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JaneDarling's Avatar
Cops don’t screen...they just want you to get in the room so they can bust you. I’m sure an arrest would be less detrimental to your relationship/job than a careful and discreet provider.

Just sayin.
Agree to disagree is right and my safety will always be more important then money.
With risk comes rewards as in seeing us naked Hahaha . I hear wife's dont screen LMAO ! Xoxox I'm out Originally Posted by hot summer
I just skimmed your scary reviews. Then I noticed this post attempting to dictate provider rates. Wow, entitled much?

When you’re willing to provide screening information and increase to a more realistic hobby budget, your experiences should drastically improve. Until then, you can expect to receive exactly what you’ve already experienced.

You might want to start over with a new handle, though. Most quality ladies search post history as part of their screening process. Self-alerts are usually a deal-breaker. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
Here I thought we were doing so well with civil discussions. This type of behavior is exactly what I’m alluding to when advising my fellow hobbyists to withhold sensitive personal data.

A simple disagreement ending in a witch hunt and unprovoked personal attacks. I can’t phantom the thought of a provider staff edit-S31 leading to a full scale assault on trustworthy hobbyists. Terrifying to say the least!

Perhaps the “White Knight” brigade will come to your defense. Unfortunately my loyalty are to my fellow hobbyists and helping them spend their hard earn, tax paying, legally obtained income wisely.

While I appreciate the unsolicited advice, it is still unsolicited nevertheless.

Cops don’t screen...they just want you to get in the room so they can bust you. I’m sure an arrest would be less detrimental to your relationship/job than a careful and discreet provider.

Just sayin. Originally Posted by JaneDarling
Obviously as a provider, you may be ignorant to how us veterans operate and fear mongering doesn’t quite work. The risk of a misdemeanor charge by following these certain steps are extremely low if not near zero.

My method that has kept me safe for decades (perhaps useful for new hobbyists/veterans):
- Keep silent when entering the room.
- Do LE check, no undercover female LE will allow you to put your fingers in sensitive places or grope her.
- Place donations, do not hand it directly to the provider
- Do not discuss any activities (not yet)
- Begin session, when you feel comfortable, then you can discuss more details
- If provider starts asking questions or refuse LE check, leave immediately.
JaneDarling's Avatar
Here I thought we were doing so well with civil discussions. This type of behavior is exactly what I’m alluding to when advising my fellow hobbyists to withhold sensitive personal data.

A simple disagreement ending in a witch hunt and unprovoked personal attacks. I can’t phantom the thought of a provider having sensitive info and the unseen unhinged mental instability leading to a full scale assault on trustworthy hobbyists. Terrifying to say the least!

Perhaps the “White Knight” brigade will come to your defense. Unfortunately my loyalty are to my fellow hobbyists and helping them spend their hard earn, tax paying, legally obtained income wisely.

While I appreciate the unsolicited advice, it is still unsolicited nevertheless.



Obviously as a provider, you may be ignorant to how us veterans operate and fear mongering doesn’t quite work. The risk of a misdemeanor charge by following these certain steps are extremely low if not near zero.

My method that has kept me safe for decades (perhaps useful for new hobbyists/veterans):
- Keep silent when entering the room.
- Do LE check, no undercover female LE will allow you to put your fingers in sensitive places or grope her.
- Place donations, do not hand it directly to the provider
- Do not discuss any activities (not yet)
- Begin session, when you feel comfortable, then you can discuss more details
- If provider starts asking questions or refuse LE check, leave immediately. Originally Posted by dirty1234

Totally. Soooooo, guys...if you manage to convince a lady to see you without screening (lol, safety is for suckers!)...when you arrive, just walk into the room without saying a word, and then immediately thrust your unwashed, unlubed fingers directly into her vagina...

*That’ll* definitely get you exactly the experience you’re looking for.

