Donation inquiry gone bad

I can attest the exact same thing just happened to me as well. Never mentioned donation, provides address and I ask about donation to she texts that she doesn't do anything illegal (red flag). Let me remind you that she continued to push back our time 3 times within the past 2 hrs (red flag). She then asks to meet in public (red flag). No thanks. Not sure what game she is running or if this is even the same girl that I've read about but she seems extremely fishy and/or flaky. Regardless, not worth the risk, time or money.

Originally Posted by WMJ4657

I will not be meeting new gentlemen. And I’m low volume. If you’re looking for someone who’s available at all times, I’m not your girl. Also, do not text me anything illegal.

Guapdad, I’m not running any games. I’m having fun and staying safe. A lot of men have agreed to meeting me in a public parking lot so I can feel a bit more at ease. Don’t ask me TWICE for a donation when I already told you I do nothing illegal.

You're clearly salty about this as you just blew up my phone. I'm not even tripping but clearly you are. Regardless if you have regulars or newbies (I'm far from a newbie), you should really work on being more punctual. You've been pretty much a NCNS as far as I can say. We've probably arranged to meet a couple times before today and you would literally go ghost/dormant around the time to meet.

Everyone have fun and be safe out there.

This is not my job. This is a hobby. If sending you a text is blowing your phone up, I apologize. And I apologize for going dormant on you in the past, my schedule is very busy.

Again, I apologize to all men that I’ve “ghosted” on the past. If you’re looking for an on-call, available at all times kinda lady, then you’re looking at the wrong gal.

Haven't ever had a bad experience with Lolahhhhh, I'd definitely prefer the safe route!

Hey Lolahhh...may I have a date with you love?
Lol

...she texts that she doesn't do anything illegal (red flag)...

...push back our time 3 times within the past 2 hrs (red flag)...

...She then asks to meet in public (red flag)...

...Regardless, not worth the risk... Originally Posted by Guapdad

Appears that you are confusing “red flags” with “personal annoyances”. And, what “risk” did you take in this venture?

...I'm far from a newbie... Originally Posted by Guapdad

Then quit acting like one! Although your join date and posting activity suggests otherwise, perhaps this is a new screen name for you. What was your previous name?!?

I have seen Lolahhhh, and yes, she is shy and safety-conscious, but most ladies should be. There’s enough info posted in other site ads, reviews, P411, etc that you shouldn’t have to ask about donations, especially 5 minutes before your scheduled visit. Non-newbies should know that...

Oh, and Lolahhhh is awesome...

Good post Wiz.

Double post. Never mind.. carry on.

Appears that you are confusing “red flags” with “personal annoyances”. And, what “risk” did you take in this venture?
Then quit acting like one! Although your join date and posting activity suggests otherwise, perhaps this is a new screen name for you. What was your previous name?!?

I have seen Lolahhhh, and yes, she is shy and safety-conscious, but most ladies should be. There’s enough info posted in other site ads, reviews, P411, etc that you shouldn’t have to ask about donations, especially 5 minutes before your scheduled visit. Non-newbies should know that...

Oh, and Lolahhhh is awesome... Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

True words Wiz!! & Lolahhhh is beyond awesome

I will not be meeting new gentlemen. And I’m low volume. If you’re looking for someone who’s available at all times, I’m not your girl. Also, do not text me anything illegal.

Guapdad, I’m not running any games. I’m having fun and staying safe. A lot of men have agreed to meeting me in a public parking lot so I can feel a bit more at ease. Don’t ask me TWICE for a donation when I already told you I do nothing illegal. Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

I liked her answer, a lot. A lady has to look out for herself, and be responsible that the guy is offered a location to meet that is safe.

A very considerate answer.

Lotta white knighting here. Pardon me for being direct, but I've been hobbying for about 25 years. Yes, I realize that's longer than some of our current providers have been alive. BUT - it seems to me that if a provider is uncomfortable with stating a donation when asked - particularly if the appointment has been booked - then perhaps this isn't the activity for her. "But, you can do your research and find it!" Really? Maybe in some cases, but not every provider advertises in other places and not every hobbyist has P411 even if they do advertise in other places. To stack on that, some providers don't put donations in their ads anywhere. And - honestly - if I contact a provider from an Eccie ad(which does not allow donations to be stated), I don't expect to have to do a full Web search to find out what, frankly, is one of the most crucial pieces of information that I need to know.

Imagine a different scenario. The guy shows up, THEN learns the donation face to face, and didn't bring enough. I'm guessing that he would quickly be shown the door, and probably other providers would hear about it - if it wasn't posted on the Co-Ed discussion board (like the "NCNS from a reputable member" thread).

Sorry, gang - this is one of the key things to agree on before booking, and if a provider doesn't want to go down that road, perhaps Match.com or Tinder is a better fit.

Go ahead, flame away.

Once screening is done, donation shouldn’t be an issue. After all you were screened and passed correct?

Now come at me with “donation?” In the first text with no first name etc and I’m going to back you up to get the screening completed.

My donation hasn’t changed in the last 3 years except when I run specials (which isn’t very often). I know it is listed in my reviews and on P411. Not to mention, you can message anyone who reviewed me and find out if I am worth it. I know you will be told yes.

Some providers have figured out how to put the donation information in their signature line. Why not just put it there, and make it easier for potential clients to find out all they need to know.