Say what you do and do what you say.

hmmm...all i have to say it this.....sexy...and beauty... can lose its luster quickly
when one starts to talk....
Originally Posted by anita germane

elg.......

Anita. bikini top. mmmmm note to self meet to just talk over things would be better on a warmer day.

but I look at it this way. She(in the ad) is bikini ready as much as I am speedos ready


mmmm ok she is more bikini ready

note: not me but close. I have no owned ring. I was fit and trim once upon a time. Time has not been good to me. Or was that the garbage plate to go!!!!

Thank you Brooke. This thread was not a knock on the girls bodies. It was a knock on the ads they place. Like Brooke said if the ad says they have blonde hair and the pic show brunette, post the proper pic.
Whatever DT added to this thread is no longer visible, but the reactions certainly are. Originally Posted by naughtyfun

I actually don't think that any of the reactions are to what I posted except Brooke's initial post. Otherwise, my statement had long been edited, but whatever.

Thank you Brooke. This thread was not a knock on the girls bodies. It was a knock on the ads they place. Like Brooke said if the ad says they have blonde hair and the pic show brunette, post the proper pic.
Whatever DT added to this thread is no longer visible, but the reactions certainly are. Originally Posted by naughtyfun

I get your point NF. But the examples you give are from BP. Not like decieving ads from there are anything new. Seems as though our ladies here, p411 are pretty well spot on.

This is pretty common. It's just an attempt at marketing herself.
I will agree with OP about the bikini body. Apparently her standards differ from the norm.

I used to get sh*t all the time that my photos weren't accurate with my hair color. I have been a blonde, a brunette, and a redhead all while providing and I worked for an agency who obviously is color blind or something because I was always listed as something other than I am. But I try to keep up with my current futures so that my pictures are accurate with how I currently look.

Its fine to change your hair... I am all for change. Just keep it real and don't list your self as a blonde bombshell when currently your hair color is red, black, brown w/e....

I could care less if I get chili or not. It's not gonna make me feel any different or take back what I have said. I don't like going to the beach and seeing
your not attractive....

Even donatella versace doesn't look sexy but I sure bet she thought she did.....

even with me being far form speedo ready. I will save you from posting pic again. Of the two pic's posted by brooke. If it was only the two to pick from mmmm I pic the 2nd one. But hay its a beach let all wear what they want. If ya keep looking all will find something ya want to look at.

at great risk
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as took by another member here on a fishing trip
Ya I sure ant turning any female heads
But some sure seem glad to see me

If the gals can post a pic with no face. So can I. But I will spare ya the lots of skin pic's. I'm surprised Hunter is not blind from seeing that. LOL
Note how that large coat looks to be overly full.

mmmmm I remember that day. That was the only fish that gave me a hard time getting the hook out that day. But it was the only pike we caught that day. pike fight to the end. But that one lived. even with the loss of blood. Good thing my boat has heat, as that one did not. Had me some fish latter that day. mmmm I can't remember was it "hunter fish" or "ATF fish". Or that "other one fish". doesn't matter I have had them all.

note: it was not hunter fish at that time. It was stilled called Cindy.

I understand where your coming from nf...

as a provider that posts on bp..i try to make my title as catchy as i can to get potential clients to look at my ad...like she did ..and you looked at it..
so it worked..

I believe that if its truely the girl in the pics that answer the door..what does it matter if she posts a pic of her blonde and she answers the door brunette...

as long as its her..at one point I was advertising I was blonde and i was brunette because most clients were telling me I had dirty blonde hair....so okay..Im blonde..

I think the lady is working with what God gave her and is working it well..she is showing you she's a bigger lady in all her pics. And that she has some sexy outfits as well...

So you know your not getting a lady that's 100lbs..but your getting one that can carry herself well..she can be classy and sassy..

and folks may wanna concentrate more there as opposed to the title in the ad..

i think when a provider downs another provider for how their body is in photo's... that lacks class..you should be supporting that girl..not bringing her down..
She may turn out to be a gem here in the future..I hope you don't ever have to go to her for a vouch..and she's seen this thread..

being a provider is one of the most "eyes on you job" there is...post like these really show me how "eyes on" it really is...

First... The lady did not mention anywhere in her headline that she is "bikini ready", that is in her actual ad.... But like Shayla states her idea of bikini body is much different than the norm.

I guess it's a good thing I don't accept bp girls as references So I don't have to worry either way if she gives me a vouch or not, I won't be contacting her for one 95% of ladies on backpage don't screen.. but that's another topic

I understand where your coming from nf...

as a provider that posts on bp..i try to make my title as catchy as i can to get potential clients to look at my ad...like she did ..and you looked at it..
so it worked..

