- LAVixian
- 08-23-2011, 03:27 PM
Goodness, I completely understand. I am truly sorry hun.
- Outdoorsman
- 08-23-2011, 04:01 PM
I believe it is like I have said in the other thread concerning this issue. There are three sides to the story his side, her side, and the truth.
I certainly understand not seeing a guy if he makes threatening phone calls, makes complete sense to me. And I believe Tanner you are a beautiful lady that has good reviews and are building a good reputation in this business.
In all reality this is not the first guy to claim NCNS from you, so realize when someone like me sees this, A man that has never visited you, I am a bit leary on what really went down and it would concern me.
I do not like that you did not answer his phone even though he was 30 minutes late, tells me you may not have had any intention to see him after booking. Not saying that is what happened just saying it seems possible. Maybe, you were tired at this point and Pappa John's pizza was looking real good, IDK. Not saying that is what happened either. What I am saying is that on your part I think it was irresponsible to decide to not answer the phone or to decide to not call him after he was already 15 mins late.
Also, your story sort of changed, not completely but your initial post led me to believe he did not call you just prior to time of appt. maybe I misread but later you state he called at right time and said he was there, well after 5 mins of being "here" I would call and say "wtf?!" but you did not.
In no way am I saying what he did was right, if he in fact told you he was there and he was not, that is irresponsible on his part. If he was late and did not call you again his bad. Never, ever would I say threatening phone calls or harrassment is the right thing for him to do. If these things are happening I am sorry that you are going thru that. I trust LaVixian she has posted here a very long time and is a straight up person.
This is what i do know, he is not posting and explaining and prolly that is the best action for him to take. if he screwed up, which I beleive he did, hopefully he learned from it and is moving forward. I just suggest you do the same. Learn from your mistake, do not beat yourself up over it, and move forward. You will do fine. Just a suggestion.
I certainly understand not seeing a guy if he makes threatening phone calls, makes complete sense to me. And I believe Tanner you are a beautiful lady that has good reviews and are building a good reputation in this business.
In all reality this is not the first guy to claim NCNS from you, so realize when someone like me sees this, A man that has never visited you, I am a bit leary on what really went down and it would concern me.
I do not like that you did not answer his phone even though he was 30 minutes late, tells me you may not have had any intention to see him after booking. Not saying that is what happened just saying it seems possible. Maybe, you were tired at this point and Pappa John's pizza was looking real good, IDK. Not saying that is what happened either. What I am saying is that on your part I think it was irresponsible to decide to not answer the phone or to decide to not call him after he was already 15 mins late.
Also, your story sort of changed, not completely but your initial post led me to believe he did not call you just prior to time of appt. maybe I misread but later you state he called at right time and said he was there, well after 5 mins of being "here" I would call and say "wtf?!" but you did not.
In no way am I saying what he did was right, if he in fact told you he was there and he was not, that is irresponsible on his part. If he was late and did not call you again his bad. Never, ever would I say threatening phone calls or harrassment is the right thing for him to do. If these things are happening I am sorry that you are going thru that. I trust LaVixian she has posted here a very long time and is a straight up person.
This is what i do know, he is not posting and explaining and prolly that is the best action for him to take. if he screwed up, which I beleive he did, hopefully he learned from it and is moving forward. I just suggest you do the same. Learn from your mistake, do not beat yourself up over it, and move forward. You will do fine. Just a suggestion.
- ax1971
- 08-23-2011, 06:12 PM
The way I read Tanner's post, it says she already felt something was off during earlier calls, but not enough to cancel. If she didn't cancel, then she better answer his call. But, even if something goes wrong, the guy should move on and not be calling or texting excessively.
I was late once (for someone else, not Tanner) because I didn't know an area and lacked useful info about location until the last minute. I apologized yet was greeted with discomfort and was reminded repeatedly that I was late (I still had fun though). I wonder if I'm reading about a variation of that with more sensitive egos. I notice people who get twisted up about lateness are sometimes racking up lateness and no-shows of their own. It's easy to get upset when the other person is late yet excuse yourself for the same.
I would like to meet Tanner. I found her reviews mixed but I like her most of the time when she writes. But, what's with the comments (elsewhere, and made in a positive light) about her "dimples"? I thought those were piercings, but I don't have a real clear picture.
I was late once (for someone else, not Tanner) because I didn't know an area and lacked useful info about location until the last minute. I apologized yet was greeted with discomfort and was reminded repeatedly that I was late (I still had fun though). I wonder if I'm reading about a variation of that with more sensitive egos. I notice people who get twisted up about lateness are sometimes racking up lateness and no-shows of their own. It's easy to get upset when the other person is late yet excuse yourself for the same.
I would like to meet Tanner. I found her reviews mixed but I like her most of the time when she writes. But, what's with the comments (elsewhere, and made in a positive light) about her "dimples"? I thought those were piercings, but I don't have a real clear picture.