Free? Menu? Time wasters? 😬😬😬

Not knowing rates, location, or if pics are even real / current is also frustrating on the client side. Some providers respond after 2-3 days. You just have to roll with the punches and if the first communication is upbeat and professional it’s a strong indicator that a session will be fun. I’m amazed by how many providers (rookies) can’t engage in simple introductions
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Are you FREE tonight?


JEZEBEL247's Avatar
🤣 not bitching but just really wanted to know how other people felt about it. 😌.
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You just have to learn how to either answer or not the text if it is something you Don't or Want to answer ,
Would be so surprised how many worth less text we will get day n Night!

My self if the Texter can't read in my add on my web site NO Texting Till Screened , Then I just don't bother answering pain and simple ,

When it is someone I have screened and or seen then I will answer them right away ,or when able .
I do have a auto text I send out when I get a
Text like :
Are You Free: Not Till You Been Screened
Where is your location/ rates (read my add all info is there) ,
Are Your tits real ( real nice )yes we get text like this
I like to F***K you now ( Don't bother me )
All this tell me he's not worth my time

I'm very polite when approached in a Professional Matter and He Introduce himself .
I say 1 out of every 10 text I will get a introduction
This is Why I demand calling for a introduction


�� not bitching but just really wanted to know how other people felt about it. ��. Originally Posted by JEZEBEL247
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🤣 not bitching but just really wanted to know how other people felt about it. 😌. Originally Posted by JEZEBEL247
Sounds to me like most might think you're way over reacting.
  • Lahk
  • 04-30-2020, 10:35 AM
Context is everything. Are you free is another way of saying are you available.
Also, your car is not telling you that your door is a jar. It's telling you that it is "ajar" which means open. Just thought I'd throw that in since it probably confuses you as well.
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Teach these ladies some customer service skills Sherry, if a simple question like "are you free" gets then irritated, imagine a session with them. Originally Posted by BLM69
hahahahaha my dude lol
If I'm meeting a lady for the first time there are 3 perspectives at play. I can see the pics which is how she says she looks (not always accurate) I can read the reviews to see how others said the experience was (not always accurate) and I can call to see what the personality and demeanor is like. (my only personal experience with the gal so far). A sweet, sexy, flirty, sultry, articulate response is what drives my 'spidey sense'. If there's attitude, frustration or whatever the 'whatever' vibe is called - I walk. The gal could care less so it's no loss to her and I simply move on to other opportunities. It's a target rich environment.
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Attitude is almost always an indicator of a providers service. A great attitude and comfort level wins every time. Good Customer Service is very essential in this business!
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  • BLM69
  • 05-01-2020, 10:11 AM
Attitude is almost always an indicator of a providers service. A great attitude and comfort level wins every time. Good Customer Service is very essential in this business! Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion
100% correct!
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Well stated Mr. Brandofan.
My profession is in sales & service. I get time wasting, stupid, and already answered questions from my existing customers and new customers all the time. Instead of complaining about it, I embrace it. If they are calling me, then they aren’t calling my competitors. It also gives me a chance to sell myself to them so they keep coming back, no matter how bad I screw them.
Be glad your phone is ringing & you’re not walking the street. Being unprofessional is the quickest way to be out of business.
I have noticed that sometimes I write some of my customers and ill say " are you around?" which seems to confuse the hell out of some folks. They will reply with " where?" . I have to stop myself and say " are you available to chat" instead of " are you around".

My biggest question with providers that seem to confuse them is " may I ask what your cross street location is?" because if I write " may I ask your location" they will reply with "DALLAS". Grammar is everything.... And yes, I am Free..
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I don't see the need to ask for rates and menu.

1) It's easy enough to find.

B - It's unsafe for everyone's security to ask that via text/email or voice.

And fourth - It ruins the illusion if you're negotiating down to the task level.


That illusion is also why TCB and customer service goes a long way.
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  • BLM69
  • 05-02-2020, 10:23 AM
I don't see the need to ask for rates and menu.

1) It's easy enough to find.

B - It's unsafe for everyone's security to ask that via text/email or voice.

And fourth - It ruins the illusion if you're negotiating down to the task level.


That illusion is also why TCB and customer service goes a long way. Originally Posted by CowboyDave
This sounds like when they give you directions instead of a address, kinda defeats the purpose once you arrive and have the address. That's another "security" measure that don't make sense