What does GFE mean to you...?

Hey Cyndi. It seems we just had this conversation and you know that I agree with you whole heartedly. I like to schedule at least 1 1/2 hrs., but I prefer 2 hrs. That way there is plenty of time for cuddling and talking. One thing that you didn't mention was that for a true GFE I must be willing to give almost as much as I get.

GFE to ME?

What I think it is NOT:

A "Car Date" with a SW provider.
A 45 min session at an AMP.
A B&G or quickie with an Indy Provider.
Most NURU sessions (I feel managed).
"PSE" is a bridge too far to be GFE.

Does any of this help?

IMO there are two areas (physical and non-physical) areas where a provider differentiates herself as GFE rather than a BNG / Non-GFE type of provider:

Non-Physical:
-She acts (or fakes) like she is actually happy to meet you in person
-Greets you with a smile, nice hug and even better a good kiss
-She is dressed well and not necessarily in lingerie but just presents herself well
-Big bonus is she has taken the time to have refreshments on-hand i.e. water, soda, juice etc. Not necessarily expensive type of alcohol but just something for you to drink

Physical
-DFK, BBBJ, Eye Contact, Fucks in all the various positions: CG, RCG, K9, MISH, Scissors, etc..etc..and definitely IOP (even if she is faking it but at least it appears to be real)
-Brings a warm washcloth and wipes you down after
-Basically, she provides a very nice session where you feel like she enjoyed herself and she enjoyed the sex...

Again, since the OP asked - this is just my own opinion...

I'm envious of your eloquence here. VERY well put and my feelings EXACTLY!

It bothers me to no end that the term "GFE" has become synonymous with BB activity for so many here.

FYI....I am not bashing ANYONE for what they do or do not offer. Your body your choice, my body my choice. Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW

Thank you Krystal Rose.....You got, what I snuck in there.
I am just overwhelmed with how ones' mind "expects" that my kitty is out there in the total playing field. As when one covers up and junior decides to go bye-bye. But is that my problem...? That is the difference between being your "Girlfriend" vs "Girl Friend Experience"

IMO there are two areas (physical and non-physical) areas where a provider differentiates herself as GFE rather than a BNG / Non-GFE type of provider:

Non-Physical:
-She acts (or fakes) like she is actually happy to meet you in person
-Greets you with a smile, nice hug and even better a good kiss
-She is dressed well and not necessarily in lingerie but just presents herself well
-Big bonus is she has taken the time to have refreshments on-hand i.e. water, soda, juice etc. Not necessarily expensive type of alcohol but just something for you to drink

Physical
-DFK, BBBJ, Eye Contact, Fucks in all the various positions: CG, RCG, K9, MISH, Scissors, etc..etc..and definitely IOP (even if she is faking it but at least it appears to be real)
-Brings a warm washcloth and wipes you down after
-Basically, she provides a very nice session where you feel like she enjoyed herself and she enjoyed the sex...

Again, since the OP asked - this is just my own opinion... Originally Posted by BelvedereDirty

Very nice BDirty.... as all of those is what I consider myself as being on top of....including the positions you mentioned and trying to keep a stocked bar.

Which of course, with all you mentioned...must take in consideration that chemistry varies with a "true" Girl Friend Experience.

More the chemistry is......bigger the explosion will be!

OP needs to find out the difference between NON-HE and HE. IJS

IMO there are two areas (physical and non-physical) areas where a provider differentiates herself as GFE rather than a BNG / Non-GFE type of provider:

Non-Physical:
-She acts (or fakes) like she is actually happy to meet you in person
-Greets you with a smile, nice hug and even better a good kiss
-She is dressed well and not necessarily in lingerie but just presents herself well
-Big bonus is she has taken the time to have refreshments on-hand i.e. water, soda, juice etc. Not necessarily expensive type of alcohol but just something for you to drink

Physical
-DFK, BBBJ, Eye Contact, Fucks in all the various positions: CG, RCG, K9, MISH, Scissors, etc..etc..and definitely IOP (even if she is faking it but at least it appears to be real)
-Brings a warm washcloth and wipes you down after
-Basically, she provides a very nice session where you feel like she enjoyed herself and she enjoyed the sex...

Again, since the OP asked - this is just my own opinion... Originally Posted by BelvedereDirty

You Could not of answered this topic any better! Great minds think alike!

I definitely don't need BB everything with my GFE... but I absolutely do expect BBBJ with it. lol DFK/LFK, with the intensity being YMMV based on chemistry. Chemistry is really the bulk of it - creating the impression that you enjoy my company, that I'm enjoying yours... oh, and I had plans for CIM until you wrapped your legs around me and squeezed me into you when I gave you the warning I was about to release.

As far as ads, if GFE it should be bbbj, some kissing, DATY, and positions where she does some of the work.

In reality, it happens when dude and hooker click and iop is completely realistic.


My favorites all time, all from Latin agencies and all gone: the original Alondra, Cristi, and Lexy.

You know it's GFE when you apologize and you did nothing wrong.

Lol at comment above mine

Lots of kissing, not necessarily DFK, lots of smiling and eye contact. lots of mutual groping, hugging, and fondling.

I pretty much agree with what Nordic, Belvedere, and spear have said, along with discerning providers, although I think GFE has less to do with activities per se than it relates to a more "emotional" service and state of mind.

I believe a lot boils down to genuine affection -- for people, intimacy, the Hobby, and life as a whole. If you LIKE what you're doing, then you don't need to be so much of an actor to do it, so less see-through mirage in the IOP, illusion of passion.

I may very well be wrong, but seems to me that a lady just has to like sex and money to offer PSE for pay, but GFE requires extra involvement, attention, and effort, aside from the physical exertion of bedroom gymnastics. For some, non-GFE may be their preference to keep the personal connection limited to the time on hand.

Eye contact, IOP, DFK, LFK, BBBJ, FIV & Mutually enjoying sex. Originally Posted by driveone7

I look at it like this. Kind of as standardized menu tier.

I may very well be wrong, but seems to me that a lady just has to like sex and money to offer PSE for pay, but GFE requires extra involvement, attention, and effort, aside from the physical exertion of bedroom gymnastics. For some, non-GFE may be their preference to keep the personal connection limited to the time on hand. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

I enjoy the personal connection. If HE doesn't want kissing, conversation, and mutual enjoyment....I am not likely to be available for him again if he calls.

I like and need money just as much as anyone else. But if the client makes me feel like "just a fuck"....I'll pass if he calls again.

But then, he is not likely to call again because if I am not truly enjoying it, I don't think I perform as well.