Predator booking vanilla sessions and then switching to BDSM

Agree just refund his deposit and move on. Originally Posted by Boredinop

disagree

keep the money

one "NO" report will not hurt her or any good hook
most times make more problems for the Op of Report

disagree

keep the money

one "NO" report will not hurt her or any good hook
most times make more problems for the Op of Report

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

The guy she is referring to sounds like a jerk. Regardless, she didn't actually provide him any service. Why keep the money is this situation is just turning into a sour cup of soup? If she thinks he is still going to cause her grief even if she does return the deposit, then I would say no.

The guy she is referring to sounds like a jerk. Regardless, she didn't actually provide him any service. Why keep the money is this situation is just turning into a sour cup of soup? If she thinks he is still going to cause her grief even if she does return the deposit, then I would say no. Originally Posted by Pangolier

ok

There is a gentleman threatening to write a bad review on me because I do not feel safe honoring his appointment...........

This man is threatening me saying he will report me to you all for theft saying I'm stealing his deposit because I will not go through this appointment.

This is after he booked a vanilla session but try to switch it to BDSM.
.............
It is assault to try and force unwanted BDSM on to someone

and yes I do have this person's information if I need to report it to a moderator or any of the ladies

Everyone have a good day and thanks for your time Originally Posted by Sienna91

Both of you are wrong!
He is wrong for not being clear upfront about what he expected. However, in this hobby there is a lot unknown for a first visit.

You are wrong for accepting a deposit, then you refused to return the deposit when the arrangement was not what either of you wanted.

Return the money, it is not worth even writing about. Keeping it is theft, and most guys would agree. Thus, most guys will refuse to see you. It doesn't matter is you are good-looking: no guy wants to put up with a thief.

Things like this is why on one should ask for, nor receive an upfront deposit. Paying a small retainer for a face to face private meeting in an out of the way cafe could help both parties discuss what is expected, and available. That type of meeting allows the guy to walk away if the lady shows herself to be a threat, or unsafe: the same applies to the lady.

The guy she is referring to sounds like a jerk. Regardless, she didn't actually provide him any service. Why keep the money is this situation is just turning into a sour cup of soup? If she thinks he is still going to cause her grief even if she does return the deposit, then I would say no. Originally Posted by Pangolier

Think about it. He is complaining about the deposit. How could he cause her any grief if the deposit is returned? The answer, he can't. It is her choice not to offer a specific service, but she can't keep the money for a reservation that she refused follow through with - for any reason.


I just went back and looked, this lady comes to Kansas City: she is now on my never will see list. She is not worth the time and trouble she causes.


Just read what she said and then look at the heading in the beginning:

"Predator booking vanilla sessions and then switching to BDSM."

Really now the term Predator is very inappropriate on her part. He was up front, and honest, with her about what he would like the session to be. She is angry and won't return the deposit.

There are plenty of other ladies who don't act like this.

Time to move on.

Give him back his fucking deposit and this will all be over.

Jesus you fucking hookers love drama.

Give him back his fucking deposit and this will all be over.

Jesus you fucking hookers love drama. Originally Posted by Gotyour6

you made me read the 1st post dam you

ya she owes him the money