Surrogate Partner

First, wash the dishes. Fix her the beverage of her choice and let her relax a bit while you do some practical stuff. Ask how her day was.
Then, depending on her / your taste in music, put on some Barry White / Patsy Cline / Smooth Jazz...
Let it develop organically and be yourself. Things will progress naturally if the chemistry is there.
What you are talking about is going to be unique to each couple. There is no universal formula. Originally Posted by Joey_Gleet

exactly
some ladies want to do your laundry, do your dishes, suck you dry and then get on with the housework
right?
somewhere

Just be honest and be yourself. If she is really into you, all else doesn't matter as much. If you aren't honest and not into her, she will sense it unless she's so into you she's delusional.

I can help. Always wanted to be a sex therapist. There are professionals with degrees doing this. Maybe insurance would cover it! Lol

Please Don't underestimate what women know about each other. Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

+1

I do get your point. Women look at relationships in a different way then a guy. Are you trying to get into her mind or please her with your body/hands?
Women know what turns guys on and men know what turns women on. I expect folk to disagree. But yea, get a sex therapist or someone that has girl on girl experience. Do what ever makes you happy dude Originally Posted by new2thescene

If he gets in her mind the physical part is nothing. Once in the mind the worst physical experience can seem magical

A good movie about this subject is "The Sessions" starring Helen Hunt. You get to see a lot of Helen Hunt!

exactly
some ladies want to do your laundry, do your dishes, suck you dry and then get on with the housework
right?
somewhere
Originally Posted by timmystool

Been there, done that three times.

Your forgot:
Give you children,
Be your partner and campanion
Look after the kids and motivate them for the best education.
Share your heart an soul.
Motivate you to be the best that you can be.

She can give you everything and more: she just wants you to love her.

Finding a girl that will love you without hesitation does happen. I have been lucky in this life. Receiving love is more important than sex. (sex is still nice)

Try Older Professional, her contact info in on her Bio Page. She used to be a social worker. Very smart, willing to talk and share.

Just be honest and be yourself. If she is really into you, all else doesn't matter as much. If you aren't honest and not into her, she will sense it unless she's so into you she's delusional. Originally Posted by Tennesseestud

Except when a women who is really into you, and everything doesn't matter to her except you: and then she becomes pregnant. Now she starts thinging about that baby: after the baby is born her full attention is on that child. Be mature enough to realize that that is just the way you want it. There are now three of you. You are expected, and it is your responsibility to help her with the child. You are no longer the center of her attention, so settle for that: settle for the gift that she have given you.

You want her to think first about that child: that should be your thoughts too.