I love talking dirty but I'm never sure if they want to hear it how do you know?
Originally Posted by Sexy3534
Tell him it turns you on, but you may have to teach him. Its romantic to assume he'll "figure it out"...but he won't! Everything good about Sex, I learned from women; EVERYTHING!
Dirty talk is a topic that doesn't get enough love. IMO it requires a few key things.
1. KNOWING what words and phrases you want to hear
2. communicate those words to your provider
3. communicate HOW you want them said; yelling, whispered, texted etc
4. find a provider who "gets it". The wrong ones will judge you and ruin the vibe.
5. Patience, providers pride themselves on finding your g-spot; they are ok with taking more than one appointment to get it right. It's worth it; it's called, being a "regular"!