FSN, your word smithing ability is something I strive to achieve. I think you said it far better than I have.
She has to be fun, smart, hold a conversation, but I don't need her to act like she's falling in love.
See? I still can't say it as well.
I may sound unkind when I say this, since this subject is not about me, but in terms of "man seeks woman" it should be the easier to find satisfaction with just one priority rather than to preface it with unnecessary conditions, shouldn't it?. Once the priority is reached at satisfactory measures and it's already stated you may never see them again why give the illusion there was some other reason they fell short? It's like setting the one or the both of you up to fail. If it's good, just say good and let it be good. We aren't here to play games about the depth of our emotions am I right?
Kay, I'm a bit confused by some parts of your reply, but I don't find any of it unkind.
The root of the post was in response to a post I had made in another city. I put highest priority on physical sensation, but the woman can't be a cold fish mentally. The woman on my foreign post told me that emotional chemistry should be most important. I'm just feeling out everyone's feelings on the subject while poorly relaying mine.
I really think FSN said it best, I just keep trying, poorly.