If you had the option would you bareback FS a provider?

Over the course of my 17-18 years of hooking up escorts and strippers, yeah it’s happened, Intentionally and unintentionally. I’ve never BB a streetwalker and I definitely stopped such activity after the proliferation of advertising on Craigslist and Backpage. There was a time when escorts only advertised on Eros and APSD or were available only through agencies and other sites which provided at least an illusion that they weren’t fucking joe blow off the street for $50. Was it safer, maybe only slightly more so. Strippers as well were pretty costly to fuck since you had to pay for VIP and services. The more expensive the more likely a smaller pool of guys BBing and the appearance of girls actually being “low volume”. Now no such illusion of safety exists and the definition of low volume is defined by dicks per day rather than dicks in general.

My personal experience has led me to believe that all escorts strippers and streeetwalkers no matter what they claim have and will BB a guy whether it’s after a certain number of visits or based on upsell of services. Now, 90% of escorts will claim they don’t and 90% of clients will claim they don’t but I’m willing to bet that it’s far closer to 50/50. I and several friends of mine have been doing this a long time and talked to a lot of whores over 2 decades and very few have been honest. I’m sure you’ll get very little honesty in this thread.

I suppose you’ll stand by your statement that you’ve never, not once, BBed a client. Could be true but if you had, would you admit it?

no way thats nuts

Over the course of my 17-18 years of hooking up escorts and strippers, yeah it’s happened, Intentionally and unintentionally. I’ve never BB a streetwalker and I definitely stopped such activity after the proliferation of advertising on Craigslist and Backpage. There was a time when escorts only advertised on Eros and APSD or were available only through agencies and other sites which provided at least an illusion that they weren’t fucking joe blow off the street for $50. Was it safer, maybe only slightly more so. Strippers as well were pretty costly to fuck since you had to pay for VIP and services. The more expensive the more likely a smaller pool of guys BBing and the appearance of girls actually being “low volume”. Now no such illusion of safety exists and the definition of low volume is defined by dicks per day rather than dicks in general.

My personal experience has led me to believe that all escorts strippers and streeetwalkers no matter what they claim have and will BB a guy whether it’s after a certain number of visits or based on upsell of services. Now, 90% of escorts will claim they don’t and 90% of clients will claim they don’t but I’m willing to bet that it’s far closer to 50/50. I and several friends of mine have been doing this a long time and talked to a lot of whores over 2 decades and very few have been honest. I’m sure you’ll get very little honesty in this thread.

I suppose you’ll stand by your statement that you’ve never, not once, BBed a client. Could be true but if you had, would you admit it? Originally Posted by 1blackman1

as honest an answer as u will get and very similar to my thought

I don’t go seeking it, but yes it has happened in the heat of the moment. Esp when there was a mutual attraction. Thank god I’m fixed.

I'm sorry but to be blunt && I know I will get More backlash for this , bc im supposedly "Judging"

I love my Life

I love being able to live w/out Itching, Discharge,Burning,Longterm Cough ect ect...

I want to be able to not have to take Medication for the Rest of my life for a uncurable disease


I Can't Afford to take chances like that. This Side Career is not my End Game. I plan on Getting married and living a Fulltime normal Civie Life.


I thinks its outrageous you believe bc a girl is low volum she's more safe. All it takes is one take and that's a Wrap. Just as in the real world outside of this Fantasy life

So to answer your Question. Nope. Not worth it

This happens more than everyone thinks. Continual clients often get this reward. I have often been asked but haven’t partaken. I use to see a shelia in Houston who persisted on having an Aussie cream pie. I’m not going to risk it.

Even though STD’s are less bloody common with BBBJ’s there’s still a risk. I just turned 47 and never had an STD. Life is too short to risk one hour of passion for a lifetime of regret and misery.

Besides, my youngest is graduating and going off to college and my oldest finishes college next year and getting married. I want to enjoy life and retire at 57, spend time with my someday grandchildren and enjoy my remaining years fishing.

So, to all you blokes and shelias, you’re all grown ups to make your own decisions.

Here’s my quote-
IF YOU DONT USE YOUR HEAD, YOU JUST ASSUME HAVE TWO ASSHOLES

—The Aussie

I wouldn't do it. Too much risk with family at home. I've been offered BB Greek and turned it down. Over the many many years though I've had a few condoms break unwittingly and had a few come off as well. I've always gone out and gotten tested after those instances though and did my best to practice celibacy until the results came back.

Interesting thread..... it do and will happen at one point or another in real life or in this hobby

I don't do that either and sometimes I can't get off especially if it is a regular sized hat, too much pressure. I have however been requesting female condoms which to me is more natural. The thing is this state has a high number of people being treated for STDs.

Youd be amazed how many men want bbfs! Also a few guys practice stealthing

I don't do that either and sometimes I can't get off especially if it is a regular sized hat, too much pressure. I have however been requesting female condoms which to me is more natural. The thing is this state has a high number of people being treated for STDs. Originally Posted by wildwing

Stds can happen to anyone. Also birth control can fail. Someone can test negative one day and contract an std the next.

25 year old me would and did. 50 year old me - nope. Not worth the risk to me.

I have BB options - if that was the big deal.

BBBJ? Yeah, preference.

Full service? Pregnancy, even having to be court ordered to take a pregnancy test, would be devastating to my life in certain ways.

STD? Can't take that risk.

I get tested regular even with.

The ONLY BBFS I do is in a trusting relationship. I've had a very few of those come up in my life - and they have been "organic" - friend of a friend. And a few through SA - but in almost all friends and without exception ALL SA - we go to a clinic together. Verified birth control IN PLACE and clean - and someone I trust (as much as anyone can trust anyone).

I'm not saying it would NEVER happen now w/ a provider - but only if someone we became more friends w/ benefits and a deep trust developed.

That's another difference between 25 me and 50 me - I'm much less trusting - at least deep trusting now - I realize people will act in accordance with their human nature almost predictably - altruism is rare.

Been in the biz for 14 years part time and nope never have. Had a few requests and declined them obv... and one client in Nola who pulled the stealthing act. Needless to say he is on the DNS anymore list.

I cant lie and say I never have. As recently as last year I had bb with a provider a few times. I have turned it down 50 times for every time I have accepted it. I really dont worry about catching an std. Catching hiv from normal intercours can happen but its not as easily passed as most people think. Herpes is what scares me the gift that keeps on giving as I call it. Thing is you can catch that even with a condom on if the girl has open lesions or has viral shedding going on at that moment. Your gonorrhea and others like it can be taken care of with a round of tetracycline so while not any fun not the end of the world. I have a full std panel done every three months anyway because I am a bit of a hypercondriac and always think that I have something because of all the partners I have both civilian and profesional.


What I worry about doing bb with anyone but especially providers is pregnancy. I dont want to have a child with a woman who lives this lifestyle. I have nothing against women who do this and I am not saying they are unfit mothers I am just saying I wouldn't want my child growing up with a prostitute mother. I know some kick ass moms who sell ass but I wouldn't want my child to grow up around that.

So I try to turn it down every time its offered and do very well most of the time. But when its a smoking hot 20 year who you would cut off your left nut to be with and she says "since I like you and were seeing each other kind of regular you dont have to use that anymore" that my friends is exceedingly difficult to turn down. Lets face it there is no comparing how it feels bare to how it feels covered. At least to me. I just keep waiting for one of these young girls that I seems to lose common sense over to show up with a sonogram telling me I am going to be a daddy.

I’m not sticking my life into her life without a party hat no matter what. I always ask if she’s prepared with magnums. I prefer not having to stop and buy them first but I will if she’s not prepared.