Better to NOT do incalls with newbies! Not only for the reasons mentioned but for the fact many items on the lady's menu will change at the very least. One would do well to take a line from the movie "Day of the Jackel" (no not the one with Bruce Willia), "half now, half on delivery!" To me, it's "donation when you leave!!" always!
Also, when they come to you tell them "come alone, no Uber, no Lyft, no driver, no passengers". I had one lady who visited me one time, who I had been with a few times before, whose purse was unusually heavy. I couldn't help but think "
GUN!". Nothing happened but I didn't see her again. So, I sometimes will tell a lady "leave your purse in your car!"
Piece of advice for the rookies. Don't enter an incall with anything you cannot afford to lose. That means your wallet, your watch, driver's license, personal phone, house keys, anything.
You walk in with an envelope and a car fob at most. You can throw the former in order to get away with the latter.
Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum