a run in with a guy when meeting me.? No. Have I set anyone up to get robbed no. Do I provide. Yes. So what are we really talking about. Just some little bitter bitch and company.

What police sting drama? Never been involved. Secondly, yes I am not friends with some people I was once friends with. And I was referring to Hailey when I was talking about the drugs and being on the way out. And this post in its entirety is in response to one of the men hobbyist who is spreading rumors about me due to the fact I would not go on a lunch date with him. I dont have a shitty attitude. But if you play games, I'm not going to be so nice because thats my time and money wasted.. Especially if you are spreading rumors cause you dont like me anymore or just because I wouldnt go out to eat with you. Thats lame.. And childish. If someones bashing my name im going to respond and address the situation. Sorry not sorry. Originally Posted by Ayohannah

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and as far as the man hobbyist who was not only a repeat customer! but also willing to buy you lunch after he had a session with you. now i understand time is money in this endeavor we all play in!

but maybe just maybe had you gone out to lunch with this repeat customer hobbyist! probably would have solidified the return and repeat business and put you up there on his list as atf material! this not only would have put more $ in your pocket from him but he also would refer you to other hobbyists putting even more $ in your pocket!

and please dear re read your response to my post and then re read it again and tell me if that response does not come off as catty and shitty attitude when all i was doing is offer you advice to help you!

i see myself as one of the upper tier members on this forum granted i have not been here as long as many of the other top tier members but i also have not been here a mere 14 days either!

all im saying dear is take some advice and some criticism and learn from it and grow! or don't and fail idc either way i am not the one depending on money from men like myself to survive and pay my bills!

but i have bee round here log enough to see warning signs that you are most likely going to fail altogether at this or end up something else in this lifestyle! if you don't change your attitude!

like i said idc either way its not my money it is affecting but as a man who spends my money in this hobby i can tell you i would spend my money elsewhere! even though you're the type of gal in my wheelhouse! there are to many red flags when it comes to you that tell me a session with you could go any number of ways good or bad. stop for a second and let that sink in and remember where your money comes from hobbyists just like myself!

Plz do. And get check back with me after you find nothing. Lol Originally Posted by Ayohannah

Guess fake news has made it to hookering. lol Deny. deny. deny.

Guess fake news has made it to hookering. lol Deny. deny. deny. Originally Posted by royamcr

Omg. Ctfu 😂😂 that made my day. Lol you're funny. Lets #makeentertainmentgreatagain

Ctfu..?!?

Ctfu..?!? Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Sometimes you just gotta google it. lol

Omg. Ctfu 😂😂 that made my day. Lol you're funny. Lets #makeentertainmentgreatagain Originally Posted by Ayohannah

#makeyounghookersswallowagain

Just my input, but you’ll be dealing with this quite often considering you’re new & you’re young. You’ll come across clients who will think because you’re new to this hobby they can “get over” on you. They’ll think because you’re young, you’re gullible. I really hope you are independent because I truly feel sad for any woman who gets into this line of work & thinks they need a pimp/management, you can most definitely do this on your own. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being assertive with a client & telling him you’re not comfortable partaking in outside activities & you do not owe anyone an explanation. But sometimes you have to pick your battles wisely. If he gets mad at you & threatens to throw dirt on your reputation, really think about it... how stupid will he look talking crap all because you weren’t interested/comfortable going to Denny’s with him? Super stupid. & In the long run he will be causing himself more grief than you, because I definitely wouldn’t see a guy who gets mad at ladies for not wanting to meet up off the clock for some Denny’s.
I have a few regulars I’ve been seeing 4+ years & I’m not opposed to going out to eat with them or shopping at all. One thing I’ve learned in this hobby, the best clients are the ones you build somewhat of a bond with. Repeat clientele will definitely get you far. But from what you’ve shared, this guy wasn’t respectful of you at all & like I always say, not all money is good money, never hesitate to cut a client off if you feel you’re being treated less than.

Very well said Kat. Lady's should always be comfortable and safe with the person they are spending time, regardless of the situation. As far as the hobbyist goes, no means no, get over it.

Sometimes you just gotta google it. lol Originally Posted by royamcr

Oh... yeah...

Thanks, roy...

And excellent post, Kat... gawd, that's why we all luv ya...!

Good stuff kat!

Good stuff kat! Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

+1

Hannah,

Reread Kat's coments (for perhaps a 3rd time).
She has been there for every comment she makes.
Yes some guys are azzes. But, most are not.
And yes time wasters are azzes.
Note that guys that earn civie time with a gal, are usually long time repeat dates, but of course it's still at the gals discretion.
Thus, anyone attempting to demand civie time is by definition, an azz.