I don’t know about the rest of the ladies here, but I am definitely appreciative of your willingness to speak out and protect your fellow man from...whatever it is you think we’re up to.
Hot Summer's Avatar
Well first off a selfie is not sensitive information seeing how it could be pulled from any online source and for the second point,
if you're in the room with LE its to late for you sir. I would assume with your knowledge you would have known that . and that my good man is why we screen !
Totally. Soooooo, guys...if you manage to convince a lady to see you without screening (lol, safety is for suckers!)...when you arrive, just walk into the room without saying a word, and then immediately thrust your unwashed, unlubed fingers directly into her vagina...

*That’ll* definitely get you exactly the experience you’re looking for.

I don’t know about the rest of the ladies here, but I am definitely appreciative of your willingness to speak out and protect your fellow man from...whatever it is you think we’re up to. Originally Posted by JaneDarling
Well first off a selfie is not sensitive information seeing how it could be pulled from any online source and for the second point,
if you're in the room with LE its to late for you sir. I would assume with your knowledge you would have known that . and that my good man is why we screen ! Originally Posted by hot summer
Many moons ago, I met a provider. Upon entering the room, noticed it was a connecting set up. Asked for a LE check and she ignored the request. She proceeded to ask for the money and what I would like. My gut was telling me, “get out” and I quickly said, “sorry wrong room” and jetted for the door. Sat in the car for what seems like an eternity till the adrenaline settle down. Sometime later, noticed multiple undercover vehicles in the parking lot and a man escorted out in handcuffs.

There’s this thing in America, called “evidence” and if it’s insufficient, there’s no case.

BTW, how did you want the selfie sent, via fax, us mail, or electronic communication such as Texting? A screenshot of texts along with selfie is more than sufficient to incriminate.

After what transpired in this thread from name calling, to shaming, to witch hunting; I’m doubling down on my original post.

My statements are not meant as facts, purely recommendations for us hobbyists. At the end of the day, it's your life, do whatever you like.

For me, nothing is worth more than a good night sleep.
Stay safe out there fellas and remember this quote from g0lfnutt, “No pussy is worth losing everything!”
Hot Summer's Avatar
Hahaha you are a tad bit dramatic and down right rediculous at this point! And for your info golfnut screened with me and had a awesome and safe time.
Its called a good reputation,
Maybe that should go on your list of requirements. Im done with this this thread kbye
Obviously as a provider, you may be ignorant to how us veterans operate and fear mongering doesn’t quite work. The risk of a misdemeanor charge by following these certain steps are extremely low if not near zero.

My method that has kept me safe for decades (perhaps useful for new hobbyists/veterans):
- Keep silent when entering the room.
- Do LE check, no undercover female LE will allow you to put your fingers in sensitive places or grope her.
- Place donations, do not hand it directly to the provider
- Do not discuss any activities (not yet)
- Begin session, when you feel comfortable, then you can discuss more details
- If provider starts asking questions or refuse LE check, leave immediately. Originally Posted by dirty1234
That’s a complete fallacy. If you’ve managed to stay safe, it has nothing to do with those practices… It was blind luck.

Anyone who knows anything about the hobby knows that if you end up in a room with law enforcement, it doesn’t matter what you do, don’t do, say or don’t say... You are going to jail. Period. All LE has to do is get you there. And they will lie about the rest in court.

For being a hobby veteran, you certainly are naïve & misinformed.

A simple disagreement ending in a witch hunt and unprovoked personal attacks. I can’t phantom the thought of a provider having sensitive info and the unseen unhinged mental instability leading to a full scale assault on trustworthy hobbyists. Terrifying to say the least! Originally Posted by dirty1234
No one called you a name or attacked you... We simply called you out on your lack of respect for providers and your bad attitude pertaining to proper screening and the risks you face when you try to bypass it.

And FYI, you are obviously the one staff edit-S31, not the providers you’re pointing fingers at. Your extreme overreactions to anyone with a differing viewpoint, paranoia and complete lack of logic in general clearly demonstrates that.

Stop the insulting remarks before the points hammer falls -S31
That’s a complete fallacy. If you’ve managed to stay safe, it has nothing to do with those practices… It was blind luck.

