Horrible luck with providers
Thanks to all the nice people who have reached ...keep the PMs coming! xoxo
And yes...if you have P411...send a prescreen request.
A suggestion, pop over to the OK and KC forums and interact there a bit. In my experience, guys in Wichita are super cool and appreciative. I am sure it would be worth the drive for other ladies to make trips over every so often if y'all prebook and show some love!
Looking forward to my next trip!!!
I figured jordynne would be a reliabke candidate and her pics do look great so why not. But as you read she is a NCNS. I have tried skip the games and thats where i found vanessa n no luck. I do erotic monkey mate but i got the same bad luck. Thats where i reviewed angelina which on their she has to great reviews but i can tell they are complete bs. I do switter but not many providers in wichita there. And john i think im gonna retire as well. The struggle is real!! Lol
Originally Posted by Betogarciavet
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Originally Posted by arcondio
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Thank you B3 for reaching out to us. We would truly love having your company here in Wichita
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Originally Posted by Betogarciavet
Originally Posted by arcondio
Good to know. Thanks for the Intel
Use that money to upgrade your wardrobe with some money items. Nice clothes with a very nice watch and some $500 shoes. Hit the bar scene and work your game. Put the time spent trying to find a provider before into hitting the scene. You will probably do better.
You guys think its tough? Try being an AA here. I came out of hobby retirement and spent 5-6 hours trying to find a good provider, finally ended up texting in a crazy ex girlfriend for my bday fun.
I've had decent luck with CXG because I've gotten pretty good at spotting the fakes. 95% of the ads are fake, scammers, or possibly uncle leo, but you can find 1-2 legit new girls a week if you look hard enough. I don't do AMPs so I can't judge those. But here are my rules. These can also be applied to STG.
1) Verified ads are legit as far as I could tell, even if they have fake pics.
2) In Chrome you can right click a pic and do a Google image search. You can also run the pics through tineye.com. Tineye usually catches what Google misses. If the pics appear in a dozen other sites, ad is probably fake. However, I've seen legit girls that do the midwest circuit and have pics in different places like Dallas, OKC and KC, for example. Also, I've come across some legit girls (like Lyrica/Chanel and Alyssa) with fake pics, so there are exceptions.
3) If the pics pass test #2, look at them closely, especially if the girls cover their faces. Check that the same tattoos, birthmarks, etc appear in all the pics.
4) Google the phone number (without hyphens). If you get hits on other sites (like escortindex or EM) then girl is probably legit. You can also look up reviews like that. You can also search for the girl's name, but they sometimes change names.
5) If the ad has any explicit language, lists prices for specific acts or lists a specific address, then it's fake.
6) If the ad is filled with misspellings or in poor English, then probably fake.
7) There is a special category that is hard to spot. Such ads appear each week with a different girl and different numbers and they look legit. But the font and text are always suspiciously similar and she's always white, blonde, blue eyes and 5'5". I've tried setting something up and communication is good up to a point, but never pans out. They've never hit me to send them money, so could be cops or just someone trolling for kicks.
8) And finally, if all the above checks pass, but the girl is TGTBT, then she's probably fake. One final test I do is text the girl and ask if she does outcall. If she responds quickly and says yes, then you may be on to something.
I like the tutorial. But if she is Leo, the #8 would be quick too.
I even have an active P411 account like wth am i doing wrong lol
Originally Posted by Betogarciavet
Im pretty new there.... But what gets my attention and blows my skirt over my head is a request. Xoxo.
My phones been creepy quiet! I wonder what could be the deal.
On a more positive note. In the not so distant past, I have heard from a few gents how happy they were that my lite screening was so painless. (Give me a try to see how painless.lol) They were super relieved and set at ease when I did not ask for a pic of their face...
Their face? I thought... I thought to myself, "What would that serve?".
Anyway... Fellas and all my lovlies: what are your thoughts?
I was reading through the comments and saw where someone posted about photos being on a ton of sites they are probably fake. Let me be the first to say, while this is true by majority, anyone who has been on backpage even for one ad has had their photos harvested and splattered all over the web. There is one photo of me in a red nightie. It is on fourteen sites that I did not post to and did not give permission to. It’s been five years and I still can’t get them off those sites. Trust me, I have tried.
As far as coming to Wichita, I do on occasion but only by request. Most of us have stopped coming through because too many want to haggle over donations, end up NSNCing is, and book too short of sessions to make it feasible to come through.
Guys don’t realize, it takes most girls two hours to properly prep for a session. There is a lot that goes on behind closed doors to make sure you have a great time.
On the other hand, the ones who do hang out around Wichita are killing it for the rest of us when they pull this kind of crap. At least let the gentleman know.
I’ve been guilty of cancelling sessions last minute or even same day. Most that see me know I have health issues that cause this. I always make it up to them In the end.
This industry is making major changes that are making the waters harder and harder to navigate. Don’t give up, just make a list and run through it. Eventually you will strike gold.
Btw... I am in now way a spinner girl, but ai have skills that only traveling, studying, and time can teach. May I suggest trying out skill over model looks. It might be worth finding out what lies behind a photograph.