Questions about Cuckold

It is not necessarily a "black" thang.

I'm white, stocky build and a regular guy. I think "CONFIDENCE" has more to do with it than anything else.

I used to do cuck scenes with a Domme friend of mine. She had several clients who would request me and we always had a blast. I can get as into it as they want. Drop me a line and we can discuss it more, this is one of my favorite scenes to play.

Hmm I guess I have my Quest cut out for me....
finding 2 Alfa Males!!! Originally Posted by LongleggedLucy

I have played this role many time before in different scenes. I have also switched so I have a good idea what everyone is looking for. Let me know if you need my help. I love these types of play dates.

I'd be very interested in a cuckold scene as the cuck. Race doesn't matter to me, it's all a mental game anyways. Tied up in a chair and put in chastity, then watch people go at it? Or even be blindfolded and listen to them go at it? Maybe some dirty talk during about how it's too bad I wasn't there to help, throw in some light humiliation talk and taunting....

Where do I sign up!

Bad....sounds like a take a number thing to me!

I have never seen it written that a alpha male had to be the one taunting the cuckold. I have very successfully held cuckold sessions with another woman and a strap-on. It's all in the presentation, the humiliation and the senses.

I would be happy to assist anyone in need of this role. I have a alpha male whom I have taunted and refused satisfaction.. (he had to go home to get his cookie). This same male can also play the alpha male as well.

Good to see this discussion here and know I am not alone. I have contacted two couple providers through the years hoping to fulfill my cuckold fantasies. It is without a doubt my most prevalent fantasy! Both couples seemed willing to indulge, but not really into it so I passed. I have an SO who indulges with verbal teasing around the subject, but the thought of being able to really live it out is intoxicating. I haven't played much in the last couple of years, but if I found the right person/persons it would definitely bring me out of hiding!

I remember a number of cuckold scenarios fondly. In my previous swinging life, I was a great bull. (Of course...I may want to try it again soon!)

I fondly remember a handful of couples whose husbands were cuckolds by choice, who when I would come over would hand their wives over to me, and I would do with them what I wanted (and what they wanted), down to the most intimate acts a couple could do. I was never into the verbal abuse part of it that some couples are into. All the while, he's at the edge of the bed, or across the room watching, not saying a word. There's nothing said by him as he yanks on a 4" stub while his wife is screaming in pleasure.

Thinking about it, I probably love it more than even I think I do sometimes.

I too am not one who buys into the black myth...but know it's a clear preference for some couples.

Yes, I'd be into such a scene with a provider, as long as I were the bull, of course. (Not that I mind watching -- but that would be by choice, recording the session mentally for future masturbation fodder.)

I actually meant to comment also on the 'black' part of the OP's questions. It seems I am in the minority of cuckold fans, but the black guy thing adds nothing to it for me unless it was just the preference of my partner. In that scene it is all about her getting exactly what she wants and if that is it, then so be it, but I don't see why that is such a big part for so many people unless it is just the size thing. In our roleplay my SO always describes bigger parts pleasuring her, but has never described them as black or white...just big!

I have never seen it written that a alpha male had to be the one taunting the cuckold. I have very successfully held cuckold sessions with another woman and a strap-on. It's all in the presentation, the humiliation and the senses.

I would be happy to assist anyone in need of this role. I have a alpha male whom I have taunted and refused satisfaction.. (he had to go home to get his cookie). This same male can also play the alpha male as well. Originally Posted by MsKriss4Play

Never have I wanted to visit Kansas more....

Another question for the fellow cuckolds out there: What is the primary motivator? Is it seeing your partner being used by another person (friendly cuck) is it the humiliation of not being good enough and being shown? If it is the latter, are there any guys who are into cleaning up the lady afterwards, whether it be oral, to a snowball, or (dare I say it) perhaps even cleaning up the strapon in the impressive MissKriss's scenario?

And I am curious how many are into the potential forced bi aspects of it? I know for me the fantasy of it is intriguing, but I'm not so sure that's one I'd be interested in trying any time soon. Cleaning up the strapon afterwards though? Show me the line for that one and I'm in it...

I too have a keen interest in this sort of experience. Oddly enough, it was first brought to my attention by a couple where I took the Alpha role. But I kept thinking that it would be more fitting for me to be in the other role. But I have never managed to find partners open to the idea.

Anyway, it is becoming quite prevalent according to this article http://www.nerve.com/dispatches/ma/cuckold. The author touches on the black bull fantasy. For me, I am indifferent to that aspect, though I do find the contrast of skin color aesthetically pleasing.

How did I miss this topic???

Courtesy bump. Right now, it's a topic that I'm thinking a lot about.

Elisabeth