My ATF meets me at the the back door . I always carry a briefcase to in calls if it is a hotel I just walk in like I own the place. A meet at the bar works great and then she walks me to her room. I once reserved a room ahead of time and she met me there. I left her the room for the night. We had met several times before and she drove for several hours to meet me there. Each encounter is different but the call when I arrive is the normal way I have experianced. The other thing to consider is the ladies know how to get the rooms one hell of alot cheaper than I do.