Anyone who knows anything about the hobby knows that if you end up in a room with law enforcement, it doesn’t matter what you do, don’t do, say or don’t say... You are going to jail. Period. All LE has to do is get you there. And they will lie about the rest in court.

For being a hobby veteran, you certainly are naïve & misinformed.



No one called you a name or attacked you... We simply called you out on your lack of respect for providers and your bad attitude pertaining to proper screening and the risks you face when you try to bypass it.

And FYI, you are obviously the one with unhinged mental instability issues, not the providers you’re pointing fingers at. Your extreme overreactions to anyone with a differing viewpoint, paranoia and complete lack of logic in general clearly demonstrates that. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
Wowzer, you sure are one angry vindictive individual getting worked up over what was a civilize discussion. At moments like this, I'm glad no providers have any real world information on me. I'll be sleeping like a baby tonight with the knowledge of anonymity.
Wowzer, you sure are one angry vindictive individual getting worked up over what was a civilize discussion. At moments like this, I'm glad no providers have any real world information on me. I'll be sleeping like a baby tonight with the knowledge of anonymity. Originally Posted by dirty1234
Not sure where you’re seeing “angry or vindictive.” I think you have comprehension issues. I’m actually laughing, baffled that anyone could be so clueless. No one wants your information, sir. You couldn’t pay me enough money to be in the same room with you.
Not sure where you’re seeing “angry or vindictive.” I think you have comprehension issues. I’m actually laughing, baffled that anyone could be so clueless. No one wants your information, sir. You couldn’t pay me enough money to be in the same room with you. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
Enough said...let the thread speaks for itself.

My god woman, your anger certainly is a sight to behold.

and enough said from you as well-S31
Hot Summer's Avatar
I have been flooded with selfies from Springfield fellas LMAO ! Thanks guys for all the love and support I guess this thread has spoke for its self !
Cherokeechief's Avatar
These are some Great Ladies ! Here we go !

YOU CAN ALWAYS PAY TO MUCH FOR TO LITTLE, BUT YOU'LL NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER PAY TO LITTLE FOR TO MUCH !

((( Quality ))) That's what you want.

I just say , if you don't like the Kool-Aide don't drink it. Just keep looking.

That's all I have to say about that .
Son this is what I Know !

These are some Great Ladies ! Here we go !

YOU CAN ALWAYS PAY TO MUCH FOR TO LITTLE, BUT YOU'LL NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER PAY TO LITTLE FOR TO MUCH !

((( Quality ))) That's what you want.

I just say , if you don't like the Kool-Aide don't drink it. Just keep looking.

That's all I have to say about that . Originally Posted by Cherokeechief
I wished to respect the mods directives and won’t enrage further discussion.

But I feel I must write a few things in my defense.

Firstly, don’t refer to me in that condescending context “Son”. I don’t appreciate it and neither would you. Get your point across without the name calling.

Secondly, the OP is about preserving privacy and protecting real world information and your post is off on a tangent.

If certain hobbyists are comfortable with sharing personal info, that’s their choice. If they want to pay MSRP or over, it’s their money.

For the most part, I agree with your post, just didn’t appreciate you addressing me as “Son”.
Dirty, I don't know anything about selfies but my experience was painless. I have seen Ginger but the screening was simple. Just make sure you have solid references. I know Jane and Summer are on my map for future visits when I get to NWA. Act nice and you will get to go where you want to go.
Dirty, I don't know anything about selfies but my experience was painless. I have seen Ginger but the screening was simple. Just make sure you have solid references. I know Jane and Summer are on my map for future visits when I get to NWA. Act nice and you will get to go where you want to go. Originally Posted by Baconman
I appreciate your post.

I never directed the original post toward specific providers such as Ginger, Summer, Jane, or anyone browsing this forum. They certainly have the credentials to support them. Unfortunately, they're not of my prefer age range and they've made their feelings toward me quite clear as well.

Simply put, due to the nature and illegality of this hobby and the elements it attracts, hobbyists should be more guarded with their private info.

In even simpler terms, "better safe than sorry".