That's some solid spin.
The point of OP's story wasn't about her refusing to see him. OP's story was about her threatening to use his personal information against him. Regardless of why she would do that, the fact that a well-known and reputable provider COULD get all that information on a guy and then threaten him with it (again, regardless of cause) is gonna trigger some of us!
As always, don't take any story on here at face value and use your own common sense and judgment.
*-Please note...I'm not taking OP's side. I just don't see why warning someone that his information could be used against him is some kind of problem.
Originally Posted by bkfantasy
I will word my original response in a way that is hopefully easier to understand.
The only information I knew about him was his name, because that was his outgoing voicemail greeting when I called him back. We
never completed any screening, we
never met.
I did not threaten him with anything.
I assume what he said in the OP was an attempt to ruin my career. I don't care to repeat the names he called me, we've heard them all before. Well I take that back, "covid stank puss" was a new one for me, but I digress. He told me he was going to blacklist me once I replied I wasn't interested in his trade. This was him following thru with his threats. Not the other way around.
I assumed he was LE because of his offer to pay in *forbidden topic* so I blocked him and never thought about the exchange again until I saw this post.
I learned a lesson, and that's all I can do. Learn and grow. The next time someone contacts me with an offer I can not accept, I will immediately block them.
I am happy to answer any questions anyone may have, as I value my reputation and would never do anything to jeopardize that. I enjoy this work very much, and 99% of my experiences are positive. As they say, you can't win them all.