A lot of girls maintain text message relationships mainly to keep customers coming back to the spa. Business is business. A few more, enjoy going out, farming for rich husbands, etc.
Again, and I can't stress this enough - if your game is not such that you can be a nice guy without developing feelings for one of these girls, then yeah, ok. Maybe .05% of Mongers can really do this, and usually because they've had their heart busted a half dozen times already, and have achieved immunity (aka lost a chunk of their humanity). Because men easily fall in love with girls that fuck them good. You, as a man, are hardwired this way - to develop feelings for girls in trouble, and who fuck the tar out of you. Its genetics, and its inescapable - unless you have been hurt enough, that a part of what makes a man a good man, gets burned out of your personality, never to return. You don't want that, even if you think you do.
Yeah, this means all of us. No exceptions to the rule.
These girls are expert in playing with men's emotions through the heads of their cocks. Every one of them knows a man is naturally hardwired to save damsels in distress, so every one of them has a sad story in which they are the victim, and you might, just might, be able to save them.
I'll be honest here. I routinely see 10-15 girls out of the spa, take them nice places, try to be a nice guy and give them a little dignity back, and in return they fuck the hell out of me. There are reviews right now of 4-5 of these girls, written in the past couple of days. I do it, because I really do feel sorry for them - staying in these bitty little spas for months at a time, getting fucked hard by 10-15 men a day. They go with me, because I am nice, and they sense I am sincere. Because I am. But I am no longer really able to fall in love with anyone, and that really sucks.
But when I first started this, the first couple of girls hurt me bad. I got all lovey dovey, started thinking about the future, and discovered the hard way, that IOP is a way of life for these girls. They do it, because after a while they can't help it. They even mean it to a degree, but in the end, home, and money are the only things they really care about. And you will never ever hear their true plans, no matter how much you think she loves you. Never.
So my advice is, the cost of admission to the "Living Room Bitch" club, just isn't worth it, even a little bit. I recommend, either focusing your energies on a non-whore woman, or simply aiming for kitchen bitch status, if your wallet can afford it.
Or, you can be like me, and give away an important part of what makes you an honorable man and human being, by ignoring reality too many times, and getting burned. Of course, I did fuck literally thousands of these girls - few of whom I can even remember. So I was compensated a bit - just not nearly enough to matter.
And if you still persist, just remember - She may be making love talk with you - but she may also be running around with me, hoping I will tell her I love her, and you are just the second string.