I like your response.. I'm the type to assess your personally from a dominatrix standpoint and feed off your response, This can be taken as a positive and negative. That is part of being a provider. It's not that I enjoy you in emotional pain, because you ask for it, I put aside my feeling and give you exactly what you want. Your past to me doesn't even matter, but taking you past your breaking point does release the endorphenes that you and I both crave.. It is more so of letting the cat out of the box. Originally Posted by melannie_starMan I could really use something like this! Would love to be able to explore my boundaries, and have someone who could push me beyond them would be amazing!