A Matter of Time

I thought a date time was from the time you walk in the door to the time you walk out the door not the actual time spent with activities? I mean if you want to shower first that’s on the clock. If you want to chit chat that on the clock. If you want to smoke that’s on the clock.
And also I see you had set a 30 minute date but don’t understand the “maybe” 60 minutes? Who decides that when? It seems like you were kind of vague.
I understand the lady spent time eating and smoking, but it seems like this is a regular you see and not a one time visit.
Sure, I understand she could have ate and smoked while you were in the shower.
In my experience if you see a lady more that once there is a certain time spent catching up and not just activities for the full session time. I have never had a session where we just spend the whole date time with activities. You are paying for the TIME not the activities.
If I did not feel happy with a visit I would just choose another provider there are plenty of other choices.

I think the bottom line is did you have fun or not? Also did you try and communicate that you felt rushed? I know sometimes I get all tongue tied.

Some providers like Seeking ~P gives you “free time” to shower, so the clocks doesn’t start until that’s done.

Besides many girls will continue to chat after the session, even saying they would like you to stay if they’re not busy

She ended the date at 3:40. Got dressed, etc. Had the date continued till 4, I would have had no issue covering the full hour, but I can see no way in hell I'm gonna wait 10 minutes for her, have her end it 20 minutes short of an hour, and still pay for an hour. Not gonna happen. Like I mentioned earlier, she's done things like this before, but this time I was the one clock watching.

You should tell us her name so we can avoid her.


Also, you are a beta bitch if you are going to let someone eat/smoke on your time and asquience to their demand to be paid for it. Unless it is clearly delineated in a contract as most work situations, fuck all that noise.


But then Eccie has MORE than its fair share of beta bitches.

You should tell us her name so we can avoid her.


Also, you are a beta bitch if you are going to let someone eat/smoke on your time and asquience to their demand to be paid for it. Unless it is clearly delineated in a contract as most work situations, fuck all that noise.


But then Eccie has MORE than its fair share of beta bitches. Originally Posted by disilene

I didn't aquiess to anything, I covered the 30 minutes that was provided. If she expected to be compensated for 60 minutes, she shouldn't have ended the date at 3:40. I would've even been open to something addition, but not an extra bill for 10 minutes of date time. Especially when I had to wait 10 minutes for her.

Sorry, wasn't speaking about you. Was more talking about the white knight who showed up and took the side of clock starts at the door no matter what shenanigans she decides to waste time on.

I will most definitely be looking for another provider.

Some providers like Seeking ~P gives you “free time” to shower, so the clocks doesn’t start until that’s done.

Besides many girls will continue to chat after the session, even saying they would like you to stay if they’re not busy

Originally Posted by myren1900

Lol
Thats because P's shower sounds like it would be somthing of a fetish of hers...
I mean why should a guy pay to be scrubby dub dubbed to his hooves unless he has a stable calling or is
Well...
Fucking filthy!!

xxoo annie

I guess I read the post wrong from the sound of it

I was ready at 3:05 for 3:00 date. She insisted on finishing eating, and then smoking a cigarette before we began at 3:15. She ended date at 3:40, and wants compensation for an hour. I refuse to pay $100 to ANYONE who thinks it's ok to do that on my time. This individual wants to keep it all business, which is great, but then feels that it's ok to take advantage of my good nature. That's not right under any circumstances! You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Well since you feel that way, why did you post this thread?

Well since you feel that way, why did you post this thread? Originally Posted by pyramider

To get other's opinions, on both sides and verify that I'm not the unreasonable nut! And for the most part, with the exception of a few with reading or comprehension problems, I feel completely vindicated. If anyone would like to know the identity of the provider in question, PM me. Even the Men's Lounge isn't safe. Obviously, won't be going back to that individual.

Well since you feel that way, why did you post this thread? Originally Posted by pyramider

Why do you need validation from the internet? If you know right from wrong I don’t see the purpose. This must be someone you’ve seen Alot and became kind of close with. It happens. Seems like your feelings are a bit hurt also. That happens too. Honestly that’s all I’m getting from this post. That your feelings are a bit hurt.

Because ... I’m assuming you didn’t pay the extra and that “person” you saw might not be in agreement with your actions of not paying at the moment. This can’t be someone you just randomly saw. Seems to me it’s someone you have been seeing for quite some time. If that’s the case airing it out on here may not have been wise...