Well thing about it is you openly kind of put out an alert whether you meant to or not. You said a hobbyist in a way attacked a provider and the thing about this thread is it involves people in two different cities. And particuarly in question is the hobbyist because he lives in SA. Just because he did this to her in Houston,the hobbyist still lives in SA and can do it maybe not the first meet but like in this providers' situation where she has been seeing him for awhile.
Im really sorry that the provider had t deal with this. And in no way am I blaming her at all!!!! But....I think in a situation like this by your anger it became an alert and now its someone's obligation as a member on this board to keep us updated on whats going on or at least some more info about the situation. Your kinda leaving this like an open book and in return it scares me to visit and i would think other providers visiting.