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Already shared in a previous posting as mentioned. I’m on an iPad now, too hard to copy ‘n paste!


I'm glad the OP has no story to share Originally Posted by bigryan2222
I was new to the hobby. Had 1st encounter home here in KC. I was out of town for work and decided I should start trying the hobby talent when I’m on the road. So I reach out and don’t hear back from 1st two girls. Get ahold of and make appointment with 3rd. After stringing me along with a couple of delays, showed up at her incall that ends up being a horrible motel. Right off the bat.....I have some red flags, but I’m new, stupid, & WTF I’m here. Enter the room and it’s very clear she’s white trash but again, I’m new, stupid, and WTF I’m already here. After counting the donation, I went to the restroom. When I came out, she and the $ were gone and her “fiancé” comes walking in. Starts some sort of act asking who I was and where his fiancé was. Pretends to be all upset.... “I can’t believe she’s doing this again behind my back”....blah, blah, blah. I didn’t know what was gonna happen next so i told him I’m leaving and just got TF out. And it’s at that point i chalked it up to a $160 lesson learned.....research, research, research.....listen to your gut instincts......never take anything into meeting except donation & a condom (no wallet, no phone, no car keys, nothing).
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My first fuckup was classic also. Paid a hefty amount up front. Lady stripped down to the basics then wanted BIG bucks for more! Literally pushed her out the door. I’m still waiting for the “black guys” to come and kick my ass!! Thus my “donation when you leave” attitude. Attitudes are developed, not born! Originally Posted by dumars

One thing I neglected to mention was the lady was VERY HOT! The episode destroyed my illusion that beautiful women were sweet and honest!
Mine actually happened two weeks ago. I was in Chicago, and looking for a fix. Saw a woman on Skip that represented herself as a small BBW, in the same suburb I was in. Said she liked anal, rough play, etc. So - I called, she was free, I went over. Everything as advertised. She was a small BBW with nice tits, nice ass, everything. A complete slut - dove for my dick, took it in the ass twice, the whole thing. I was thinking how awesome this was and was gonna hook up with her again the next night. The second load went on her face, which she begged for. So far so good. Right after the facial, there's a knock on the door. It's her boyfriend/pimp. She says, "Time's up," and LETS THE FUCKING GUY IN. It's a skinny white guy. I'm dressing as fast as I can. About the time I'm dressed, he sees her face and says, "YOU CAME ON HER FACE?" and makes a jump at me. Just out of reflex, I swung and connected with his nose. HARD. He goes down. Nose spurting. I took the opportunity to get the fuck outta there, fast. Never heard anything more of it. I was using a burner phone, thank God.
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Because of this, I keep my clothing next to the bed when I visit a girl. Don't give a woman access to your wallet. If you go to the shower, keep your wallet with you, or leave all of your cards and extra money in the car. Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Piece of advice for the rookies. Don't enter an incall with anything you cannot afford to lose. That means your wallet, your watch, driver's license, personal phone, house keys, anything.

You walk in with an envelope and a car fob at most. You can throw the former in order to get away with the latter.
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Piece of advice for the rookies. Don't enter an incall with anything you cannot afford to lose. That means your wallet, your watch, driver's license, personal phone, house keys, anything.

You walk in with an envelope and a car fob at most. You can throw the former in order to get away with the latter. Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum
sad but true and good advice...

i might add if you are a travelling hobby-er like i can be at times - the hotel room safe is your friend - and if you don't have one in your room, and you're seeing someone for the first time, your rental car glove box is a good way to go if you have a good place to hide the keys...
sad but true and good advice...

i might add if you are a travelling hobby-er like i can be at times - the hotel room safe is your friend - and if you don't have one in your room, and you're seeing someone for the first time, your rental car glove box is a good way to go if you have a good place to hide the keys... Originally Posted by hornyoldtoad
Yep. I have a routine I think of as "hooker proofing" the room when I travel.
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Better to NOT do incalls with newbies! Not only for the reasons mentioned but for the fact many items on the lady's menu will change at the very least. One would do well to take a line from the movie "Day of the Jackel" (no not the one with Bruce Willia), "half now, half on delivery!" To me, it's "donation when you leave!!" always!

Also, when they come to you tell them "come alone, no Uber, no Lyft, no driver, no passengers". I had one lady who visited me one time, who I had been with a few times before, whose purse was unusually heavy. I couldn't help but think "GUN!". Nothing happened but I didn't see her again. So, I sometimes will tell a lady "leave your purse in your car!"


Piece of advice for the rookies. Don't enter an incall with anything you cannot afford to lose. That means your wallet, your watch, driver's license, personal phone, house keys, anything.

You walk in with an envelope and a car fob at most. You can throw the former in order to get away with the latter. Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum
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What a shame so many out there who see nothing wrong with stealing from others SMH 😣
As a trained massage therapist I have had a few clients in the business. My only bad experience was when I had a regular that I massaged on a weekly basis. Always paid after the massage. Soon it turned into I forgot my money. Or can I pay you next time. The last one was a 2 hour massage and I didn't get paid. Then she dissapeared.