You might of fallen out of love with your wife therefore loving someone else, or you have fallen in lust with someone else while you love your wife. Addict has the right idea imo. Goes for the majority of people is that's how most are wired.
Others claim it's not common and can happen. You're going to need to be really open with yourself about it, and can't keep it a secret. Otherwise you're just cheating and having an affair. Decide what life you want. Just read the articles below. Majority of the time though, it doesn't work out as the women you fall in love with, won't want another in the relationship. My guess is you're having fun with this new person, but on a physical level.
My advice, pick a sail boat and go with one to the final destination. You'll likely sink or fall off trying to steer both.
https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating...same-time.html
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...mitted-another
https://pairedlife.com/problems/A-ma...-the-same-time
As with the ladies here, take the advice and don't do it.
- Dr Grey
- 02-13-2018, 02:54 PM
- scsholar
- 02-13-2018, 05:59 PM
No man can serve two masters.
That premise alone puts things into clarity for me.
That premise alone puts things into clarity for me.
- Samcro84
- 02-13-2018, 06:05 PM
I fall in love for hour then she keeps kicks me out. Shit feels like I am at home. Lol
- lizshue81
- 02-13-2018, 09:14 PM
- gentlemantoo
- 02-14-2018, 04:35 AM
Remember most people turn into nagging wives or lazy husbands in long term relationships.
New relationships are fun, exciting, she wants to please you, does great BJs and crazy wild sex. She wants you and it feels great feeling wanted again, while at home, wife wants you to weed the garden, fix the sink, clean the garage and when all that is done she comes to bed after you are dozing off, no lingerie (she has not worn that in years), no sex (no bj unless it is your bday and it is real quick not like she used to).
New lady is seeming pretty good and is it love or lust? The new lady will most likely because like your present wife over time, no BJs, no excitement, no sex, no lingerie, no fun. Meaning make sure it is love.
On the other side you have lost your desire to attract your wife. Men stop romancing their wives, stop grooming themselves properly, scratch their balls just before asking for sex, whine and complain.
People take each other for granted over time, same most likely to happen with mistress, both of you will stop chasing each other and stop trying. New relationships are exciting and fun, but it all dies down in time.
Try putting the same effort you use to get this new lady into your wife and gauge her response. If after courting and romancing your wife she does not pick up her end to you, well might be time to call a divorce attorney. But put real consistent effort, one dinner date does not mean she has to jump to her knees right away, make her feel loved again, make her feel pretty, admired, and wanted. Chase her again persistently. If it is too much of a chore for you,maybe you fell out of love with wife.
Two women will not work unless they each agree and like menages.
New relationships are fun, exciting, she wants to please you, does great BJs and crazy wild sex. She wants you and it feels great feeling wanted again, while at home, wife wants you to weed the garden, fix the sink, clean the garage and when all that is done she comes to bed after you are dozing off, no lingerie (she has not worn that in years), no sex (no bj unless it is your bday and it is real quick not like she used to).
New lady is seeming pretty good and is it love or lust? The new lady will most likely because like your present wife over time, no BJs, no excitement, no sex, no lingerie, no fun. Meaning make sure it is love.
On the other side you have lost your desire to attract your wife. Men stop romancing their wives, stop grooming themselves properly, scratch their balls just before asking for sex, whine and complain.
People take each other for granted over time, same most likely to happen with mistress, both of you will stop chasing each other and stop trying. New relationships are exciting and fun, but it all dies down in time.
Try putting the same effort you use to get this new lady into your wife and gauge her response. If after courting and romancing your wife she does not pick up her end to you, well might be time to call a divorce attorney. But put real consistent effort, one dinner date does not mean she has to jump to her knees right away, make her feel loved again, make her feel pretty, admired, and wanted. Chase her again persistently. If it is too much of a chore for you,maybe you fell out of love with wife.
Two women will not work unless they each agree and like menages.
- biggestbubba
- 02-15-2018, 03:51 AM
This isn't even hobby related.