Do we Hobby to stay SANE? What is the End Result?

Nice and thoughtful comments Ms TT.

Sex, Intimacy, and friendship on demand.

My favorite part with you Mr. Rendezvous! 😘😎💋

Love your brain Torre! Miss ya! 😘 Originally Posted by Sophia Dane3.0

Miss Sophia,

You honor me with such undue compliments. You are sensuality personified.

Millions of years of evolution, all involving sex. I am doing my part to keep the tradition going. When I can no longer party with a hottie like Torre you can pound the last nail in my coffin.

I can't speak for women but I can attest to the fact that most men have strong sex drives. I still remember when I was in high school, just looking at my AP Calculus or AP Literature teacher would drive me wild with lust. I would have to take a restroom break so I can jerk off thinking of her.

Alas, my sex drive is not quite so high now as it was back then but I'm still strongly attracted to women...the more feminine the better. Long hair, high pitched voice, makeup, painted nails, curvy body etc. are all turn ons for me. Just talking to a woman makes me feel better, it's like a pick me up. My masculine energy yearns for it's feminine counterpart all the time.

In the end, Mother Nature doesn't care if I die at 20 or a 100 years old. Mother Nature doesn't care if my net worth is a 1000 dollars or a million dollars. Mother Nature doesn't care if I live a philanthropic life or a self-absorbed selfish life. None of that matters to her.

All she cares about is that I reproduce with as many women as possible to propagate the human species. That's it. A man who impregnates 3 women and dies at the age of 20 is more successful in her eyes than a man who impregnates none and dies at the age of 100.

Therefore our sex drives are paramount. Our need to be intimate with a woman is stronger than our need to survive. Now most men don't want to have babies with random women all over the place, myself included. However we still have the strong sex drive that Mother Nature has installed inside our very core. So we would very much like to have safe covered sex with lots of random strange women to satisfy our very hungry sex drives. The hobby lets us do that.

It has health benefits, too.
https://www.webmd.com/prostate-cance...ation-prostate

^^^ tried that with SO yup why I'm here

….. When I can no longer party with a hottie like Torre you can pound the last nail in my coffin. Originally Posted by dallaswill

So …. Let’s party on!
Not to say I’m looking to pound the nail ….but always have faith in finding the fountain of youth!

Yeah. I think us guys crave the insanity of strange pussy. Originally Posted by FunMonday

So, I’m curious ….. Like about the church going soccer coach dads …. Are they insane too?
I’ve had my share of them, and other than the conquering of guilt ….. They LOVE hobbying ….!

Certainly not all but some of the really fiesty providers that aurgue in various threads definitely get my attention. My logic is if they are really feisty on this site they will need my cock to help them calm down. Originally Posted by FunMonday

Interesting analogy

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I guess there are many different levels of insanity.
We see that here clearly on this board. Mostly, we gals witness these levels often ... like close up.
The "hobby insanity" is really healthy in many ways, if you manage it with a sane mind.
So, screw those that are too chicken shit to actually "get it".
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Shout out to Sophia—Girl! Miss you too! Great times you and me!

What a great post and question TT.

What do I get out of it besides the obvious result?

I just crave women. Every day, everywhere I go, when I see a quality, attractive, personable woman that I enjoy talking to, I just have an unexplainable craving for them. And I don’t just mean getting the job done and getting the release from it. I start craving the touch, the feel of her skin on me, the feel of her body in my hands, her kiss, laughing with her, all of it. Once in a while it’s that male primal urge to rip her clothes off and screw like the proverbial animals we are, but more often than not, it’s the more sensual, erotic craving. I’m probably sounding like a girl here and I’ll probably get ripped for it but who cares. Your question struck me as one I wanted to answer.

The above could also sound like one derived from loneliness or desperation, but that’s the crazy part. It comes from neither. I’ve never in my life gone long at all without having the needs I have met. I’m a successful and (so I’m told) good looking guy who has always had someone in my life in the RW, I’ve had many relationships with attractive, great natured women. But it hasn’t mattered. Every time I bump into another one I feel the desire to experience her.

Sometimes I wish I wasn’t that way. Women are just fucking beautiful creatures that I have no will power around. I’ve had to choose not to be married anymore because there is no way I could stay 100% monogamous. I’ve had the same girlfriend for years now, and she’s an awesome, attractive, genuinely great gal. On top of that she’s a maniac in the bedroom, has a sex drive as strong as mine, and has never denied me a single desire when it comes to sex.

But if I was hanging out somewhere and we struck up a conversation and you started to get flirty with me, most times I wouldn’t be able to say no to you. Maybe it would be just that one time, maybe a few times, and I’d be on my way. But I just can’t resist the company of an attractive lady.

I’m a nice guy but most “regular women” would say that single trait makes me a peice of shit. Maybe they’re right. Or maybe the world is screwed up and I’m the normal one LOL.

One thing I like about this place is there are several women here that are like that too. Sure, every woman here is doing it for the money and that’s fine. But like you said, some of them have reasons in addition to the money.

What do I get in the end? The chance to fill that need without the drama of the expectations of a relationship that will stop being a monogamous one the next time an attractive lady bats her eyes at me.

What a great post and question TT.

What do I get out of it besides the obvious result?

