Exploring..... New to me.....

If the lady likes it, usually the lady LIKES IT.

Finding that out too lol, which makes me like it.... funny how that works.

Great ideas for a newbie...lol.

I'm learning alot here and appreciate all the advice. I don't really have any desire to fully dominate someone. A very mild, mutual experience would be more my taste. There is alot you can do though even being mild.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

One thing to keep in mind is that you can be as mild or wild as you and your partner want. Some people will give you some bullshit statement like "that's not the one twue way!!"... but just ignore them.

The secret is finding what you like, and then trying to stay out of a rut...unless its a really fun rut and you both like rutting...

I love love love using blindfolds...... so sensual. EW gave some wonderful suggestions. Whew~

I had asked a lover of mine once to leave me a sexy voice mail of him climaxing for me. I saved it on my phone and when I had him blindfolded (after he was thoroughly worked up) I pulled it up and let him listen to himself. Sent him over the edge......

Sensory dep can be a very useful psychological tool. I often use music (ear buds) in addition to blindfolding.