How many people have you had sex with?

Like, Jake, I kept keeping track of the number years ago. AA

I was an athlete at a major university so getting laid was easy. I used to keep a list of names, bra sizes, and nipple type. For awhile I would encourage women to leave their bra behind and still have a pile bras, as a way to mark their territory.

Then I settled into a relationship had a couple of kids, and suddenly found myself single after 19 years of marriage. I had a dad body by then and found my way to the Hobby. I went wild with the hobby. At that point in time the great recession was ongoing and I found many women who for $180 would do anything I want.

My sex partner exploded, if it walked and she was willing for $180 for the hour...I penatrated it.

Now with most hobby rates exceedingly an hourly rate of an attorney I have pulled back. I have two regulars and two friends and benefits relationships that meet my needs.

I didn't always keep track but when I started I went back and tried to remember all I had seen. Total is around 120 now after 20+ years of mongering. Not all of them were intercourse, some hj and bj. Not a huge number but I have done as much as I could afford with both time and money. Now that the kids are older and leaving the house, I'll have more time and money to hobby. Originally Posted by jajake56

Does a handy count to the total?

I wish I'd "kept book". Every once in a while I make a list and hide it (my SO knows I don't send Christmas cards) but then realize I forgot someone...I think I'm close to 60, but only 5 or 6 hobby related.

I'm probably at 250sh, 100 of them were hookups, the rest came from tricking. Had better times with hookups, took them for granted, now I'm chasing the good times with hookers

I'm definitely no player, number of different women is quite low. Pre-COVID, I traveled frequently for work, several weeks at a time in each location. I'm more about quality than quantity, so my goal each time was to find one provider and repeat the whole time I was in that city. Outside of hobby activities, my total is even lower. And that's despite being married twice and going to swinger parties. Still friends with a lot of those people and still get together, but after all these years, most everyone is partnered up and no longer actually swings. It's more like an excuse to get together, reminisce, and drink.
I'm actually under 20. Even worse - I can remember all their names (or provider names).

I a virgin too. I scared to get nude is n front of a woman.

IN my mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Sure . . .in my head I can be quite a player; rich, handsome, irritable, insatiable and inexhaustible.

I a virgin too. I scared to get nude is n front of a woman. Originally Posted by Trumptester

Turn down the lights. She probably doesn't really want to see you either.

I asked this question of a stripper during an overnight date. She sheepishly said around 150, then asked my count. I told her I lost count years ago, but somewhere over 3,000...truth. Should have seen the look on her face.

long time ago, I had intercourse with 10 women in Tijuana, not at the same time, in a 12 hour period.

I was in my 20's

rooms were 30 minutes at a time

50 dollars a pop

long time ago

lots of fun

I asked this question of a stripper during an overnight date. She sheepishly said around 150, then asked my count. I told her I lost count years ago, but somewhere over 3,000...truth. Should have seen the look on her face. Originally Posted by reddog1951

LOL


i think women are intimidated by men who sleep with many women.

Meaning, they would rather pass.

funny thing is, how many have they slept with?? We never ask. but yet, we are bad if we sleep with two women in one night.

If you repeat with a professional or a civie FWB, does those only count as one?

If you repeat with a professional or a civie FWB, does those only count as one? Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

Yep that counts as one. Each count is with a new human not multiple bangs with one. Animals, Dolls, machines and any other tool don't count either....Good question

I literally have no idea, I quit counting in college.

i think 9 total, i usually find a nice young clean girl and stick with her, get her to offer bbfs cip and call it a good day. started mongering 14 months ago. I am a sucker for a nice bbbj cim, $40 to $80 cant go wrong, better than doing it yourself