Providers calling and messaging

I could never bring myself to call or text a gentleman out of the blue.

I prefer for the gents to reach out to me, not the other way around.

Just seems like an act of desperation to cold call (or text).

Just my opinion.

*curtsy*

^^^ I agree. I never have and never will. I will only reply to your text one time and then I wait to hear back from you.

The truth is:

If girls are texting you saying stuff like "I just wanted to say hi" or "I was just seeing how you are doing" they are being insincere.

Text them back and say "It's great to hear from you. I'm traveling on business and I'll be gone for the next 3 months" ... then wait and see if they text you back, just to see how your trip is going. They won't, because you and your money are "out of town". But you might just get another random text in 90 days :-(

@genesis...this is true but there's also this thing called the post fuck machismo...when after fucking a guy gets extremely aggravated looks down on the provider while being proud of himself at the same time with ego and arrogance... and he be like yo why is this bitch fucking texting me. Tha fuck!!! All because he finally got some ass. Then when you decline him he starts to get all whiney until you fuck him again and the cycle starts over.

one exception i make is if a provider knows ur text friendly and is either making a trip in from out of town or is running some unusual specials, i'm ok with text updates. otherwise not so much.

I’ve had one call me and flat out say I need some money. Might have went over better if she said I want to fuck your brains out. Some ladies that I had history with (almost 10 years) have initiated contact on occasion but I use a phantom texting app with no notifications enabled so if I don’t open the app I don’t even know I have a message or received a call.

I have a couple of ladies that have sent me texts a few days or a week or longer after we met.
Originally Posted by TheDopeSteez

Who are they? Their handles? You can PM me if you want. Thanks

@ SC.

I wouldn't know about those type of situations.

Thankfully, the gentlemen that I see don't display that type of behavior. At least with me.

*curtsy*

one exception i make is if a provider knows ur text friendly and is either making a trip in from out of town or is running some unusual specials, i'm ok with text updates. otherwise not so much. Originally Posted by pxmcc

Agreed. There are a few providers I see who do text me periodically about meeting up for a session or when they are in town. These are ladies with whom I have a good rapport and their texts are short, respectful and to the point. I generally don’t mind them reaching out randomly. This is their business and how they make ends meet. You have to be a little scrappy in life so I am sympathetic.

Thanks for all the info guys and your opinions. Just to be clear I wasn’t asking cause I was worried or annoyed by the texts. Plus I don’t see why knowing who the girls are is of any importance, they are all reputable girls. But only being in the hobby for a short time I was just looking for an answer. I understand this is how they make ends meet or what ever. Mainly I was asking cause I had one girl who I first saw that wanted more then the hobby relationship and was trying to avoid any situations like that. Again just don’t wanna turn my good times into any drama.

Thanks for all the info guys and your opinions. Just to be clear I wasn’t asking cause I was worried or annoyed by the texts. Plus I don’t see why knowing who the girls are is of any importance, they are all reputable girls. But only being in the hobby for a short time I was just looking for an answer. I understand this is how they make ends meet or what ever. Mainly I was asking cause I had one girl who I first saw that wanted more then the hobby relationship and was trying to avoid any situations like that. Again just don’t wanna turn my good times into any drama.

^ yeah good call not to name dropped on something that ain't all that important. You will ruin your sexationship with the girls in question and other providers will look at you suspect. Besides most guys here are double talkers. They like to encourage you to write bad reviews but as soon as you write a NCNS or complain about something else like this they go ape nuts and vilify you. It's a very odd dichotomy as if I know what that means.

At least the double talkers wrote a review on a real encounter. I hear ducks quacking whenever I see the 2 under your avatard.

At least the double talkers wrote a review on a real encounter. I hear ducks quacking whenever I see the 2 under your avatard. Originally Posted by pyramider

I dont care how you see it. I've come to realize that Only people that want to set themselves up for major security fails write reviews. Its literally the dumbest thing a person can do. It's the very reason why mods dont write them. But you go ahead someone needs to fall on that sword.