Ladies, where online are you finding most of your dates?

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80% of the new guys they are “ I found you on Twitter” but I know is not good to put your eggs in only one basket that’s why I don’t neglect ECCIE, plus I get business here as well, every time i get a review or post an ad I get appointments but definitely Twitter is number one for me and for so many ladies that don’t even have a profile here anymore.
Tryst is getting there not yet though. Good place to have all the useful info and send it in only one link.
P411 yes, I love the available now feature it works very well for me. (They key: be actually available NOW!! )
Switter is dead, is the platform no very user friendly. OH2 I’ve had some but more guys asking me go tour San Antonio or Austin is like sorry I don’t ever tour. I love Dallas ❤️ Originally Posted by Allegra Hope
^^^^^^^
I'm not bashing anyone's ways or anything but I hope others read the 411 piece and apply it to their advertising. It is a personal pet peeve when "available anytime" is blatantly false.
Yeah that available now feature is misused. When I see that I expect ladies to be available within the hour. Another thing I notice is that ladies indicate they are running specials, but either don't post their special rate, or the rate is the same as their advertised rate.
Brandofan's Avatar
Available Now has been a reliable plan B a couple times for me. Perhaps I just got lucky. If I tried to contact someone on Available Now and got crickets she'd go right on the DNS list.

I'll keep an eye out for Allegra on AN next time!
TinMan's Avatar
I see the same thing, txboi. And even when I eliminate those from my feed, it takes forever to find someone actually offering something in my area. The traveling girls are the most frustrating to follow. “Brisbane is sooo beautiful!” Idgaf.
Private Delights is starting to gain traction and I've gotten some appointments on there while at home in New Orleans, but it's been most effective when I'm on tour.

Switter works for me sometimes, but much less so over the last few months than it did when I first got on there last year.

I don't get booked frequently from Twitter, but that's where most of the suitors who've booked me for multi-hour dates found me so it's worth it to engage on there. Plus I appreciate that it's much more interactive and modern than most review boards.

Eros was really good for me up until last Winter and then it fell off. I took a break from purchasing ads on there for several months. Just earlier today, I went to peruse Eros for my home city and a third of the companions who'd been advertising on there stopped so I'm no longer in a rush to get back on there.
I like Twitter, Eccie, and P411
I check all those often but, i think the main issue is that Rates have skyrocket. My hobby budget is 300/hr and many ladies are now over that. i have noticed on twitter that the ladies are very pretty but have rates wayyyyyyyyy over my budget so i just move along. Ladies that i used to see a few years ago at 200/hr, 250/hr, 300/hr are now at 400/hr, 500/hr, even 700/hr. for that same lady i used to see. As mentioned above, the specials are not really specials, they are posting a special in avail. now ad with their REGULAR RATE. I don't haggle, i just move along.

The P411 "available now" is only good IF you are the FIRST guy that responds. once she gets a call/visit, that available now ad stays there for an hour even though she is now busy. The second, third, and forth guy don't get in.

IMHO, those ladies are pricing themselves out of those clients which they have all ready seen and are good guy's. Instead they are risking seeing a BAD client at a higher rate. $$$$$$$$ is more important than SECURITY i guess. hooker math = 1 or 2 guy's at 500/hr is more important than a dozen guys at 300/hr. GPS AT IT'S FINEST. Product and Demand will fix it over time.

CG
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For the most, it’s ECCIE, but I do swing by RubRatings and Oh2.
Just because you’re posting in the available now section does not always mean literally avail now you can also put a specific time that you’re available and it goes in the available now area along with all the other hookers

Also the specials feature is there so that you have to ask us about them ...Gina put it that way not that we have to actually post what the special rate is ...it’s a box you check when posting in the available now section. Like a cancellation policy and 2girl sessions

Meaning those are boxes we check to tell you to ask us about our specials, cancellation policy and 2girl sessions there isn’t something there to put what the special is unless you’re updating your ad then there is a section to provide a p411 discount and then only there will there be something to add what the actual discount is . As long as the listed rate is either the same as what she lists everywhere else or it must be the lowest listed rate but it can’t be the highest on p411 but cheaper everywhere else

Previous poster is right ...too many times do I post my available now ad where I’m literally available now and there is always someone who bites...then if you don’t go manually delete the ad it stays up for an hour


If you don’t ask you won’t be told .....
Laura Lynn's Avatar
Just because you’re posting in the available now section does not always mean literally avail now you can also put a specific time that you’re available and it goes in the available now area along with all the other hookers

Also the specials feature is there so that you have to ask us about them ...Gina put it that way not that we have to actually post what the special rate is ...it’s a box you check when posting in the available now section. Like a cancellation policy and 2girl sessions

Meaning those are boxes we check to tell you to ask us about our specials, cancellation policy and 2girl sessions there isn’t something there to put what the special is unless you’re updating your ad then there is a section to provide a p411 discount and then only there will there be something to add what the actual discount is . As long as the listed rate is either the same as what she lists everywhere else or it must be the lowest listed rate but it can’t be the highest on p411 but cheaper everywhere else

Previous poster is right ...too many times do I post my available now ad where I’m literally available now and there is always someone who bites...then if you don’t go manually delete the ad it stays up for an hour


