What is a polite way to leave after they let you in.

I always ask for video scans just short and sweet if they can't send a 5 to 10 sec video wouldn't waste my time. That way no worries of photoshop sure they could edit a bit but a better chance of seeing real them
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Here's a quick fix to ensure you are seeing the same attractive girl in the ad, which I do all the time. Simply have them send you a selfie real quick holding up 4 fingers, and tell them to include their ENTIRE body and face in the selfie. If they come up with some lame ass excuse as to why they cant do it, then chances are they are NOT the girl in the ad. If it's truly the girl in the ad, she will glady send you the selfie. Originally Posted by kcbachelor
I always ask for video scans just short and sweet if they can't send a 5 to 10 sec video wouldn't waste my time. That way no worries of photoshop sure they could edit a bit but a better chance of seeing real them Originally Posted by Hashtag#thatphatwhiteass
I, along with numerous other hobbyist, have texted almost every provider back in the day of BP and it's current equivalents and asked for a quick selfie. You almost never get them. They get numerous request.

If they have a public ad then go ahead and post these pictures/scans.

I'll wait...

I'll text and provide of screenshot of me getting no further replies/ghosted.
Keep your $20 don’t reward bad behavior imo

Due your due diligence and things like this won’t happen frequently
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What helps with this is, before going in, you ask yourself if you're prepared to walk out if she's not what you're expecting.

If she's not, just commit to walking out. Just say fuck it. Stand your ground.

In the past, I've failed to walk out of catfish situations. The first couple times it feels a bit difficult. But man, you're really proud of yourself when you still have your [whole] wad of cash, where you can regroup instead of losing a chunk of your money, feel like you got nothing for it, pissed off because you're still horny. Now you can just go to plan B.

I've been on both sides...didn't back off, paid to bang a fat, ugly chick that IRONICALLY I wouldn't fuck for free and felt like a dumbass afterwards. I've also walked out a few. Of those, I've walked out with all my cash, but a time or two left a 20.

I've also had these where the girls weren't the girls in the pic, but was still fine as hell...so I stayed. Sometimes these girls I guess underestimate their hotness and chose a lesser pic to steal. Too often it's the other way around, though.

In a nutshell, try being ready to walk out going in. It's easier to follow through this way.

Of course, if she's actually hot, simply abort the bail out and plow her.
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Why is it younger fellers think age, hair and/or body type have any effect on a man's game? I suspect many of these ladies' ATFs are 50+ yo, bald, fat guys. Originally Posted by Billogoods
IDK, I don't get the honeys like I used to. But then again, I was handsome enough I didn't NEED game.

Now that I'm pushing 50, having game would come in handy. But since I never practiced my game in my twenties, I guess I ain't never going to get it.
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Why are you guys busting OP’s chops for thinking he’s young and attractive? Granted -he should’ve left that part of his explanation out of his post and simply asked ‘what is a polite way to leave when you’re not satisfied with what you see?’
But the point of this thread is not to attack him for thinking he’s all that. It is a very good question worth discussing (and there have been some good suggestions).
Can we move on from why Brad Pitt is needing his knob polished and get back to to point of leaving politely when Rosanne Barr meets us at the door when we expected Jennifer Anniston?
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Unless she has screened you before hand to know who you are , I would hope she would not send a stranger a photo or video . Good Luck!!
I always ask for video scans just short and sweet if they can't send a 5 to 10 sec video wouldn't waste my time. That way no worries of photoshop sure they could edit a bit but a better chance of seeing real them Originally Posted by Hashtag#thatphatwhiteass
  • LRH76
  • 01-08-2020, 12:17 PM
You probably just be on honest and "you don't look like you pics or this isn't what I expected, I have also looked at my phone and said I have an emergency. You are a consumer, they are the business if they are not providing you the service you want then find someone who will!, if their service is crap then write a bad review. so that business improves or goes out of business. Business before pleasure.
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You probably just be on honest and "you don't look like you pics or this isn't what I expected, I have also looked at my phone and said I have an emergency. You are a consumer, they are the business if they are not providing you the service you want then find someone who will!, if their service is crap then write a bad review. so that business improves or goes out of business. Business before pleasure. Originally Posted by LRH76
This is true. If you go to buy eggs and half of them are crushed, or if you go to a car dealership to pick up a ride, and the paint is not the right color or the windshield has a big spiderweb on it, you have every right to not want to go through with buying the products.
Some of the ladies hide their face bc they have real world jobs etc. But they continue to update body pics and there’s no issue. Honestly the guys should stick together on this issue. If a provider uses outdated or fake pics everyone should know about it. Blatant misrepresentation is bullshit and a complete waste of time. Save your money and get a hottie!
First time with someone new I usually have a small printout of whatever pic was in the most recent ad I read that attracted me. If the girl at the door is not the girl in the pic I politely apologize and explain I was looking for someone else.
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First off, if she is extremely attractive and on a cheapo site, you get what you deserve. The other issue isnt those who are fat or ugly, but those with spider bites and bruises all over them. Run into that on many occasion and wanted to run. Its worse when a driver has dropped them off at hour hotel or motel.....versus you showing up and running...
That's Selena in that rubratings picture... she doesn't work there anymore..... she was the only attractive one there... and she was fine... Her ass was wide with no wrinkles and a perfectly flat stomach... and you see her face... also she had the best set of real tits I've ever encountered.. not the biggest, just the best.... she let me suck them. I went back for someone else and just walked out...... so don't feel bad for walking out.. She was trying to fool you.
Just walk out... I'm tired of stinky pussy and fake pics.... I used to stick it out in the beginning, but don't... just walk. If you smell any used wrapper smell, walk...... they wouldn't like it if your pubes smelled like piss. All we have are each other for info... so much promoting on this site, and lies... people say the girl is fine and you get there and she has a gut that won't quit with a flat ass and hags face. Lets bring this site back to the former glory it used to be.
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  • SeV
  • 01-12-2020, 12:10 PM
Why is it younger fellers think age, hair and/or body type have any effect on a man's game? I suspect many of these ladies' ATFs are 50+ yo, bald, fat guys. Originally Posted by Billogoods
Mines pushing 40
He’s a hoot every time