Why are some hobbyists rude and disrespectful???

jacksparrow--

I did state how there is an abligation to be nice, well then you asked about our rudeness. Well from this week in visitng Houston, me being rude:
-A guy had the correct hotel address and showed up on time, to the wrong hotel. I have clients literally back to back, he was a pre-book 50% off rate so I kindly said "Have a wonderful day". He showed up 5 minutes late knocking on the correct door... and I just stared at the door... bye bye!
- A client wanted to see me within 30 minutes, I told him this was not Pizza Hut
- A client wanted to film, told him my Boy-Girl Rate, get tested, hire a pro-crew and learn to open up for the camera, make sure his BMI was in check (6-pack abss), and sign a lease that I will sue him for 1million bucks if its leaked

Only 3 rude outbreaks in a packed week. 100% of p411 going through and 1 out of 60 Backpage phone calls being legit... I would say, I behaved!

(devilish grin)

xox- Angela
OP changed the terms at the last moment. Period.

If they don't keep your info, why did you include the client in this snafu?

While his reaction may have been over the top, I would have cancelled appointment.

I'd be willing to bet, had you seen this guy multiple times and established yourself with him, he'd be okay with this problem. We are all human, we all make mistakes.
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I have clients literally back to back Originally Posted by AngelaAspenXXX
Thats just nasty, I hope the 2nd guy at least enjoys getting the sloppy seconds covered in some other dudes sweat and Jizz
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  • 08-21-2011, 01:25 PM
For 500 you would hope she took an hour break between, at least give that shit some time to close up a little. Maybe bathe the last dude off a bit. Even a hdh can be a nasty hoe. Sometimes paying more just don't get you more. Sounds like that shits seen more beatings then the battered women's shelter.
Sounds like I would rather have Pizza Hut.
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Thats just nasty, I hope the 2nd guy at least enjoys getting the sloppy seconds covered in some other dudes sweat and Jizz Originally Posted by ImaMrCool
For 500 you would hope she took an hour break between, at least give that shit some time to close up a little. Maybe bathe the last dude off a bit. Even a hdh can be a nasty hoe. Sometimes paying more just don't get you more. Sounds like that shits seen more beatings then the battered women's shelter. Originally Posted by trey

bwahahahahahahahahahahhaahahha I was waiting for someone to catch that.

Trey, That has to be the funniest shit I've ever read. LMBO

I see 2/3 a day when touring and one a day at home. When you have a sweet multi-hour package you wouldn't have to worry about "losing money" or hell have a two hour minimum for crying out loud.

Cleanliness and Respect for the client should be number one priority. you don't want to smell like sex/condoms before the guy touches you. -------AND have that posted on a review? - HORRID!
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The first time needs to go flawlessly or there won't be a second time.
If you kiss enough toads eventually you'll find a prince. Unfortunately the reverse is also true. If all you've kissed so far is one toad, you are pretty lucky.
i will chime in a little since i am really enjoying the conversation. I am amazed at the level of maturity in the thread too.

Enough of that. I think for Angela, i did not expect that level of activity given your rates. The reason for high rates for most providers is to limit the number of clients. You should probably raise them to where you are not getting back to back clients and not too high that you are not making enough. you can make the same amount seeing less people with more hobby funds. It's a business, obey the laws of supply and demand. your demand is high, supply is constant (only 1 of you available), means you can raise the price and though you get less sales, still make the same profit, but be careful, there are substitutes to what you are providing.

On the topic of why some people are rude, this is a service oriented business, and that means, you deal with people's day to day attitudes and mood changes. Some people are just asses who think they can treat a lady wrong just because they paid. And i love ladies who are not nice just because you paid but because it is the way they treat everybody and trust me, it shows when you are faking it. The guy may have been on a time crunch and got pissed at the delay, or maybe he got scared, or you were going to be the best part of his day and ended up adding to his frustrations. Either way, there is way too many respectful gentlemen and you will have lots more good times. Just remember not to project your frustrations with one client to the rest.
  • romab
  • 08-22-2011, 02:37 AM
Sorry he didn't handle the change in plans in a more professional manner. Do agree with backing out, as last minute changes in a brand new situation can bring on some real danger alarms. Good lesson - double check your end and hopefully will reduce these outcomes.

Damn Angela - no wonder you are tilted in many of your photos. Chip that big on your shoulder must weigh a ton. Going to sound really funky at 40 R
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  • Dad
  • 08-22-2011, 09:09 AM
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  • Dad
  • 08-22-2011, 09:10 AM
...He showed up 5 minutes late knocking on the correct door... and I just stared at the door... bye bye! Originally Posted by AngelaAspenXXX
Lucky for him for not enduring 55 minutes with a rude provider!