The case for the Overnight visit

Can’t get the full GFE without an overnight....

Can’t get the full GFE without an overnight.... Originally Posted by Dub83

And that is the real issue in my mind. Those of us who want the full GFE in a leisurely environment tend to really like overnights.

Those whose priorities are something else aren't wrong, they are just different. The problem comes in when a guy looks at a photo, goes brain dead with lust, and doesn't do his homework. He picks the wrong lady for the wrong length of time, and then is upset when it didn't work out as he daydreamed. Some guys should stick with an hour, and some women probably shouldn't offer ONs.

Personally I don't think I would do an ON with someone I didn't already know well enough. I want to make sure there is some chemistry, and some common expectations for the evening.

The last thing I will say is that the more preexisting history between the two, and the more the lady believes it will be a real date, the more affordable the price. Not all, but many I have seen. The second or third ON is often a very different situation than the first one--making a compatible choice, being respectful, creative, and providing a few extras is often reciprocated in kind.

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The best time I have ever had was an impromptu overnight. Completely unplanned, unscripted. Literally every experience I have had since is measured against that night.
This thread is SOOOO timely for me.. I have my first scheduled ON Next week, with a lady I have never met before but have researched extensively. We are similar in age and we seem to have a fair about in common. I am more excited by this opportunity then I have been about any other meeting I have had.

I am curious though about the preference of the ladies.. about staying in -vs- going out to a local restaurant / Pub -vs- sex club type experience.. what do you ladies prefer? (assume you are in your home base area)

I give full gfe for over nights or just a hr
over night for me is 8hr's
Dinner is a must and good way to start out and have some talk about the night ahead of us .
Room services or go out
Come back shower up together and get the Romance started in to the wee hr's , have some drinks and maybe watch a movie in between .
and start all over , take a nape for few hr's
wake up and shower and get the last of the fun in ..

Could not agree more! I’ve recently started dabbling in overnight appointments, and have found them to be much more fulfilling than traditional visits.

Naked time.
Dinner/drinks/show/gala etc.
Naked time.
Sleep.
Naked time.

I getting to know someone on a much deeper level. Over and over again.

I think overnights are great!!!!

Ive done 1 overnight but wasnt planned or paid for (but gave a large tip). She stayed all night and finally told her she had to go as i had a meeting. Great time though only had sex for 2 of the 8 hours. Worth 2500 or whatever the amount would have been? Hell no would rather have 8 or whatever 1 hour sessions

I had an impromptu overnight years ago, and it was fantastic. I had booked a 2-hour outcall to my place and the provider - who was coming in from out of town - ran late. By the time we finished our scheduled appointment, it was getting too late to check in to a hotel (she hadn’t booked one). So I suggested she stay and save the money, which she did. The initial session was amazing, the extra play was off the charts.

So, fast-forward to now, I have a celebration coming up that I want to mark with a dinner date or overnight. I would appreciate some thoughts on a couple of questions:

- Should I book this session with a girl I have seen before?
- Should I book dinner in the restaurant of the hotel where I’ve booked the room?
- Or, does travel time from dinner to hotel eat into the session time (if not full overnight)?

Any other pearls of wisdom would be appreciated too.

overnights and long dates are my favorite kind of meetings. (my rates are Cather for those clients). Dinner date, movies, having fun, long talks, kisses and cuddles.
Overnights are not for everyone I certainly enjoy them with the right guy.

I have had a few overnight dates over the years. Several with a ATF that were absolutely wonderful. One was with a provider that I had seen a couple of times and when I requested another date she begged for an overnight date. Things started great until I went to freshen up in the bathroom and when I opened the door to the Livingroom suite she was gone. So was the overnight date gratuity. Live and learn.