I totally see your point Lana. I can relate to both sides of this threAD. I am one of those many providers who falls in to this catagory, and I am embarrassed to admit that. I learned that after you post your ad, spend some conversing in chat, amd you update your pictures, there really isnt much else you can do to get the phone to ring. So that being said, it is more likely to hurt you if you post a threAD in the co-ed section, or redundently tell people your horny, lonely, or broke. To be quite brusque, the more you advertise your situation, the more your hurting it. Who wants to see a provider who is bored or lonely? When I am bored or lonely I always go to my safe place and relax or I will find something I enjoy that keeps me busy. The more assidious you are in finding work, the more mundane you become. You are more then likely going to call a provider who is mentioned on the site by the hobbiest, not so much herself. I am all for people who have confidence and you should exhibit your qualities and not come off as deprived.
So, I do argree with you Lana and you do deserve your threAD here and there... but I do not mind if they continue to belittle themselves and their number of clients.. While they are doing so, we are appreciated and looked at more due to the lack of maturity and neediness they display.
P.S- I tried to do my best and edit and choose my words wiesely. That is one of the many things I am trying to improve while I am trying to better myself, image, and respect.
If you just added your also Blonde, then everyone would understand and cut you some slack. ( I am joking, I have nothing against blondes, I love blonds. Take that as humor )
If you just added your also Blonde, then everyone would understand and cut you some slack. ( I am joking, I have nothing against blondes, I love blonds. Take that as humor )
Originally Posted by Bubba3452