To cum or not to cum?? Where do you like to shoot your load & ladies where do you prefer it ?

Can we finish in the belly button and call it a “hot tub”?
tim_29m's Avatar
Communication beforehand is always good before getting to the point of no return. Where ever my playmate wants me to put it, I will. I want to know what excites her and to get her engine revved up as much as I can.

I do love a good CIM though, especially when she keeps sucking ever so gently to get every last drop out and makes me twitch and jerk since I become very sensitive after unloading.
You know, I’m SOOO GLAD to hear that MOST of you know better. To have the common decency to communicate w a lady first. And even if it happens by genuine accident... then in that split second do whatever you need to do to REMOVE yourself and fix the situation. FAST.

As for the very few that HAVE DONE THIS WO ANY CONSENT.... you should consider yourself very lucky (for the moment) Word travels FAST.

THANK YOU gentlemen who answered honestly AND disclosed that you indeed have RESPECT and consideration at play.

To you who have forced a lady and had no choice in the matter... what’s that term called again?!!! Shame on you and your garbage ways. Stop riding the f#%*ing coat tails of men you WANT to be on here and crack a book on how to treat a woman. Sexually , mentally and emotionally. What in the actual fuck.

Catching on fella?
Communication beforehand is always good before getting to the point of no return. Where ever my playmate wants me to put it, I will. I want to know what excites her and to get her engine revved up as much as I can.

I do love a good CIM though, especially when she keeps sucking ever so gently to get every last drop out and makes me twitch and jerk since I become very sensitive after unloading. Originally Posted by tim_29m


Perfect reply !
I enjoy CIM, I always make sure though that it is an option and I give the courtesy of providing notice.

I’ve recently become a fan of CObody, it’s just hot, though can be understandably messy so I get that not all enjoy. Originally Posted by swwaustin

Yet another perfect reply from a great man!
Dr Grey's Avatar
I've always asked where they want it or would like it. Some ladies tell me where in the heat of things, or I make sure to get a do not list prior. But personally, I never assume cim is ok as I know many post even on their profiles, sig lines, or ads on other sites they don't enjoy it. Personally, prefer facials and cim both. But I'll never do anything unannounced, just rude. But CIM is most preferred. Afterall, living out porn fantasies and having a true PSE makes things that much better if on the menu.
robexar's Avatar
SAD! as an older guy who must screw my wife every morning before I leave for work and then play 3-4 times a week, cum - what cum? I had a regular ask me to unload on her face but i was too embarrassed with the little load I had.
Watching porn and these guys unload tons of cum remind me of my twenties.
It is a bitch getting old!

At least I can still get it up 3-4 times a day naturally.
Kimberly Spade's Avatar
+1 Ez,
You took the words right out of my mouth babe, I'm very happy to here that their is a lot of great gentleman out here in our playground who respect us ladies. However,it's a darn shame when a certain John knows exactly what he did & brags about it. Then others chime in & yes even giving it a certain name is disturbing.

Well back on topic i love a good bj but never like cim or cof. I prefer it on my ass as I'm bent over or on my hot sexy pink tits! Then to rub it on my nipples now that I really enjoy!
Kimberly Spade's Avatar
Robexar I can't even go 3 times a day. You my friend are only as old as you feel & from what you say my dear you sound like your dick may be in its late 20's
StreetRacer's Avatar

Well back on topic i love a good bj but never like cim or cof. I prefer it on my ass as I'm bent over or on my hot sexy pink tits! Then to rub it on my nipples now that I really enjoy! Originally Posted by Kimberly Spade
Well that’s f*cking hot enough for me! I would love to give it a shot
Yea see I’m pretty chill w it. I’m pretty much a come on anywhere lady accept for cim and CIH! Lmao. Pleeease don’t get it in my fresh clean hair I just did for you. Lmao. Wouldn’t know how to explain that one through out the day. Lol.

You ma girl spade. You ma girl. Muah.
swwaustin's Avatar
...letting it go down the back of a gal's throat unexpectedly is my go to... Originally Posted by eli_el_321
To each their own, but imho that’s pretty much a douche move, plus you miss out on something so much hotter. Nothing sexier than telling a CIM lover that you are near explosion and she responds by doubling her effort as if that was her mission.
Joe Buck's Avatar
Respect and communication is key for both or in some instances all parties having a good time.
DallasRain's Avatar
well said!!
To each their own, but imho that’s pretty much a douche move, plus you miss out on something so much hotter. Nothing sexier than telling a CIM lover that you are near explosion and she responds by doubling her effort as if that was her mission. Originally Posted by swwaustin

Exactly.