Exclusive during pandemic??

lol, well thats fine, we agree to disagree

by the way 100% would suffice as being totally wrong, need for the extra two digits.........

and for the record, im not disagreeing with you that some guys have stopped, maybe alot of guys have stopped but there are a lot of other guys that havent. maybe you think their dumb, maybe i do also but everyone has their own risk assessment. there will always be girls who will be willing to see guys and there will always be guys willing to see them Originally Posted by chizzy
That’s the 3rd time you’ve repeated your opinion! Where did I ask for everyone’s risk tolerance assessment? Again, if your not interested, move the fuck on!
Not to add fuel to the fire...
hah, who am I kidding

Buttt
I'm retired,
I hadn't posted for a while and only returned out of boredom from the stay at home orders ( you guys do amuse me) and I have had to tell more than a few "gentlemen" that not only do I not want to meet them but I reminded them it's hard to maintain social distance in a bed.

Chizzy isn't wrong.

And using the changes on Twitter and other social media as an example of people complying with the quarantine.....

Let's see
FOSTA SESTA
COVID-19

Both verified reasons for big brother to monitor internet traffic.
I'd be surprised if the chatter didn't seem to slack off.

PS
Fishing is the best way to get out AND maintain a safe distance.....
Especially if you cast like I do.
I’m amused also. But mine is more of why the need to constantly Butt into a thread repeating something everyone already knows. I’m gonna say this reeeeeeaaaaallll slow for the folks in the back:
1)I know some guys and girls don’t give a fuck about the coronavirus and are having at it. It’s a hooker board...jeez there might be Some people here that make bad decisions. Shocking. I GET IT!
2)here’s the even more shocking part. There are a lot of folks that are looking for the same thing that I am. It’s a thing...trust me.
Sexymaid..Two things you and I agree on:
This search belongs to SA. This site blows even worse during a pandemic. I just was going to hold off re-upping till things calm down more. My mistake.
Fishing is good for social distancing. Only thing is I’m just a beginner so my fishing frustration almost matches my sexual frustration right now. ☹️
Just saw a girl whom I trust, she is the only one. Agree with the maid, fishing is it.
Jinny and Chizzy don't have an agenda I feel her and Chizzy are correct. Why would they say what they did if they didn't feel that way .

Jinny keep posting, your refreshing.

May I add. I'm in the Oilfield business I can show you pic after pic of hundreds of people no one social distancing.
I ask the people at drive-throughs and the supermarket who see hundreds of people a day and handle all their money id they know of anyone getting the virus they all said no.

Now all you liberals please hammer me about being responsible for all the deaths in the world or just one.
I will also add I do the mask and gloves when out.

Thank you
Well it is my humble opinion that most people who previously were active are still active. Not all but most. That goes for girls and guys. I’ve talked to several ladies and they’ve told me they are getting contacted daily by multiple guys. I’ve talk to several guys and only two have said they stopped when the virus issue begun and both now are getting very tempted to begin again. I also have 5 different ladies contact me several times a week asking if I would like to hang out. So all of this leads me to believe that most not all but yes with most it is business as usual.
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Now all you liberals please hammer me about being responsible for all the deaths in the world... Originally Posted by Chase7
Is your name Trump?
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thank you chase,jinny and nice guy

you guys understand what i was saying, it seems charley doesnt

I actually was answering his question but maybe he needs it spelled out better

simply put, its basic economics supply and demand......... if the demand is still there, very few if any are going to agree to an "exclusive" arrangement.....Or should I say, they may agree but they damn well will not hold their end of the bargain lol

this certainly applies to the normal hobby ladies and pretty much to the sa girls too.

I said I didnt do the sa thing much,which is true, however I did previously

now maybe you may find that one or two sa girls that are really scared of this flu crap but honestly ask yourself this question

virtually every sa girl i met or friends have met do not worry about the use of condoms..........if they arent worried about stds, why would you think they are worried about a virus that by all accounts is only serious for the most part for the elderly or those with other conditions?

as far as the trust thing lol, alittle story...I had two friends who told m they had found a sa girl a year or so ago who they had made an exclusive arrangement with. The girl would only see them. I knew both guys, they didnt know each other.... well they both told me who the girl was and , you guessed it lol...the same girl.

the majority of sa girls are no different than pros... if the demand is there, they will grab it period

so maybe now charley will now understand i was answering his post, maybe not

maybe he will just reply with another keyboard warrior smartass comment
or be civil like I have tried to be

either way, stay safe people
thank you chase,jinny and nice guy

you guys understand what i was saying, it seems charley doesnt

I actually was answering his question but maybe he needs it spelled out better

simply put, its basic economics supply and demand......... if the demand is still there, very few if any are going to agree to an "exclusive" arrangement.....Or should I say, they may agree but they damn well will not hold their end of the bargain lol

this certainly applies to the normal hobby ladies and pretty much to the sa girls too.

