I know what you mean. I'm in Illinois, and the Chicago, St. Louis, and even Indianapolis (I'm about equal distance from all 3) forums are lacking, especially for kink. We get more travel, encounters, & ISO posts than anything else. No interaction like here.
Originally Posted by papadee
Yeah but Chicago has a LOT of activity on other sites, just not really represented here. Not sure about Indy but you can find a gem or two in St Louis but we're definitely bone dry on the kinky side. Girls advertise "fetish friendly" and don't even take their socks off. I'd laugh if it wasn't so depressing.