What if you never started this hobby?

the upside: i would have about $200,000 more for my IRA, Roth IRA and taxable acct, resulting in knowing i'm been pretty well set for the rest of my life.

the downsides:
* never had some total body shaking/orgasms from receiving incredible fellatio.
* never had some incredible threesomes and foursomes
* never visited swingers clubs w/ one, two or three sexy provider women.
* never spent the night w/ one or two sexy provider women.
* never received fellatio in a car in a hotel parking lot or parking garage
* never had to say "why the fuck did i just do that?!?!?!" multiple times (tho less than 10 in 17+years)

except for the fellatio, i could have dealt w/ missing the rest.

Never would have received tuma

Would've never been married to so many women 1 hour at time then left them thru a week, month, or year for less than a divorce would cost from 1 woman.

1. It would have taken years more for me to lose my virginity because I was so insecure and terrified that I would dissapoint any future partners.

2. I would be less comfortable with my own body and sexuality. Or rather, totally unfamiliar with it.

3. I would lack so much self-esteem. My whole life I had convinced myself that I was ugly and sexually unattractive. Making providers orgasm, spending time with them, and some exceptional experiences showed me I was wrong.

4. I wouldn't have something wonderful to look forward to on a regular basis.

5. I wouldn't be in so much debt. Oh man.

The Pope would declare me a Virgin again.

4. I learned that I really like women with full sleeve tattoos or heavily tattooed women as long as they are professional and minty fresh. No thank you to tramp stamps.

5. More than anything I would not have discovered my "type" which is all about a great ass, hips (36-38),nice curves and brunette....I don't even need big tits...I just want that juicy ass! Originally Posted by FunMonday

Well hello there

First, I would never have had the experience with so many beautiful women. Some of them have been drop dead gorgeous.

Secondly, my sex life with my wife would have continued to be vanilla (as it still is with her) because she's a lovely lady with no interest in alternatives.

Thirdly, because of number 2 I would never have realized how much I enjoy being sexually teased, restrained, and even pegged.

Other than that....

Some great experiences above, lessons, too.

Here's the thing:

Looking back has its values and memories but none of us can change the past.

We can, however, learn from it and, possibly, benefit from our experiences going forward.

otoh, knowing what most of us know now, my guess is all of us would have hobbied --- much smarter!

Idk
The hobby showed me a lot about myself and taught me a lot about women. Their needs and sensitivities. Also showed me that women can be comfortable just having fun in the bedroom without inhibitions.
I'm just a novice compared to most of the guys here, but the ladies I've been with have been great.
I'd have more money, but I can make more money. Can't replace the memories

my dogs asshole would be the size of a grapefruit

My eyesight would be off