Question about tipping

If you give the lady extra money before the session...it's part of the donation.
If it's at the end of the session...it's a tip.

Giving her more money upfront doesn't insure you will have a better time.
Letting her know you are open to tipping...might

Now, as far as amount, let's not turn this into a rates battle, but seriously guys; it's called inflation. My car alone costs more than 20 to fill up its tank, and it is a small/eco car. (I reeeeally need to switch to a hybrid...)

Y'all want to bitch about service and shitty in-calls but pay pennies for good service.

In this hobby, you get what you pay for.

I don't expect a tip ever; but my advice is, if you are going to tip, tip right. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

You bitching about gas costs, seriously. I remember when oil was over $100 3 plus years a go and gas was damn near $4 a gallon. Also not been my experience "you get what you pay for". Research before hand goes a long way.

Why not just see a newby-friendly provider or do the alternate screening until you've got a couple references?

The gals who are thick enough to fall for the whole "yeah, I'm a new guy but I used to be on aspd & I'm a generous tipper!" are probably the one's you don't want to see. ijs

Most clients tip me 20-40,

After the session.

If you give the lady extra money before the session...it's part of the donation.
If it's at the end of the session...it's a tip.

Giving her more money upfront doesn't insure you will have a better time.
Letting her know you are open to tipping...might Originally Posted by tbone2u

I agree with this...don't give away your bargaining chip, influence, and motivation tool upfront...but don't be like the fucking cheap ass tricks at the strip clubs who thinks he's done something when he leaves the girl $1 or $2 bucks and walks from the stage with swag like he just scored or some shit.

I rarely tipped with cash. But for girls I really like such as PrincessLiv or YoungAngel, I researched their profiles and tried to buy some gifts of brands they like or nice chocolate gift boxes. Those are actually more expensive than regular tips of $20-40. But it is well worth it for these girls who I really enjoyed.

Good afternoon everyone. I am looking for honest feedback about tipping providers, from both sides of the fence.

I have seen 4 (2 still active and 2 retired or UTR) providers in the past several years from here and I have plans for another soon. I realize this is my first post but I stay very UTR and I'm genuinely curious about this. In the past I just made an assumption about the person I was seeing based on reviews and tipped in the upfront donation envelope. Thinking back now this was probably foolish on my part.

So my questions are:
When seeing a provider how is tipping actually handled? After the session and in a separate envelope, or after and just handing over money directly and complimenting them on the session?

Does anyone have guidelines for how much, such as a percentage or flat amount?

I did do some searching on here, but I did not come up with much information on this topic. If someone has a thread to direct me to I would be happy to read up.

Thanks for the feedback. Originally Posted by jgordon

Google is your friend...

A provider will always appreciate a tip.

$40 should be the minimum.

Put it with the entire donation. It makes me nervous to have extra cash pulled out during a sesh (even if it's at the end.)

Hope this helps. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

$40 a minimum lmfao you should be lucky your ass gets $20 A whore telling a trick what the minimum is that's hilarious... Especially telling them to tip before session lmao TFF...

I want to go left so bad but I'm going to be NICE... NEW YEAR NEW ME WHOOOSA...

Giving her more money upfront doesn't insure you will have a better time. Originally Posted by tbone2u

If she mentions "X" for the hour and you drop X+ up front it can, but nothing is ever "insured" unless there's a relatively long history of knowing one another. Even then folks have an "off day"! But that's the value of regulars.

you drop X+ up front it can, but nothing is ever "insured" . . . Originally Posted by LexusLover

Has anyone ever teard that T-I-P-S stands for To Insure Prompt Service?

I'v gotten tips over 50$ from meany regulars each tour
and that is very sweet ,,

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