Opposite of gimmes statement, I think these are the guys who pay me bcd but wouldn't date me in real life because they want a trophy wife. I can say approximately 10% say they hate the wife, 25 are usually wealthy and single don't want drama, 60% are happily married Just don't get physically fulfilled at home but love the wife, 5% are just plain old dawgs who get it at home and love variety!
Anyone agree or disagree!
When you say high expectations, I'm presuming you mean sexual right? Not so much looks, personality, etc......
It can be hard to find woman who provide all of what these ladies provide for us physically. But what we tend to forget is in the hobby that's mainly motivated by money. I'm sure it could be in civilian dating as well, but an emotional attachment has to be there for her to have the motivation to accommodate you.
This may be limited to the types of ladies who attract your interest, and the ones you feel comfortable approaching. If you date woman who aren't normally sexually inhibited as the degree providers are here. The ladies you see or fantacize about in the hobby and see may be starkly different for your civilian counterparts personality wise. But this is the part most hobbyist never see no matter how good the provider client relationship.
If your reasons are more physical, I think I agree with you as these ladies performances do set the bar hih for ladies in my civilian life. Sex is exciting initially when I'm dating and ladies go all out to please you. But at some point it tapers off at some point after she has locked you in. I'm a big believer in "the stuff you do to get me, is what you will need to do to keep me.".....but that goes both ways through. I'm under 35 and tend to date woman between 23 and 28 civilian (seem to be more youthful and agile to me) because of the physical limitations and busy careers and lifestyles of ladies closer to my age. They have a little more time to relax from time to time in bunches.
But what I want in the hobby is vastly different from the types of ladies I date civilian. I tend to see thicker more curvvy woman (20 pounds or so from BBW or so) in my civilian life versus mostly petite woman with curves in the hobby. Mainly because my ideal body type pics of ladies I choosewere not all good ones sex wise. Originally Posted by gimme_that
As a married guy I started the hobby about 12 years ago when my relationship with the wife went south. I have enjoyed the ladies but prefer to have a special relationship with a single provider most of the time thru the years. I am on the verge of a divorce and have backed off some from the hobby trying to get my money in order. 