I said I didnt do the sa thing much,which is true, however I did previously

now maybe you may find that one or two sa girls that are really scared of this flu crap but honestly ask yourself this question

virtually every sa girl i met or friends have met do not worry about the use of condoms..........if they arent worried about stds, why would you think they are worried about a virus that by all accounts is only serious for the most part for the elderly or those with other conditions?

as far as the trust thing lol, alittle story...I had two friends who told m they had found a sa girl a year or so ago who they had made an exclusive arrangement with. The girl would only see them. I knew both guys, they didnt know each other.... well they both told me who the girl was and , you guessed it lol...the same girl.

the majority of sa girls are no different than pros... if the demand is there, they will grab it period

so maybe now charley will now understand i was answering his post, maybe not

maybe he will just reply with another keyboard warrior smartass comment
or be civil like I have tried to be

either way, stay safe people Originally Posted by chizzy
“ this flu crap”? Whatever.
Read your first condescending, all knowing, unwanted post on this thread and you’ll maybe realize the responses your getting from me.
This topic was to discuss those that are interested in what I am. This site was the wrong place which was my mistake.
You know shit about SA. Every girl is different. The two that I was seeing
Before this hit won’t see me because they both live with an elderly person. You keep talking in your bullshit generalities because it fits your agenda, which is what you’ve done repeatedly here.
I know you have an agenda. I’ll be respectful and just leave it at that. I don’t need you throwing up on my topic with your generalities to meet that agenda. Start your own topic on how we should all go back at it. It’s just “this flu crap”.
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lol I have no "agenda" charley,

nor was I condescending to you, I even said, not busting your balls
and I know every girl is "different" . you just dont like someone disagreeing with you...so who is condescending?

you have no idea how to be "respectful" in your replies

but whatever, Im done........again stay safe
“ this flu crap”? Whatever.
Read your first condescending, all knowing, unwanted post on this thread and you’ll maybe realize the responses your getting from me.
This topic was to discuss those that are interested in what I am. This site was the wrong place which was my mistake.
You know shit about SA. Every girl is different. The two that I was seeing
Before this hit won’t see me because they both live with an elderly person. You keep talking in your bullshit generalities because it fits your agenda, which is what you’ve done repeatedly here.
I know you have an agenda. I’ll be respectful and just leave it at that. I don’t need you throwing up on my topic with your generalities to meet that agenda. Start your own topic on how we should all go back at it. It’s just “this flu crap”. Originally Posted by Charley3
Dude what is wrong with you? I’ve been seeing girls on SA for 4 years! I have had several say they were exclusive to me and then saw them with others. No big deal for me since I know many try to get you to think they are low volume or exclusive when most are not. I also don’t get what you are saying about an agenda? What agenda would someone have just by expressing their opinion? I guess I’m just confused and don’t understand all the animosity.
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“ this flu crap”? Whatever.
Read your first condescending, all knowing, unwanted post on this thread and you’ll maybe realize the responses your getting from me. Originally Posted by Charley3
Look - I don't believe Chizzy's first post was accurate - but in subsequent posts Chizzy has said there are some guys who have stopped and others who haven't. I am sure it is the same with SA girls.

I happen to believe it was more than half that stopped in the beginning (I know I and a few other guys I know have stopped) but I am sure it has swung in the other direction as time has gone by. In any case, whether it is 60/40, 50/50, 20/80 or whatever - we are all guessing.

But why would you think you can trust some SA girl who says she will be exclusive during this? If you and she were both truly worried enough to stop and not take the risk, why would you trust someone who in essence says sure, I will now take the risk and be exclusive with you. She doesn't know you and yet she is willing to take the risk when she says she hasn't? Right. Any girl who would say this has in all likihood been taking risks and seeing other guys.

The only person in this equation that you can be sure of is yourself
Look - I don't believe Chizzy's first post was accurate - but in subsequent posts Chizzy has said there are some guys who have stopped and others who haven't. I am sure it is the same with SA girls.

I happen to believe it was more than half that stopped in the beginning (I know I and a few other guys I know have stopped) but I am sure it has swung in the other direction as time has gone by. In any case, whether it is 60/40, 50/50, 20/80 or whatever - we are all guessing.

But why would you think you can trust some SA girl who says she will be exclusive during this? If you and she were both truly worried enough to stop and not take the risk, why would you trust someone who in essence says sure, I will now take the risk and be exclusive with you. She doesn't know you and yet she is willing to take the risk when she says she hasn't? Right. Any girl who would say this has in all likihood been taking risks and seeing other guys.

The only person in this equation that you can be sure of is yourself Originally Posted by berryberry
Your absolutely right. Sort of. Just keep in mind SA is a WIDELY diverse group of girls. There are hood rats that match this site up to nervous college girls that have zero interest or the time to see multiple guys. I’ve been on that site for years and have met easily 50 different girls there. It’s a smorgasbord of very, very diverse girls. I’ve met lying hookers. I’ve also met sorority girls. A lot of them provide real names that allows me to look them up on social media. Can I be 100% sure?? Absolutely not, just trying to reduce my exposure. My two current girls won’t see me because that are following the CDC guidelines and they live with elderly.
This is what I AM looking for. The problem is this site bitches if a girl charges more then $300, so the likelihood of finding what I looking for here is pretty much zero.
On a side note I know it’s good business to “say” it’s business as usual. With the market plunge, lack of excuses to get out of the house with the shutdown, job layoffs and oh yea...a pandemic, things can not possibly be back to normal for all the girls. Can you imagine a working girl trying to set up shop in a hotel today? Traveling girls or outcall only girls can not possibly be back to normal. Local, high volume girls?....that’s a different story apparently.
Honesty and Trust.

I got married when I was 22. At the place of employment at that time I was good friends with several guys at work and several my age.

One of these guys my age got married about the same time I did. Him and I worked daily together and played a weekly card game with 3 others guys one winter.

One of the points of discussion and banter at that time was how much my former wife and I argue, which was daily. She became a super nasty controlling person. The marriage lasted 2.5 years, happy ever since.

He would always point out him and his wife never argue and how fucked up I am that my wife and I don't get along.

I transferred to another division, found out something like two years later him and his wife was divorcing.
He found out she had been fucking 6 different guys where she was employed.

They was so much in love they never argued and was loyal to each other. Turns out he was.
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most will see only regulars.