I believe that if its truely the girl in the pics that answer the door..what does it matter if she posts a pic of her blonde and she answers the door brunette...

as long as its her..at one point I was advertising I was blonde and i was brunette because most clients were telling me I had dirty blonde hair....so okay..Im blonde..

I think the lady is working with what God gave her and is working it well..she is showing you she's a bigger lady in all her pics. And that she has some sexy outfits as well...

So you know your not getting a lady that's 100lbs..but your getting one that can carry herself well..she can be classy and sassy..

and folks may wanna concentrate more there as opposed to the title in the ad..

i think when a provider downs another provider for how their body is in photo's... that lacks class..you should be supporting that girl..not bringing her down..
She may turn out to be a gem here in the future..I hope you don't ever have to go to her for a vouch..and she's seen this thread..

being a provider is one of the most "eyes on you job" there is...post like these really show me how "eyes on" it really is... Originally Posted by anita germane

Excellent, Anita... :-)

well then brooke you should probably let the gents know you wont be accepting my vouch either..cuz Im as well a bp girl...

First... The lady did not mention anywhere in her headline that she is "bikini ready", that is in her actual ad.... But like Shayla states her idea of bikini body is much different than the norm.

I guess it's a good thing I don't accept bp girls as references So I don't have to worry either way if she gives me a vouch or not, I won't be contacting her for one 95% of ladies on backpage don't screen.. but that's another topic Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

But you can have good references, and still wish you did not meet latter.

Screening in person or over the phone is becoming a lost art. Most gals here rely on references. That's not a bad thing. But talking to providers at the AC. And reading threads in ISO. Where I was screening as we talked, or guys that reply in threads where talking to a provider over the phone and screening. It seems that they(the gals) are not screening or listening for the warnings. All they hear or see is the $ sign's rolling in there heads.

example:

A few weeks ago a new young lady walks in the AC. As she works the bar I do not see any sign of a boyfriend or pimp. As I'm shelling peanuts I keep watching. She was very easy to look at. She get near me and I call her over. Offer some nuts and start to talk. Then I asked her if I could buy her a drink. As she is eating some peanuts. She looks up at me and my buddy and says. "Are ether one of you two ready to go right now." I say after a drink and some chat to see where and what we are getting into. Says forget it. Turns to the guy at a table behind us and asks "are you ready". He says if he, (pointing at me) is not going I'm not going. She starts to rush out of the bar. But one of the many street players in the bar grabs her. As we start to LOL I say "well she did not pass my screening". And the bar can not make money that way.(and she was going from guy to guy much to fast)( a red flag I had noted but wanted to talk to anyways, she was easy very easy on the eyes)(But I had great time with a few that where not all that good looking. Shelby for one. wonder where she is now or doing)

Way to many are to fast looking for the buck. And not what they may be getting into. So she got a date as one guy there did also. But nether one has any idea of the other. Or getting into.

By the way latter the guy that took her. I asked how it went latter when he came back. He said she was ok but to much in a rush. It happens to him a lot. And all I could think of was
No way of screening is perfect. But no screening at all is a no go for me. The way on this board the providers use is ok. I like in person better. I may not or may not go after the first chat. If I have not after the 2 or 3 time. Most likely will not. On this board ya I'm gun shy. To slow to pull the trigger. Even after many posts or PM's or email and what ever over a phone. Most times I watch a night or two in a bar before I even talk to.

Being gun shy here is just me. I'm better with in person. I have a old review on the old board as prof. She was a good provider, I think I'm ok but the two of us should have never never meet each other. So I had one bad time out of 4 meet. I have had much better odds of having a good time if meet in person first. edit: guessing 1 bad meet out of 30. ouch been at that long time 30 years

Ya she shelled two peanut shells and gave up on me so I gave up on her . Come on ya need the time of at least one rum and coke or a beer whatever. Way to many in a rush on both sides, now days for me. no matter how ya met. But here its looks to be to many guys in a rush. Where I'm looking its both.

Most here have never seen Hunter turn a guy down over the phone or in person. Its not pretty. Its funny if your not the one getting it. And pure hell if you are the one getting it. And shes the nice one I see. And back in the day it was heaven to watch all 3 work a bar. Even with the fact each did not like me seeing the other two.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is beautiful to someone. If you have nothing nice to say.........

Who cares.. you dont like an ad dont see the lady.. You also are forgetting not everyone is good at marketing/business, some are still learning.. Im betting her picture are dead on accurate..

Not everyone sees the world the same way or the people in it. I personally will see beauty where others dont.. step outside the stereotypical box.


Everyone has their own cup of tea..

cuz Im as well a bp girl... Originally Posted by anita germane

You BP girls are so bad.......





elg......