As a Provider, What is YOUR story?? How did you decide "Providing" as a career???

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CHELLA'S right...ME I'm different..got loaded and kicked ought'a tulane.. BUT MY DADDY IS A ROCKET SCIENTIST LOL!!! C"MON DARLING...P.S Check him out EINSTEIN!! That would be MELBOURNE FLA.. Is there a museum other then that I LOVE MY JOB . THERE FOR I GO?? Shit we are here BECAUSE we wanted to be...I LOVE IT... Annie
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A stripper who I used to work with told me about the biz...
the rest is history.
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This may be quick money, but it is not always easy money. That is the truth. I'd like to think that many guys could pick up on that without it being said. Originally Posted by Jacquie
I doubt that. I think most guys think it is easy money. I'm sure many of us wish would could lay back, get laid, have her leave and make money in the process. I'm sure there are complications and issues we don't know about since we don't have the same plumbing but I'd be willing to bet most every guy here would love it if the roles were reversed. Unfortunately, our plumbing limits the physical ability a bit more than the ladies.
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It may not be "easy money",but it sure is "fun money"...lol!!

This lifestyle has spoiled me.....it is nice to be able to do what i want/when I want/buy what I want/and save what i want!!!
But, it's not all lay back and make money.

It requires strict time management, exercise (not only for the body, but for endurance as well), a higher cultural awareness which means a lot of study of current events and history, the ability to adjust your personality several times a day, and on some days we need some extra inclination to get the libido going. GFE Escorting requires so much more than a condom and a hotel room.
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damn Jacquie---you hit the nail on the head!woohooo!!

quoted--GFE Escorting requires so much more than a condom and a hotel room.---unquoted........maybe that is why some girls charge so much...lol!!!!
damn Jacquie---you hit the nail on the head!woohooo!!

quoted--GFE Escorting requires so much more than a condom and a hotel room.---unquoted........maybe that is why some girls charge so much...lol!!!! Originally Posted by DallasRain
I will second that If all it required was "one" condom and the Motel 6 to please my clients, there would be no need for a higher rate. Then again, I don't think that would appeal to me at any rate. I don't use hotel "rooms" I use suites, which are not cheap. Add to that the room service bill for cocktails, lingerie, parking, candles, etc. and I have spent $300 before the guy even gets there. Damned if you do, damned if you don't, because if we do decide to skimp on any of those things, someone will always be there to bitch about it.

Then you have to "play" mommy, mistress, and psychologist all at the same time....forget about getting off after all that.
i dont fully understand. coz only one time a provider needed more then one condom. its becouse it was a 12hour sleep over we ues 2 condoms that nifgt. since i been a hobbies i left many times pleased. if i remember right the last two dates i had we used no condom we had so much fun do oral on each other we didnt need one. both dates was 2 hours. i left very pleased.
i dont fully understand. coz only one time a provider needed more then one condom. its becouse it was a 12hour sleep over we ues 2 condoms that nifgt. since i been a hobbies i left many times pleased. if i remember right the last two dates i had we used no condom we had so much fun do oral on each other we didnt need one. both dates was 2 hours. i left very pleased. Originally Posted by brother
Some guys need more than one condom babe. Can't really elaborate without being explicit but let's just say little jimmy does not always like being wrapped up, so most of the time is spent on oral. That's fine by me too, because I love giving and receiving and I do usually get mine I would feel a little bad if I made someone pay full price and didn't even get to the fs part. As a precaution I usually have different brands, flavors, and sizes on hand for even my shortest dates, which are 90 mins. You just never know what a guy may be allergic to or how big or small he is.
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i dont fully understand. coz only one time a provider needed more then one condom. its becouse it was a 12hour sleep over we ues 2 condoms that nifgt. since i been a hobbies i left many times pleased. if i remember right the last two dates i had we used no condom we had so much fun do oral on each other we didnt need one. both dates was 2 hours. i left very pleased. Originally Posted by brother
2 condoms during a 12 hour sleep over? What were you doing? Playing Monopoly? Seems like a there was a major misappropriation of time if there was only 2 full service rounds in 12 hours.

But, to help you understand, many guys have 2 rounds of FS, especially with a 2 hour session. In a one hour session, some may have an oral round and a FS round or 2 FS rounds. Also, whenever greek is involved, a condom change is necessary before going back to vaginal sex to avoid bacterial infections. There's also the possibility of the condom breaking, so 2 rounds plus the broken condom can easily be three used in one session. And, as Kaylee said, for some guys, junior might not be up to the task after starting, but then comes back to life and needs to be recovered to finish.

I've gone through 3 or 4 in a 2 hour session a number of times.
lol dave we was in the hottub!playing around, watched two movie, eatting dinner and drinking wine. we had fs before bed and when we woke up. i love to talk most of the time we talk for over half of the time. kaylee it wasnt a case we didnt have time. the provider even offer to have fs on overtime with no other fee told her i was more then happy with the service.
i dont fully understand. coz only one time a provider needed more then one condom. its becouse it was a 12hour sleep over we ues 2 condoms that nifgt. since i been a hobbies i left many times pleased. if i remember right the last two dates i had we used no condom we had so much fun do oral on each other we didnt need one. both dates was 2 hours. i left very pleased. Originally Posted by brother
The point here is not how many condoms a man may need in a session. Our jobs entail so much more than just buying condoms. I wake up at 8am like anybody else, drink my coffee, answer my morning emails, schedule appointments, shower, shave, hair, makeup, take more phone calls, tan, manage my website, check references, keep up with the news for conversation--and that's just on a regular day. There's also the required visit to the lady doctor every 6 months (or more), arranging trips to other cities (which means scheduling for both your regular appointments and for your touring appointments), keeping the house clean, clean sheets, plenty of wine, pedicures, and yes--buying condoms.

Anybody who wants to argue that this isn't a full time job is just clueless as to what our lives are really like.
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I will second that If all it required was "one" condom and the Motel 6 to please my clients, there would be no need for a higher rate. Then again, I don't think that would appeal to me at any rate. I don't use hotel "rooms" I use suites, which are not cheap. Add to that the room service bill for cocktails, lingerie, parking, candles, etc. and I have spent $300 before the guy even gets there. Damned if you do, damned if you don't, because if we do decide to skimp on any of those things, someone will always be there to bitch about it.

Then you have to "play" mommy, mistress, and psychologist all at the same time....forget about getting off after all that. Originally Posted by Kaylee
Kaylee, after listening to that long laundry list of duties you are burden with as a provider, I think what you need is a vacation.

When was the last time you took a vacation?
just my 2c - I got to the point in my consulting career where I blurted out to my boyfriend one night, 'i'd rather do [X] than have to deal with another tiny dicked, napoleonic prick's bullshit!'

I'm not an FS, GFE or PSE provider by any means, but even with the simple services i provide, ones based on sensuality and relaxation, i'm finding it MUCH more rewarding than giving a strategy presentation to asshole finance executives in some boardroom on wall street.

(no offense intended to you finance executives out there.)

it helps (right now minimally) meet my financial obligations, and at the end of each meeting with a friend, i feel personally fulfilled because i've made someone else happy.