So over on OH2, where you need two people to "vouch" for you, I always just ask a guy who vouched for him. Several times I've have had guys tell me a certain girl (who see the same type of guys I do) but to please not ask her for a ref because she gets super mad if they see someone else.
Originally Posted by B Three
So according to her (this certain girl), it is OK for her to see other guys, but gets mad if a client of hers also sees other providers?
As far as references goes, there are a few types of providers:
1. IF they have seen the guy for a session, she lets the provider requesting know if he is ok/not ok (respected her and her time, had the proper donation, ect.).
2. Instead of getting back to the requesting provider, she contacts the client to see if he will see her instead.
3. Ignore the request all together, but wants others to get back to her when she checks references.
This is what makes p411 so valuable, there is nothing better than a potential client not having to take the time consuming steps of providing references as the OKs are right there. The client cannot give false info of providers that he possibly did not see since it is right there in black and white. The providers do not really have to be contacted due to reason the OK she gave to the client in the first place as that pretty much answers the provider's who have not seen him, the valuable questions about his BCD character.