Personally it takes a little of the fun out of it for me--provider, girlfriend, its so sterile and acceptable its like the girl next door that you marry--the good girl. (yawn) Cant ANYTHING be a little naughty nowadays and taboo?
Hey don't get me wrong....
I use the word, provider, because the hobbist, tend to understand it.
I prefer the term, Entertainer, because I own, an Entertainment Company.
However, that just is me.