BNG / BJ Duration?

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I agree on the hhr or more. Problem is that after 30m or so I assume that the provider is getting worn out, annoyed, or just plain bored.

Provider does have a lot to do with it though. Genuine engagement and enthusiasm makes all the difference. Checking the clock out of the corner of their eye, getting distracted, or otherwise not seeming fully into it just ruins it in an instant for me.
I agree on the hhr or more. Problem is that after 30m or so I assume that the provider is getting worn out, annoyed, or just plain bored.

Provider does have a lot to do with it though. Genuine engagement and enthusiasm makes all the difference. Checking the clock out of the corner of their eye, getting distracted, or otherwise not seeming fully into it just ruins it in an instant for me. Originally Posted by ButtsR4Play

Has this happened to u before?
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I agree on the hhr or more. Problem is that after 30m or so I assume that the provider is getting worn out, annoyed, or just plain bored.

Provider does have a lot to do with it though. Genuine engagement and enthusiasm makes all the difference. Checking the clock out of the corner of their eye, getting distracted, or otherwise not seeming fully into it just ruins it in an instant for me. Originally Posted by ButtsR4Play
Seriously? How much "genuine engagement" do you expect during a BNG? Sweet baby tebow, its a BNG ... Fucktards will always be fucktards.
OP it seems like you get off more on how attentive and enthused they are blowing you more than how good the actual physical act is. Are you only good for one pop?
You are some lucky fucker’s that can go in 2-3 minutes. No way I could schedule a BNG.
Ya, It's just not enough time, period. I don't like the feeling of being rushed, makes me anxious. By the time you shower thoroughly (mandatory requirement for me and my OCD cleanliness self). What time is left?

I have a client that pays my hhr rate and that's all I do for him...that is up until recently he decided he wanted to fuck me. I just changed his life. But then again he has plenty of time to get his dick sucked or both.
Ya, It's just not enough time, period. I don't like the feeling of being rushed, makes me anxious. By the time you shower thoroughly (mandatory requirement for me and my OCD cleanliness self). What time is left?

I have a client that pays my hhr rate and that's all I do for him...that is up until recently he decided he wanted to fuck me. I just changed his life. But then again he has plenty of time to get his dick sucked or both.
Oneputbirdie's Avatar
SH713 just "took" it from me! Damn near took my soul as well! Didn't take 15 minutes either! IJS!
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
By the time you shower thoroughly (mandatory requirement for me and my OCD cleanliness self). What time is left? Originally Posted by Carlisle
You bring up an interesting point I often wonder about. Curious if other providers that require the client to bathe in their presence also count the time as part of the scheduled session ?
Brooke Wilde's Avatar
I'd say if a provider offers B&G, 30 minutes, 60 minutes, ect. sessions, then it should pretty much be expected that a B&G would be 15 minutes or less.

If you think you are going to take 30 minutes to finish, I would book the 30 minute session even if you only want a B&G.
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Double post :-(
You bring up an interesting point I often wonder about. Curious if other providers that require the client to bathe in their presence also count the time as part of the scheduled session ? Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz
I can only speak for myself, yes it does. Why would it not?

I haven’t ever had a complaint about it. All of my clients appreciatey my hygeine etiquette and shower policy some even get a good laugh out of it. Kind of also gives you an idea that I have a sense of humor.

Houston is hot and most men have a significant other that they are hiding the hobby from, so they are dipping out of working mid-day, during lunch, right after work. Some have to travel 20 minutes to an hour to reach a provider.

In the span of a day, you’ve peed, probably taken a shit and you think you don’t need to shower and at the expense of your time? It’s just one of those common courtesy and etiquette and a charge it to the game type of situations.

In all my years of providing it has never come up or been an issue for my clients. In fact once they walk in and see me and I strip down to bra and thongs; they’re not think about that 5 minutes it might take them to take a shower. They are headed to the shower so they can get to me.

Heck I usually already have the shower running for you, set at a good temp (y’all know y’all can’t handle hot water 😜 and mouthwash ready. I’ve got a flow. I’ll even hop in with you and wash your back and body. I’m a pleaser. Shower sex is good too! 😈🙃 I’m not afraid to get my hair wet...depending on where I’m going afterwards it’s doable.
I can only speak for myself, yes it does. Why would it not?

I haven’t ever had a complaint about it. All of my clients appreciatey my hygeine etiquette and shower policy some even get a good laugh out of it. Kind of also gives you an idea that I have a sense of humor.

Houston is hot and most men have a significant other that they are hiding the hobby from, so they are dipping out of working mid-day, during lunch, right after work. Some have to travel 20 minutes to an hour to reach a provider.

In the span of a day, you’ve peed, probably taken a shit and you think you don’t need to shower and at the expense of your time? It’s just one of those common courtesy and etiquette and a charge it to the game type of situations.

In all my years of providing it has never come up or been an issue for my clients. In fact once they walk in and see me and I strip down to bra and thongs; they’re not think about that 5 minutes it might take them to take a shower. They are headed to the shower so they can get to me.

Heck I usually already have the shower running for you, set at a good temp (y’all know y’all can’t handle hot water 😜 and mouthwash ready. I’ve got a flow. I’ll even hop in with you and wash your back and body. I’m a pleaser. Shower sex is good too! 😈🙃 I’m not afraid to get my hair wet...depending on where I’m going afterwards it’s doable. Originally Posted by Carlisle
Awesome! Couldn't have said it better. You're rocking it girl.
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  • 10-05-2018, 02:17 AM
I can only speak for myself, yes it does. Why would it not?

I haven’t ever had a complaint about it. All of my clients appreciatey my hygeine etiquette and shower policy some even get a good laugh out of it. Kind of also gives you an idea that I have a sense of humor.

Houston is hot and most men have a significant other that they are hiding the hobby from, so they are dipping out of working mid-day, during lunch, right after work. Some have to travel 20 minutes to an hour to reach a provider.

In the span of a day, you’ve peed, probably taken a shit and you think you don’t need to shower and at the expense of your time? It’s just one of those common courtesy and etiquette and a charge it to the game type of situations.

In all my years of providing it has never come up or been an issue for my clients. In fact once they walk in and see me and I strip down to bra and thongs; they’re not think about that 5 minutes it might take them to take a shower. They are headed to the shower so they can get to me.

Heck I usually already have the shower running for you, set at a good temp (y’all know y’all can’t handle hot water �� and mouthwash ready. I’ve got a flow. I’ll even hop in with you and wash your back and body. I’m a pleaser. Shower sex is good too! ���� I’m not afraid to get my hair wet...depending on where I’m going afterwards it’s doable. Originally Posted by Carlisle
so long as the shower's for 2, i'm cool with it being on the clock. otherwise, not so much..

i used to make a shower for 2 to begin a session a requirement for all my BP sessions. but lost too many hotties i wanted to see, so now i'm a bit more flexible, but only slightly..

i can't remember the last hobby session i've done without showering before tho. prbly 2015ish. hygiene in the hobby is always a bfd..

btw, cool specials Carlisle!

back on topic. 15 min seems reasonable.
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
I can only speak for myself, yes it does. Why would it not? Originally Posted by Carlisle
I can only recall once when a provider informed me upon arrival that a shower was mandatory & the question of time never came up because I ended up spending less than 60 minutes at her place anyway. The way you describe would be great but I would have an issue if the girl basically just told me to go shower while she stayed in the room on her phone/pc while the clock is running.

To stay on topic 15 mins Is what I've always considered the standard allotted time for a BNG. Some get straight to it while some even do a little foreplay which is a greatly appreciated bonus.