Please no more visiting NBA we already have enough of our own LOL

Any WW here is not my competition. I mean, she's white and I'm black. We are not the same except both being female providers. We all have preferences. If a gentleman is looking for a WW then a BW isn't going to do it for him and vice versa.

Let's face it I'm in sales. Each and everyone of us providers have a different selling technique.
You may have considered my sales pitch to be negative and that's okay with me however it's still in your mind. I like the fact that you remember the ad.

No WW here should have been offended because of that ad as she knows I'm not her competition and she's not the buyer.

At the end of the day I'm only concerned with my purse and not the next providers purse. She's not concerned with my purse either.

We are all different and there's something for everyone

The OP should stop whining. Everyone knows when a provider says NBA that's not always 100% concrete and if it is just move on. No need to whine about it.
No offense taken Basscat. Glad you clarified.
This topic has been exhausted multiple times.
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The issue is not necessarily race as it is security. For the most part your average black client poses a high security risk for a provider especially, if she is independent. Many blacks are pimps, and a independent provider is actually competition for his girls. Many providers black and white have NBA policies, because of the threat of confronting a pimp, that wants them to work for them. Also, there is a higher risk of getting robbed. Many younger black thug types will produce the donation, and when business is over take it back along with any other money the provider has. This risk is minimal with white clients who are generally just looking to hobby. There are many mature black males who do not engage in such tactics, but they usually have to suffer, because of the risk posed by the younger.
The whole thing is lost on me... But what the hell do I know I am a 40 year old middle class white guy from the deep south. Originally Posted by BassCat
THIS is all you needed to say...if anything at all
The issue is not necessarily race as it is security. For the most part your average black client poses a high security risk for a provider especially, if she is independent. Many blacks are pimps, and a independent provider is actually competition for his girls. Many providers black and white have NBA policies, because of the threat of confronting a pimp, that wants them to work for them. Also, there is a higher risk of getting robbed. Many younger black thug types will produce the donation, and when business is over take it back along with any other money the provider has. This risk is minimal with white clients who are generally just looking to hobby. There are many mature black males who do not engage in such tactics, but they usually have to suffer, because of the risk posed by the younger. Originally Posted by GOOD TIME CHARLIE
You have obviously not watched the news cycle lately and seen how many white males have been busted for trafficking etc.
I discriminate all the time (i.e. ethnicity, body type, age, smoking status, etc.). Does this make me a racist? I sure hope not. I have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people from various different ethnicities and body types. The point is, I have my preferences and use said preferences to choose whom I will spend time with. Thus, I will not denigrate a provider for doing the same.

That being said, I can relate to the subject at hand because there has been some gorgeous ladies to visit town that I would have hoped to see but couldn't due to the NBA policy...brings to a mind pair of ladies advertising doubles here recently that I would have loved to ravage. But where there is disappointment there could always be happiness if you don't let those disappointments get you down. I took that desire and poored it into two other wonderful ladies this week. If they could tell it, I am sure they would say that they enjoyed having this middle aged, professional African American fuckkkkkk the shit out of them.
I discriminate all the time (i.e. ethnicity, body type, age, smoking status, etc.). Does this make me a racist? Originally Posted by DeepThunder69
The ethnicity part does.
That’s a good way to put it P..... cause I have my preference light skin or white I never been with anyone darker than me Originally Posted by lat
Annnnnd...that's just as dumb.
As someone here said, this topic has been beaten to death. If my length of time here, reviews, reputation, and 25+ okays on p411 are not enough...FUCK HER. She doesn't deserve my hard earned money. My method is to PM the provider once to find out if she makes exceptions. If not, refer to my first sentence.
The issue is not necessarily race as it is security. For the most part your average black client poses a high security risk for a provider especially, if she is independent. Many blacks are pimps, and a independent provider is actually competition for his girls. Many providers black and white have NBA policies, because of the threat of confronting a pimp, that wants them to work for them. Also, there is a higher risk of getting robbed. Many younger black thug types will produce the donation, and when business is over take it back along with any other money the provider has. This risk is minimal with white clients who are generally just looking to hobby. There are many mature black males who do not engage in such tactics, but they usually have to suffer, because of the risk posed by the younger. Originally Posted by GOOD TIME CHARLIE
I beg to differ...if said provider is a professional, than proper screening should weed out undesirables. Case in point, when I see an ad for a provider that gets my blood pumping, I do my homework (i.e. read reviews, pm members about red flags, etc.) to see if we would be sexually compatible. A provider could inquire in their powder room, pm references, check black list site, etc. This tells me that chosing not to see African Americans is a personal preference to which I really don't have a problem with. But if by chance a woman choses not to see an African American for the reasons that you mentioned (i.e. pimps, thugs, etc.) then she truly does need help. Especially, if she's a member on this site or one of the reputable competing sites where info on Johns is readily available.
The ethnicity part does. Originally Posted by ilovethemgirls68
I knew that someone would catch this. lol I admit it. For the longest time, I have had a desire to see an Asian woman. Just last week I had the pleasure of meeting one. I saw her because she was Asian. She just happen to have a lot of other qualities that I fancy in women in general. But again, I saw her and not any of the other providers that were available because she was Asian.

And for the record, I am really enamored with the possibility of being with a little person and will jump at the opportunity should such a woman ever make her presence here locally.

The point is, ethnicity and race has definitely played a part in my decisions on who I have seen...not on who I wouldn't see.
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  • 02-14-2018, 07:21 AM
Annnnnd...that's just as dumb. Originally Posted by ilovethemgirls68
Now how is that just as Dumb ....... that’s my preference I am AA,my whole family is mixed just all my life in dating I only dated light skin women those are the ones that caught my eye . On the other hand I have a sister and she likes her blackberry men like I said it’s your preference ! Which I am not sayn we don’t have beautiful dark skin women we do ! But it’s just not for me !
To be Black is a calling. It's not for the weak
Now how is that just as Dumb ....... that’s my preference I am AA,my whole family is mixed just all my life in dating I only dated light skin women those are the ones that caught my eye . On the other hand I have a sister and she likes her blackberry men like I said it’s your preference ! Which I am not sayn we don’t have beautiful dark skin women we do ! But it’s just not for me ! Originally Posted by lat
I repeat DUMB. You can also add "colorstruck". There are certain parts of our country and especially in Louisiana and the south where our own people have had a "paper bag test" mentality. You seem to have been raised in that culture. That's precisely why my dad never took me to the city where he was raised. He was considered an outcast back then because his skin was "too dark". I could hardly believe him until I actually ran into some of my distant relatives in Baton Rouge and found out it was true. Just fucking ridiculous. BLACK IS BLACK.
Some of these comments show the ignorance of this board and country.