Guys and Gals: How Would You Handle This Scenario?

For me... it really would depend on how well i know her or just how much I wanted to hit it in my regular life. after that... it is just business and I'd make that pretty clear. If she were someone I had wanted to date I'd probably have a talk with her about seeing her outside the hobby but would not be her client.

I actually had a guy that came and saw me at night. I didnt have all the lights on so I didnt see him all in the bright light, At the end of the session he was like you dont remember me? I freaked out for a min and was like who are you. It was a guy who had tried to date me through some other people and I was not interested in him and didnt want to hang out. He said he knew the only way he could see me is if he set up an appt. Then he tried to say well you help me out and I'll help you out.. I never saw him again after that.

Any of you check the main board, where they post reviews from ASPDs heyday? There's a guy who used to post called "The Scotsman" who has some hysterical reviews. One was when he answered an ad, and it turned out to be his ex-wife. I thought I was going to die laughing.

I thought I was going to have this situation about a month ago. I was traveling on business, and when I saw a particular ad, it was a girl I knew from high school. I mean, there was NO question - she had a very distinctive face. I went to her Facebook page, and the tattoo matched. I hadn't seen her in over 20 years, though, and I DEFINITELY wanted to hit it back then. I made an appointment with her, even talking to her on the phone.

Two days before the appointment, her ad suddenly came down, and her phone went directly to VM. When I called to confirm the appointment, I got a text from her saying that she didn't really want to be an escort and that she had made a big mistake. DAMN.

"I would roll my eyes with a smile "of course" & shake my head" then do what we came to do it MIGHT be REALLY Exciting !!! So we would have fun then go back to the REAL life...lol ...Then it would be are little secret "so no body would be on the inside of that joke but us"

I opened the door once without looking out and was suprised to find a coworker on the other side. we were both shocked but I invited him in and continued to see him.
After that day I always looked first but 2 more times it was another coworker. no reason to not open the door, I was happy to see it was somebody i already knew.
Unless its a relative(that would be bad)I open the door and greet them with a smile!

I opened the door once without looking out and was suprised to find a coworker on the other side. we were both shocked but I invited him in and continued to see him.
After that day I always looked first but 2 more times it was another coworker. no reason to not open the door, I was happy to see it was somebody i already knew.
Unless its a relative(that would be bad)I open the door and greet them with a smile! Originally Posted by stacy in kc

You're broadminded, I'll say that.

Despite appearances I try to remain a gentleman. I would ask her if she wished to continue. If she did then I guess we would come to an agreement that this goes no further than the room. If she didn't then I would assure her that nothing would be said by me.

This does remind me of a movie called the Pool. A 16 year old girl always trying to be provocative applies to an escort agency and says she just turned 18. They snapped her up in a hot hurry. Her first date was waiting at a motel room. The door was open and he was in the bathroom. She spied him and saw her step-dad (Alec Baldwin) cleaning up. She freaked for a second but then this would be a huge "first" for her. She turned off the lights and when he came out she wrapped Alec's tie over his eyes. She gave him a royal time and then some. She was going to save this information for a later time but he chased her down to return her car keys. She turned around and Alec's jaw dropped. She kissed his cheek and told him that she had a great time and mom didn't have to know.