I dated this (what turned out to be) horrible, HORRIBLE individual for a few months, broke up (breaking up with him took longer than we dated). He wouldn't take no for an answer, to get rid of him I googled and found out his home life information and shared intimate details with his wife, business partner, his wife, etc.
When the wife found out she filed for divorce the next day.
Originally Posted by DaniPlay
First off, let me say I can not even imagine the harassment that providers must endure. You have to answer the phone to run your business and anyone can call you. I do commiserate with you on that.
But, this outing of anyone's real life info is not good. I know that I, and many others, are not interested in that kind of danger. I do not harass anyone, never have. If someone decides to stop answering emails I send , it is over. I never use phones for first contact unless that is what the provider wants.
And to me, this particular outing is even worse, since it includes outing to business partners. Outing to the wife, I can see where someone might think it would be right. But, business partners? Neither are right, but partners is worse.
I have stayed out of most drama threads since I joined ASPD in 2001, but could not let this pass. I am really surprised that nobody else brought this up.
Again, I feel for those being harassed, but there are rules in the community that have always needed to be follow. Outing is one of those.