If you don’t ask you won’t be told ..... Originally Posted by Analeese

A lady can adjust her rate on the available now ad, and she should do it in my opinion; otherwise, it seems a little like bait n switch. When guys ask about the ladies special, they tend to get bitched at for discussing funding of her favorite charity.
A lady can adjust her rate on the available now ad, and she should do it in my opinion; otherwise, it seems a little like bait n switch. When guys ask about the ladies special, they tend to get bitched at for discussing funding of her favorite charity. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
I forgot about this ....ty for mentioning it LL there is always more than one way to skin a kitty
LuciaConte's Avatar
I really can’t wait for tryst to pick up, I mostly see regulars, people from twitter, slixa, p411 and eccie..
Brandofan's Avatar
I know that Twiiter is popular, but it has such an active association with GPS and no review policies that I avoid it like the plague. Anytime I see an ECCIE provider start to move to Twitter I pause. It is almost like guys don't know that the Dominican Republic is a mere couple hours away and very AA-friendly.
Just because you’re posting in the available now section does not always mean literally avail now you can also put a specific time that you’re available and it goes in the available now area along with all the other hookers

Also the specials feature is there so that you have to ask us about them ...Gina put it that way not that we have to actually post what the special rate is ...it’s a box you check when posting in the available now section. Like a cancellation policy and 2girl sessions

Meaning those are boxes we check to tell you to ask us about our specials, cancellation policy and 2girl sessions there isn’t something there to put what the special is unless you’re updating your ad then there is a section to provide a p411 discount and then only there will there be something to add what the actual discount is . As long as the listed rate is either the same as what she lists everywhere else or it must be the lowest listed rate but it can’t be the highest on p411 but cheaper everywhere else

Previous poster is right ...too many times do I post my available now ad where I’m literally available now and there is always someone who bites...then if you don’t go manually delete the ad it stays up for an hour


If you don’t ask you won’t be told ..... Originally Posted by Analeese
CATCH 22, Laura Lynn will explain.

A lady can adjust her rate on the available now ad, and she should do it in my opinion; otherwise, it seems a little like bait n switch. When guys ask about the ladies special, they tend to get bitched at for discussing funding of her favorite charity. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn
Exactly, Catch 22 = Client don't want to haggle over special rates that should already be visible, which means a client that was interested, just moved along.

I forgot about this ....ty for mentioning it LL there is always more than one way to skin a kitty Originally Posted by Analeese
YOUR business should NOT depend on OUR creativity in how to DRAG the information OUT of you. There are 2 sections where a lady can input the special rate. It is called "P411 Promotion" (on profile) or "Ask Me About" (on available now ad) Many guy's are not going to go through a bunch of RED TAPE just to find out what it is. We want to make an informed decision without the hassle of trying to contact you, wait for a response, then get accused of haggling or time waster. It is just easier to move along, which means loss of business that you should have got. Dallas is not only saturated but very competitive.

CG
TinMan's Avatar
So, today I have an example of why I am skeptical that Twitter is an effective means of advertising availability. As I type this, there is a provider I’m following that has to be retweeting everything on her timeline from the last month. I’m talking scores of posts. I kid you not when I say there was over a dozen retweets of a single provider that doesn’t even work in this state, going back to the Fourth of July.

She’s crowding out everything else in my timeline. I’m going to have to unfollow her, which is a shame because she is an area provider who I’d be interested in meeting.

I don’t see how anyone makes a connection thanks to Twitter.
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The P411 "available now" is only good IF you are the FIRST guy that responds. once she gets a call/visit, that available now ad stays there for an hour even though she is now busy. The second, third, and forth guy don't get in.

IMHO, those ladies are pricing themselves out of those clients which they have all ready seen and are good guy's. Instead they are risking seeing a BAD client at a higher rate. . . .

CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0
Kudos to Copier guy for what's been on my mind recently. I CONSTANTLY scratch my head at this.

So while we understand that "Available now" is much quicker for ladies to land a quick appointment for a time she's available - why wouldn't someone reach out to a Good Guy (a Great client, if we haven't seen each other for a while), to see if we were around?

When the ghosting (or non responsiveness to reaching out) occurs to a good client - I just scratch my head. Others I know have had similar experiences as well. I don't get it, would love to see more ladies respond on this.

It is understood there are no strict guidelines or rules about whom should reach out first. Obviously men will generally reach out to ladies first. Instead - I am referring to warm, consistent, Good client relationships, ATF's where you've seen each other frequently and with regularity.

My example - Anybody who has seen me multiple times (that I see regularly, and we have discussed I am a good client) knows that my schedule is fairly open (not always, but generally), and I 100% ALWAYS, positively respond with an appt if one of my favorites reaches out to me. If not immediately for their "available now" time, then it will be SOON. Always.

So while we realize there are a LOT of goombahs and guys out there, but - if we are ATF's, see each other regularly, great clients, why wouldn't someone take advantage of this, knowing that we would continue to see them regularly? (guaranteed business, improved relationship, more fun, etc.)

Sorry for getting on a soapbox, but this always makes me wonder why?

CAVEATS:
  • I am referring to Great client relationship situations, where we see each other very regularly, and it is discussed that we are comfortable with each other.
  • I am referring to situations if the lady has cancelled on me beforehand, we haven't seen each other in a few weeks, something like that. NOT a situation where we just saw each other recently (or too soon before our normal intervals of visits)
  • It is understood that I (or most guys) cannot meet every time, or every day someone is "available". Most of us have space/time between visits. Perfectly understandable there are other clients more readily available at the available time.
  • It is also understood this discussion is not relevant to someone we have rarely seen, or seem months (or years) beforehand.