Being on the same page as a provider.

Wile e coyote. that seems like a good model for how I should handle things from now on.

I think y'all are a bit hard on Frosty.. we don't know how much time was taken chatting, but his lady was taking texts constantly, tossed the condom at him.. we don't know who the "friends" were.. sometimes those "friends" are bad people who were put in place to disrupt and steal.. not saying these were, but my radar would have gone off the chart when that call from "friends" came.. my clothes would have been back on in a New York minute, my ass would have boogied.

what to do now? honor your commitment and reschedule.. try to find any reason to leave a tip after.. but stay guarded, because the same interruptions could start all over again.

This irritates the fuck out of me. No matter what else is going on, I am paying for her exclusive time - not to be interrupted by her phone constantly. Even if we did nothing but sit and watch movies (like the scene in 40 year old Virgin) - if I'm paying for the time, I don't want to be interrupted. Originally Posted by dark3419

This is why it's so important to write thorough reviews. If there is a habitual texter in the crowd, I want to know about it ahead of time.

If you booked a half hour and didn't get a half hour or ring your bell because of the provider's actions then I would leave and not give her anything. Tell her to let you know when she's actually available.

That's bullshit. It's fraudulent. It's a scam.

Ladies put your phone away and when the guy shows up, take care of business.

If it wasn't because of the provider's actions and you just used up all of your time chit chatting, then that's completely different and you owe her money for her time.

Either way, if she wasn't rude, rebooking sounds like a great way to resolve this. If she rocks your world, consider tipping her the entire amount from the first session, too!

1. You booked a session.

What you do during that session is up to you. If you wanted to talk for an hour and then fuck, you should have booked two hours or at least 90 minutes. They didn't come there to chat for free.

If you just talked...well, it was an expensive or rather cheap therapy session, depending on how you look at it.

That being said,

How much of the session was remaining when you walked?

If you spent 50 minutes of an hour session talking, and didnt fuck for the last 10, it's on you. You still spent the hour with her.

Did you mean that you were talking for 10 minutes and during that 10 minutes she was called multiple times and also that she went downstairs during the session? That's a bit unprofessional on her part.

First, answering calls or texts in a session should be a no no for providers. I don’t know how much time you spent talking, but maybe it was too long. I have had sessions with a lot of talk, others not so much. I enjoy the chemistry myself. But I don’t remember one talking or texting during a session. I have had providers I did not have good chemistry with, one in particular comes to mind. But she was a true professional and took care of me maybe even better than some others did that I did enjoy being around. And I would gladly go see her again because of that.

I think in this case, I would have at least given her a portion of her fee, thanked her for her time, and bowed out as politely as possible with an apology of my own. I did once meet a girl who I found was nowhere near her pics. Her incall was a mess. We had nothing going at all. I told her I was sorry, but this would not work for me. But I still gave her a portion of the fee just for wasting her time.

Frosty - the blame may lie on both parties. The client should always be aware of the time and not knowing her schedule....you have to abide by that. So, as much as you are enjoying the conversation, you can't assume she will stretch her time to encompass chit chat. If she doesn't say anything...you probably should stop talking and say .... ok, shall we get to the fun now? How hard is that?
Nonetheless, she ALSO needs to be aware of the time, and should move things along to meet the deadline ... especially if she had a back to back appointment.

Live and Learn Brah...
T Originally Posted by Torre Tames

but try as you or she may, there will be hick ups now and then.

A partial refund would have been the right thing for both of you

Pm'd pmdelites. I have no idea how include in private. Originally Posted by Frosty19

frosty (and others who would like an eccie editor lesson)...

using the desktop/full website, click "Quote" or "Reply" to a specific post or "Reply" to thread (at bottom of all posts) or use the "Quick Reply" area.

in the editor area, one of the options on the same line as Bold, Italic, Underlining button is "Private". click that and it will insert tags into the message box. type what you want to say "in private" in between those tags.

if you're using the mobile website, the "Private" function is not there. so, you gotta go old school: type "[" then "private" then "]". type your comments. then type "[/" then "private" then "]" to end the tag. (just dont type the quotation marks)

there will be an exam during next week's class.

if you're using the mobile website, the "Private" function is not there. so, you gotta go old school: type "[" then "private" then "]". type your comments. then type "[/" then "private" then "]" to end the tag. (just dont type the quotation marks) Originally Posted by pmdelites

This works on computer (faster than clicking a button if you can type) or mobile.

Same thing he said above, but instead of quotation marks, I'm going to leave a space after the first bracket to break the tags here. Eliminate the space, and your message will be private:

[ private] ENTER PRIVATE TEXT BETWEEN THE TAGS [ /private]