Question for the guys...

I would for two reasons. One ... the potential of losing some money far out weighs the potential upside. Two... there is is nothing wrong with putting a little faith in someone.

The caveat is that there has had to be some repore developed during those sessions. If it was all business then keep it business

Every time a provider has asked me for money in exchange for a later date, their excuse was bullshit.
I had a chick tell me her dad died and needed money to fly to funeral in another state. I balked, I don't have money to burn. Later date, I asked her to call me daddy during our date. She said her dad was her idol and she couldn't do that to him. I asked her if they talk often, she said almost daily. I asked if he lived far away, she said they were in the same area.
I like her, I see her a few times a year. If I sent the $$$, I probably wouldn't get to see her again.

She did something similar to another hobby friend. We discussed. She was not telling the truth either time.

This is not the business to trust most of the people in it.

Tell her to go fuck off. Absolutely never trust paying for pussy in advance.

Tell her to go fuck off. Absolutely never trust paying for pussy in advance. Originally Posted by whosit57

Op is a provider,chief

Had an interesting situation only a month ago. A great provider I had seen often stopped providing about 6 months ago, as she mentioned she now had a boyfriend. About a month ago, I received a text from her, saying she temporarily needed $$, and if I loaned it to her, she would pay it back on the 15th. I said her boyfriend should be taking care of her, or he wasn't a real good boyfriend. She said she already got some money from her boyfriend. Then she decided we should have a session, and she would pay back some of that on the 15th. I said likely she would not really be into a session if she was having a boyfriend. Then she said she would block my number. This was from a provider where the sessions were great fun together, and she visited my place often.

Had an interesting situation only a month ago. A great provider I had seen often stopped providing about 6 months ago, as she mentioned she now had a boyfriend. About a month ago, I received a text from her, saying she temporarily needed $$, and if I loaned it to her, she would pay it back on the 15th. I said her boyfriend should be taking care of her, or he wasn't a real good boyfriend. She said she already got some money from her boyfriend. Then she decided we should have a session, and she would pay back some of that on the 15th. I said likely she would not really be into a session if she was having a boyfriend. Then she said she would block my number. This was from a provider where the sessions were great fun together, and she visited my place often. Originally Posted by VitaMan

Yall need a year and a half to two years to reconcile. It will be a super hot session.

Had an interesting situation only a month ago. A great provider I had seen often stopped providing about 6 months ago, as she mentioned she now had a boyfriend. About a month ago, I received a text from her, saying she temporarily needed $$, and if I loaned it to her, she would pay it back on the 15th. I said her boyfriend should be taking care of her, or he wasn't a real good boyfriend. She said she already got some money from her boyfriend. Then she decided we should have a session, and she would pay back some of that on the 15th. I said likely she would not really be into a session if she was having a boyfriend. Then she said she would block my number. This was from a provider where the sessions were great fun together, and she visited my place often. Originally Posted by VitaMan

Bruh.....sounds like you were totally into your feelings. You're wrong. If she offered you a session then no issues there was no need for you to start with your projections. You aggravated her with your shenanigans...Why even tell this story.

Every time a provider has asked me for money in exchange for a later date, their excuse was bullshit.
I had a chick tell me her dad died and needed money to fly to funeral in another state. I balked, I don't have money to burn. Later date, I asked her to call me daddy during our date. She said her dad was her idol and she couldn't do that to him. I asked her if they talk often, she said almost daily. I asked if he lived far away, she said they were in the same area.
I like her, I see her a few times a year. If I sent the $$$, I probably wouldn't get to see her again.

She did something similar to another hobby friend. We discussed. She was not telling the truth either time.

This is not the business to trust most of the people in it. Originally Posted by Warptcuck

Lol at her excuse for not calling you daddy...and lol at you for asking her to.. if she refused to call you daddy she probably didnt want to be reminded of her pimp...it does seem like a simple fantasy request so its clear she didnt cut for you at all.

I had a similar situation 2 weeks ago. I contacted a provider whome I have seen on several occasions & told her I wanted to book an hour. The only catch was that I wanted to spend 30 minutes with her that day but couldn't compensate her because of the government shut down & all. But as soon as it was back up & running we could schedule the remaining 30 minutes & she would get her hour rate plus maybe even a little extra for being understanding. She has yet to respond/reply. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

Sorry I did not get back to you. Come on over! xoxo, LOL

I’d tell her to get a steady part time job, or to hit the pay day advance place like the rest of us do.
One thing I’d surely never do is pay in advance!
I’d probably ask what the hell made her think I’m a bank?

Nope. Sorry. It’s not Sho-friends:

Sounds like "pussy credit card" or "pussy gift card"

If it's free, it would be called "pussy lone star card"

"What's in your wallet?"

Remember when they had the subway stamps, when you buy a foot long you get stamp and a card. Well, when you fill up 5 stamps on a card, you'll get a free foot long for free when you turn in the card. This girl or other girls should start something like that. Buy 5, get the one free.

I had a similar situation 2 weeks ago. I contacted a provider whome I have seen on several occasions & told her I wanted to book an hour. The only catch was that I wanted to spend 30 minutes with her that day but couldn't compensate her because of the government shut down & all. But as soon as it was back up & running we could schedule the remaining 30 minutes & she would get her hour rate plus maybe even a little extra for being understanding. She has yet to respond/reply. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

lol awww no Hon
So next time give her a check.

I had a similar situation 2 weeks ago. I contacted a provider whome I have seen on several occasions & told her I wanted to book an hour. The only catch was that I wanted to spend 30 minutes with her that day but couldn't compensate her because of the government shut down & all. But as soon as it was back up & running we could schedule the remaining 30 minutes & she would get her hour rate plus maybe even a little extra for being understanding. She has yet to respond/reply. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

Hell no...if any government workers that are furloughed or not getting paid need a few bucks to hobby, send me a PM and I'll float you until things are stable.

Sorry I did not get back to you. Come on over! xoxo, LOL Originally Posted by B Three

If it were only that easy B3.