I just crave women. Every day, everywhere I go, when I see a quality, attractive, personable woman that I enjoy talking to, I just have an unexplainable craving for them. And I don’t just mean getting the job done and getting the release from it. I start craving the touch, the feel of her skin on me, the feel of her body in my hands, her kiss, laughing with her, all of it. Once in a while it’s that male primal urge to rip her clothes off and screw like the proverbial animals we are, but more often than not, it’s the more sensual, erotic craving. I’m probably sounding like a girl here and I’ll probably get ripped for it but who cares. Your question struck me as one I wanted to answer.

The above could also sound like one derived from loneliness or desperation, but that’s the crazy part. It comes from neither. I’ve never in my life gone long at all without having the needs I have met. I’m a successful and (so I’m told) good looking guy who has always had someone in my life in the RW, I’ve had many relationships with attractive, great natured women. But it hasn’t mattered. Every time I bump into another one I feel the desire to experience her.

Sometimes I wish I wasn’t that way. Women are just fucking beautiful creatures that I have no will power around. I’ve had to choose not to be married anymore because there is no way I could stay 100% monogamous. I’ve had the same girlfriend for years now, and she’s an awesome, attractive, genuinely great gal. On top of that she’s a maniac in the bedroom, has a sex drive as strong as mine, and has never denied me a single desire when it comes to sex.

But if I was hanging out somewhere and we struck up a conversation and you started to get flirty with me, most times I wouldn’t be able to say no to you. Maybe it would be just that one time, maybe a few times, and I’d be on my way. But I just can’t resist the company of an attractive lady.

I’m a nice guy but most “regular women” would say that single trait makes me a peice of shit. Maybe they’re right. Or maybe the world is screwed up and I’m the normal one LOL.

One thing I like about this place is there are several women here that are like that too. Sure, every woman here is doing it for the money and that’s fine. But like you said, some of them have reasons in addition to the money.

What do I get in the end? The chance to fill that need without the drama of the expectations of a relationship that will stop being a monogamous one the next time an attractive lady bats her eyes at me. Originally Posted by pistol shot

I loved reading your post, sir! I feel the same way to the T!

In the end, Mother Nature doesn't care if I die at 20 or a 100 years old. Mother Nature doesn't care if my net worth is a 1000 dollars or a million dollars. Mother Nature doesn't care if I live a philanthropic life or a self-absorbed selfish life. None of that matters to her.

All she cares about is that I reproduce with as many women as possible to propagate the human species. That's it. A man who impregnates 3 women and dies at the age of 20 is more successful in her eyes than a man who impregnates none and dies at the age of 100.

Therefore our sex drives are paramount. Our need to be intimate with a woman is stronger than our need to survive. Now most men don't want to have babies with random women all over the place, myself included. However we still have the strong sex drive that Mother Nature has installed inside our very core. So we would very much like to have safe covered sex with lots of random strange women to satisfy our very hungry sex drives. The hobby lets us do that. Originally Posted by VeryClean

You just made a very strong case for polygyny. LOL!

You just made a very strong case for polygyny. LOL! Originally Posted by TheOracle

What a great post and question TT.

What do I get out of it besides the obvious result?

I just crave women. Every day, everywhere I go, when I see a quality, attractive, personable woman that I enjoy talking to, I just have an unexplainable craving for them. And I don’t just mean getting the job done and getting the release from it. I start craving the touch, the feel of her skin on me, the feel of her body in my hands, her kiss, laughing with her, all of it. Once in a while it’s that male primal urge to rip her clothes off and screw like the proverbial animals we are, but more often than not, it’s the more sensual, erotic craving. I’m probably sounding like a girl here and I’ll probably get ripped for it but who cares. Your question struck me as one I wanted to answer.

The above could also sound like one derived from loneliness or desperation, but that’s the crazy part. It comes from neither. I’ve never in my life gone long at all without having the needs I have met. I’m a successful and (so I’m told) good looking guy who has always had someone in my life in the RW, I’ve had many relationships with attractive, great natured women. But it hasn’t mattered. Every time I bump into another one I feel the desire to experience her.

Sometimes I wish I wasn’t that way. Women are just fucking beautiful creatures that I have no will power around. I’ve had to choose not to be married anymore because there is no way I could stay 100% monogamous. I’ve had the same girlfriend for years now, and she’s an awesome, attractive, genuinely great gal. On top of that she’s a maniac in the bedroom, has a sex drive as strong as mine, and has never denied me a single desire when it comes to sex.

But if I was hanging out somewhere and we struck up a conversation and you started to get flirty with me, most times I wouldn’t be able to say no to you. Maybe it would be just that one time, maybe a few times, and I’d be on my way. But I just can’t resist the company of an attractive lady.

I’m a nice guy but most “regular women” would say that single trait makes me a peice of shit. Maybe they’re right. Or maybe the world is screwed up and I’m the normal one LOL.

One thing I like about this place is there are several women here that are like that too. Sure, every woman here is doing it for the money and that’s fine. But like you said, some of them have reasons in addition to the money.

What do I get in the end? The chance to fill that need without the drama of the expectations of a relationship that will stop being a monogamous one the next time an attractive lady bats her eyes at me. Originally Posted by pistol shot

I very much agree. But the thing that has always surprised me in the hobby is that I expected every guy in the hobby to be like that. But I find instead a very substantial contingent with strong a misogynistic streak. I would have never guessed that.