What would you do ?

Your welcome to message me Originally Posted by JasminDelights

I will!

I find that alot of hobbyist end up back.in the hobby.
Not always but we are all sexual creatures with a desire to taste different flavors.
Until the sb world exploded I had never been with a mixed race woman now I cant get enough of it.
I dont get it

Selfishlessly speaking I have always wanted to book an appointment so I better get on that

If you post this in the women’s area I’ll answer honestly. Provider feedback may help you out a little more. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

You could actually just PM her you know. LOL

I've seen lots of ladies be able to leave and lots end up coming back to the hobby. In the end you should follow your heart and see what happens. Love is a fickle thing and if you are afraid to take the chance then you may just end up alone.

Similar to CryptKicker, I've seen gals leave for a SO, and I've seen quite a few return (one of my favs just came back after dumping her SO).

As a contrast, in the civie world do not some relationships only last a few months? Or several months, or longer, but still break up?

My point being, regardless if the gal or guy are in hobby, or omg both are civies, it's still a one to one thing between the two folks.

My experience says it's not likely you'll stay happyily sattisfied. Not to sound negative just reality.

You could actually just PM her you know. LOL Originally Posted by CryptKicker

Haha yeah. I don’t like to randomly PM providers or anyone. But I will

My experience says it's not likely you'll stay happyily sattisfied. Not to sound negative just reality. Originally Posted by yourdesire

I know your right about that. Sexually I can’t get enough and I’m always the first to cheat just cause I am a very sexual creature and just can’t get the idea of what if the sex is better on the other side of the grass. I agree with cryptkicker if I don’t try I might end up that crazy cat lady and y’all know how I’m sincerely not a fan of cats even though my room mate has one.
Miss you YD

Maybe you can have an open relationship with him with multiple partners together and separately but always go home to each other each night. Just a thought. Jealousy would be something that you both would have to keep in check there though.

Do what you want to do, but I know what I am going to do before 2/1/22…and i
I bet you do as well…will see you soon and more…

Maybe you can have an open relationship with him with multiple partners together and separately but always go home to each other each night. Just a thought. Jealousy would be something that you both would have to keep in check there though. Originally Posted by CryptKicker

I like that recommendation but I’m going to have to float the boat a bit and see how things play out.

Do what’s right for you? If this person is taking care of you 100% then that could answer a question. Or is this person wanting you to take care of them!! Life is about your happiness!!

It is one things if he asks you to stop, while you two just date.
It is a whole different thing if he asks you to move in with him and share your lives together.

I can't tell you what to do. Everyone's experiences are custom made to just themselves. Regret is a tough pill to swallow. Just do your best at whatever you decide.

You’ll most likely be selling yourself short on this. You’ll initially be ok until the infatuation wears off…then your desires will take over. It’ll be a daily struggle. I’d also think the monetary aspect would be a detractor. Based on your many positive reviews, your income stream from the hobby affords you options you’ll most likely be giving up.

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