Rude comments on ERs in private tags

I would take a look at this ER: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2557180

When a member has to tell another member "If you got nothing good to say, don't say anything at all," that's an indicator that something rude has been said. And considering that BigDeal basically tried to tank Sasha's business before she joined ECCIE...all signs indicate that it is probably a rehash of the rude things he has already said about her. I mean, the guy did make reference to a "grown man still throwing a temper tantrum." That's BigDeal to a T. Originally Posted by seductrix4u

"That's an indicator that something rude has been said"...according to one person's interpretation. What was rude about his comment?

Scorpio your right back to sunshine and palm trees.

Do you ever stop? Originally Posted by Lubeman

No she doesn't and she never will.....until her next well deserved bancation......

"That's an indicator that something rude has been said"...according to one person's interpretation. What was rude about his comment? Originally Posted by scorpio31

I have no idea what his comment was because it was in private tags. And I have no intention of finding out.

However, a guy is telling someone to not speak if he can't say anything nice, and to stop having a continuation of a temper tantrum. There were only 2 other posters on the thread at that point. Roboz is a complete gentleman. I made an obvious inference.

So yes, it was according to my interpretation that a rude comment was being made by BigDeal. Based upon the other gentleman's comments. Based upon the fact that BigDeal has already made numerous other rude comments about her. Based upon the fact that he feels the need to troll and comment on every post about her, despite the fact he's never met her.

As B Three stated, men will need to do the right thing and use the RTM button if a companion is being trolled on her ERs with undeserved comments that violate rules.

I provided your examples, sir. B Three provided my answers. I appreciate you both.

Lubeman and Playa76, both trolls, hijacked this post. A rules violation.

Thank you for your help.

Lubeman's comment in that Encounter Report was dealt with in accordance with site guidelines. Originally Posted by scorpio31

Thank you.

In that case, it seems we are done here. So I will leave everyone with a gentle reminder stated perfectly by my colleague, Rocketsurgeon, in another thread then close this.

“Remember, this is a hobby forum, and not a vendetta forum.”

The reason I assume these guys are not disciplined is because I see them blatantly violating rules, and they are never banned.

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Please gents, do a better job of RTMing these rules violations to protect the companions of this community against these kinds of personal attacks by a handful of truly unfavorable guys.

Thank you. Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Be careful when you ASSUME.

The guys are doing just fine policing private tag content.

One of the few things on Eccie that really irritates me is when members say that moderators aren't doing their jobs properly. Everyone volunteers an inordinate amount of time doing this as a service to members and it is very insulting to imply that people are not following the guidelines fairly or appropriately.

Do mistakes happen or things slip by? Sure, but that is why there are checks and balances in place. Under no guideline does one rude comment equal an automatic ban, patterns of bad behavior lead to bans - as a last resort.

I reopened this in case there were more questions after my last comment. I will ask people to stay on topic, though.

Words I strive to live by:


"Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering." Don Miguel Ruiz

I would take a look at this ER: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2557180....

I will also use my ER as an example. https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2522396

Since I was banned for it, I will discuss it. Lubeman, my troll, said something very rude and untrue about me on this ER. Why was this allowed?
..... Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Think about it! You seem to be quite concerned about what all of the guys are saying about you: Right? This is about you, isn't it? Sorry, that is what this site is about, evaluating the ladies to help the guys make a decision about which lady we would like to see. Just for me, and no one else, my selection is based upon more about how a lady treats me as a person than how much she talks.

Be careful when you ASSUME.

The guys are doing just fine policing private tag content.

One of the few things on Eccie that really irritates me is when members say that moderators aren't doing their jobs properly. Everyone volunteers an inordinate amount of time doing this as a service to members and it is very insulting to imply that people are not following the guidelines fairly or appropriately.

Do mistakes happen or things slip by? Sure, but that is why there are checks and balances in place. Under no guideline does one rude comment equal an automatic ban, patterns of bad behavior lead to bans - as a last resort. Originally Posted by B Three

You're right. You're the mods and I am not. Forgive me. How can I possibly know what you're doing to manage infractions besides banning me? For having knowledge of rule violations happening in private tags.

I would like to see the guys who are harassing women like me reined in. When I see myself called HBIC, and accused of having a posse or a stable every other day on threads and ERs that have nothing to do with me, I mistakenly assume that enough of those infractions would eventually add up to a ban of some sort.

I have been falsely accused of wanting to get people banned and making a "vendetta forum." By a mod, no less. Nothing could be further from the truth. And I don't really appreciate a mod speculating on my motivation. Speak TO me first before you speak FOR me.

What I want is to be able to co-exist on a peaceable board with people that aren't calling me or other providers names, who aren't calling our incall locations disreputable names, who aren't trolling us on every post, who aren't shitting on our ERs in private tags just because they can.

That's the kind of board that would be nice to have in KC. Because right now you have a handful of guys who say whatever they want. And where are the mods jumping onto the threads with their enlightened comments then? Or even a simple, "That's enough" to shut it down. No man should be allowed to call any companion names on this forum. Especially if the dude has never met the women!

I apologize if the mods were offended.

But I am offended that I have mods inferring I have a vendetta agenda. I don't. I have an agenda that looks out for women, which includes myself. And I will not apologize for that. Somebody around here has to do it.

Thanks for opening the thread, ma'am.

Think about it! You seem to be quite concerned about what all of the guys are saying about you: Right? This is about you, isn't it? Sorry, that is what this site is about, evaluating the ladies to help the guys make a decision about which lady we would like to see. Just for me, and no one else, my selection is based upon more about how a lady treats me as a person than how much she talks. Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Actually, what prompted the post is the deplorable way BigDeal is now trashing Sasha. It's a reboot of the way he has treated me, and others in the past.

And since Scorpio wanted EXAMPLES, I threw my example in there as well.

So no, JR, it's not about me. It's about trying to protect women from trolls so WE can have a safe board to advertise and meet clients.

But if you have someone trashing your business, then clients read that info, too.

My business is solid, JR. I have clients who wouldn't know ECCIE if you slapped them in the face with it.

I am trying to protect the ladies like Sasha who don't need to be treated like shit because somebody is having a temper tantrum (not my words, FYI, but how fitting they are).

Words I strive to live by:


"Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering." Don Miguel Ruiz Originally Posted by malwoody

Agreed. Try not to take my thread personally.

I see my name for some odd reason being thrown around...
Any moderators.. Im curious of several items?

First off when other than posting my ncns thread have I continuously trashed Sasha? I and others still see no proof other than a certain providers wild imagination that this is occuring!

2nd of all I would like to see samples because there arent any of me being deplorable to other providers! This certain person keeps trashing my name with no reason to do so. Why doesnt Sasha speak for herself?
I hope Sasha is very successful...leave the shit alone! But I am not going to stop posting or even in private tags.
And Im curious why this person keeps assuming something bad was said? Does this said person speak for her? Does she speak on behalf of all people...because honestly with all the Claritan and Nasonex in the world this person keeps sticking her nose where it doesn't belong!!
So this person is the HBIC? I had zero idea!
Appears the HBIC crown has been claimed by starting there own thread and I wasn't even a part of that acceptance thread!

This person has claimed I called her this...where was her name associated to this, not by me...but her and her thread.

This person says I outed her private location...when?
Why does she assume I was speaking of her...i have better things to do!

I would request that this individual step the fuck back!
She states that I have been rude to her in private messages...please believe there is another side to this story...and if you see her behavior here on the board imagine what it is like in private communications..
Imo she is a danger to this community!

Agreed. Try not to take my thread personally. Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Never have and never will.